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Do you have a sexual worry that is difficult to talk about, or are you the spouse or partner of someone with a sexual problem?

Perhaps your partner has erection problems or finds sex painful, or perhaps you’ve lost interest in sex altogether.


Talk about it, if you can, in a problem-solving way. As sex counsellor Susie Hayman says, “It’s amazing how many people just lie there wishing their partner was a mind reader.” Better to suggest "I'm sure there's something we can do about this" than hope the problem will sort itself out.

Learn about it. Next, learn as much as you can about the problem. We have lots of information on this site  – select a problem in the right hand box for more information.

If you can’t find what you’re looking for, please leave an anonymous comment below with details of your problem so that we can improve the information we provide.

Seek help. Finally, and importantly, seek the help you need. Bring the problem to your doctor's attention. He/she is sure to have discussed the same issue with many patients, and will treat it like any other medical condition. Remember, your doctor is used to discussing personal matters.

Tackle it, move on.

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Posted by Penis Query on 28/08/2017 at 09:07

Hi, I am 17 yrs old , male uncircumcised virgin, and I am really worried because for the last 2 years everyday I use to get into the mood and will daily masterbate solo but yesterday night I went to my gf's house where we were initially fooling around and I as really in the mood and my penis was fully erect and was thinking that tonight might be the night, but my gf started stroking my penis and my foreskin really got pulled back and I felt the small pain and couple of minutes after that incident my dick started getting soft and I didn't get into the mood ever since yesterday night. I am not sure what happened as I usually get into the mood everyday but it's been almost full day and I don't feel horny, I tried watching porn still no change. I would appreciate if someone knows what's going on down there.

Posted by Optional on 03/06/2017 at 10:58

Am a 23 young guy who has never had sex in my life but keeps on releasing sermen when I watch movies and also ejaculate when I see sexy movies and stuff can you be of help please.

Posted by Aarti on 15/05/2017 at 07:15

I just wanna tight my vagina. From Indian home remedies. I have done sex many times. I thought that my vagina is very loose. Please help me. Give some home remedies to restore the elasticity of my vagina.

Posted by Optional on 05/05/2017 at 06:12

Am a 23 young guy who has never had sex in my life but keeps on releasing sermen when I watch movies and also ejaculate when I see sexy movies and stuff can you be of help please.

Posted by Blessing on 02/01/2017 at 10:05

Thank you about the information because it gave me something i needed.

Posted by MissLady on 20/12/2016 at 12:40

Hi, I've had sex at least 10 times now and I've never really felt that it was as pleasurable as I would have thought it would be, is this normal? Also I've never cum through penetrative sex either? I just feel I'm the problem and I'm bad at sex or something!

Posted by Waiter on 15/12/2016 at 12:04

Hi so first off I was a 20 year old virgin but my boyfriend is not. So as u can tell I trusted him enough to loose my virginity with him. I was also holding until I was 20 cause it was a personal goal. Anyways main problem we've had sex 3 times now and he's held to try and cum at the same time with me. But we've tried a lot of different positions and nothing works. Also having sex hurts a little for me still I don't bleed and I didn't on the first time either. How long will it take tell the pain goes away so me and my boyfriend can have fun together. I'm also not sure if I need my outer lips to be touched also at the same time. Sorry haha not very good with all this.

Posted by Anonymous on 09/12/2016 at 12:23

My bf and i had sex last nighty and when i wiped aftrwards i was bleeding i thought i was on my periods but my pad was clean,in the morning my bf saw a red semen coming out of him,could it be something that needs medical attention please help my bf and i are stressing about this.

Posted by Lwazi on 20/11/2016 at 09:07

I'm seventeen and i 'm not growing up,i mean the is no change in my body and i've notice that my cousin is 15yrs old but in his body has change like e.g voice has change, hair on his pubic,pimpleson his face,what is my problem plz help m

Posted by Meg on 01/09/2016 at 11:32

I'm on my period and I have been having sex with my boyfriend ad he keeps getting spots on his penis and it is all red could someone help me and tell me what it is I have never cheated on him so it couldn't be a Sti r anything

Posted by Optional on 23/08/2016 at 12:56

its rather a "help me" comment. i have 24/7 discharge all my life for 365 days. it kills my confidence and don't even want to have sex. sometimes my bf find it gross. read it on internet and says its normal. but i still need help. someone suggest me.

Posted by no name on 13/01/2016 at 10:28

im gay and between 2007 and 2008 i had unprotected sex regularly with another man.for years ive been worried i may have stds.i thought he loved me it turned out he was only using me for sex.

Posted by Optional on 13/01/2016 at 12:58

After sex if womens not find any white discharge from vagina is this symptoms of unhealthy.

Posted by Optional on 04/01/2016 at 05:19

I feel no pleasure in orgasming. I can feel the contractions in my body from the orgasm, but feel no corresponding sensations of pleasure. Same with touching my clitoris, no feelings of pleasure at all. Any ideas for what is going on?

Posted by Ankita on 02/01/2016 at 11:01

After 5 days of period I have sex with my husband and same days I taken I pill 72 .after 3 days I m bleeding is there any chance of pregenency or I have some problem in me

Posted by titi on 31/12/2015 at 10:53

i cantsee my sperms when im hving sex bt wen i go to pee i pee them first y

Posted by karishma on 30/11/2015 at 02:45

I love my boyfriend very much but now he wants to have sex with me. he said he want to have sex with me so that he can love me more. i 'm a virgin so i m scared what must i tell him?

Posted by Optional on 21/11/2015 at 11:34

I had vargina sex with a girl and after that I had heavy head and ringing ear with dizziness that has lasted for 3months now.plz I need help cut I have been to the hospital but no solution till date.

Posted by Optional on 13/11/2015 at 09:42

Hi,1st masturbated for 5/6 years like 2/4 times a day and when i strayed dating i find out that every time am involved in Romance or sex with my partner. i'll ejaculate on my pant/boxer without knowing when am ejaculating and Semen is same color as water,even when i watched rated 18 movies or imagine/remember that last time i had sex same thing will happen without my notice.the good news is that am not masturbating again like 6 months now and this is embarrassing me pretty much that when i get cut i say is hit and she will laugh at me. please i need help please is urgent.don't laugh my English

Posted by Optional on 31/10/2015 at 03:41

I did sex last 2month before.but now I have my new boy friend nd we will gel marriage very soon.he can understand that I can sex before it will be very embarrassing to me .so i want to tight my vagina hole before doing sex with him .pls tekl me how can I .......pls help me

Posted by Optional on 25/10/2015 at 06:33

My boyfriend had to get an emergency circumcision done and had to get scar tissue taken off. It's been a month now since it happened and we haven't had sex but we have dry humped and for some reason it made him bleed a little...

Posted by samson sunday on 23/10/2015 at 11:48

I had a sex with a lady. Without useing condom but she. Not doing. Her messeration period. Can. She. Get pregnant?

Posted by Optional on 25/09/2015 at 06:52

My boyfriend didnt put it in fully but he released on me.i could see the semen.i didnt bleed until after some i still a virgin?will i get pregnant?

Posted by Sara on 24/09/2015 at 08:05

I have familiar with a boy and we never have had sex. Just we see each other on Skype. While he is kissing me or see a part of my body nude he starts rubbing his penis on bed. I am worry about it whether it is a medical problem or some thing else. If you have any idea please let me know about it.

Posted by Optional on 23/09/2015 at 03:38

18 female. I'm on the pill orsythia and have been on it for over a year. I have sex everyone and a while with my boyfriend. I got drunk and messed up and had sex unprotected. A few weeks later I had protected sex and bled the next day. I spotted for two days. For a while my vagina has been itchy and I don't know if these two are related or just coincidence. I'm supposed to get my period in the next week or so. Should I be worried? Any ideas of what it could be?

Posted by Optional on 15/09/2015 at 06:23

My bf has been complaining about the top area hurting him after peeing and ive notice that he been having more troubles peeing. So one day after having intercourse I started to have a discomfort after peeing and now I had a clear discharge with a lil of blood looked like a booger with blood. Whats going on? Did he give me a std? Please let me know asap

Posted by Stanley on 15/09/2015 at 04:04

i am 21 year old and in a relationship with a girl who also had sex before but she tells she donot have any sex in last three years but due to some problem it gets harder for me to believe...How can i make myself sure abt it...i am abt to have sex with her but wana know abt her?

Posted by Optional on 14/09/2015 at 10:02

I did sex sometime before .. But now i have my new boyfriend nd i love him so much . I dont feel embarrass when he do sex with me nd he can understand . I did sex before . So i want to tight my vahina hole before doing sex with him . Please help me how can i

Posted by Chareh on 01/09/2015 at 03:43

I have never had sex before because i find it to be painful just from hearing other peoples stories...honestly i do get the urge of being with a man but when the word "pain" gets thru my mind...i quickly switch off.....i break up with my boyfies because of this...we myt get aroused together n due to fright i quickly go outside or even go home n leave him alone...what should i do?

Posted by Optional on 31/08/2015 at 06:50

I have a discharge from my male organ which started abt 6 month s ago.I there is nothing else .my partner went for STD test bt she tested nagative. What can be the problem bcz I also did a STD test and tested negative

Posted by Optional on 17/08/2015 at 02:53

I love my wife and I love making love, she however has lost all interest and we are on the point of only having sex once or twice a month, I know its normal for sex drives to change, just feel like sex is not important to her and she can't see what it still is to me. How do I make us work?

Posted by roy on 01/08/2015 at 01:01

My sweetheart and I have been having sex since we met but recently, when we are having sex I always have this whitish odorless discharge. Its not itchy too but he complains so much about it. And its kinda embarrassing. What do I do

Posted by Optional on 29/07/2015 at 04:20

My vagina didn't bleed after first intercourse and my periods starts next day I used to masturbate before marriage kindly tell me if it either reduces pregnancy chances or not

Posted by Dab on 21/07/2015 at 07:23

Hello, This is the first time it has happened to me but my current partner is quite aggressive in bed. During intercourse, he likes to suffocate me and slap my face cheeks (not too hard) which I can deal with. But what I don't understand is why he punches my womb area and in between punching, he would press the area down hard with his fist. I don't get any pleasure from it at all and it's worrying but I am too scared to say anything because everything else about him is great. Is this normal? Why do men do it? Is it safe? Thanks.

Posted by Optional on 10/07/2015 at 10:24

Have not for once had sex in my life but my boyfriend almost used his fingers so I want to know if we meet his penis will I bleed blood? please I need answer

Posted by Annonimous on 18/06/2015 at 11:55

Everytime after first round with my boyfriend i loose interest on doing it again and it worries me and him alot....wats the problem, help pls

Posted by Love on 16/06/2015 at 10:17

my boyfriend loves going down on me and recently I've been getting this thick white discharge and I noticed he has stopped sucking me and when I had asked him he said he will not suck me and he is scared he would get an infection it hurts me that he won't compromise when I suggested to wipe it off

Posted by Optional on 30/05/2015 at 05:16

I have been a widow now for 3 years and have not been with another man whatsoever, but finally I was feeling urges and bought a vibrator. I got an orgasm real fast and seems like it just kept on going. Every day I wake up and need it. Sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Does this make sense or should I worry? Please help. I am getting satisfied finally.

Posted by Optional on 23/05/2015 at 11:02

I'm 21yrs of age,so anytime I'm kissing my girlfriend,sperm do rush out immedietely.pls wat can I do?

Posted by Optional on 18/05/2015 at 11:23

im 23 nd i have never masturbate in my life,,, last 4 years i am try to masturbate 2 or 3 times myself but cant..... last night i again do that, but , i m failed too and my penis has swelling a little. how can i survive from this, i lost my confidence, if it a reason for impotence.please help me. please tell me the simple way for hand job..

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Posted by Optional on 03/05/2015 at 03:24

When ever i have sex with my partner all my sperm is coming out of my partner sex organ. it is not going inside at all. Now am very much worried due to this. Can you just help me in which hole i should insert my penis so that all my sperm will go inside to my partner sex organ so that she will be pregnant soon

Posted by Optional on 28/04/2015 at 01:04

a neighbour much older dan i do slept wit me wen i was lyk 6yrs old. This happened wen my parent asked me to stay wit dem coz dey were travelling. So now dat am old i'm stil confused coz i dnt knw weither am stil a virgin or not....... Plzzzzz tel me oooooo

Posted by Optional on 09/04/2015 at 09:47

Hi I just want to know when I'm ovulating because last day of my periods was on the 29march2015

Posted by Optional on 01/04/2015 at 03:20

my boyfriend put in half of his dick in my vagina this morning, it didnt hurt and i didnt feel it go in too deep i was just wondering am i a virgin or not?.. besisdes i was suppose to get my period today and i havent, because of that did it push my period back a few days?

Posted by judith on 31/03/2015 at 06:11

I was reaped which at that process i lost my virgnity.since after then i have been experiancing pain when unirating.pls what may be the cause

Posted by Overtone on 30/03/2015 at 05:41

So I need help, I've never had sex, EVER. and I'm scared because my boyfriend have fooled around. I've not been having morning sickness or anything but I woke up last night thinking about it, am I jus paranoid?

Posted by Optional on 25/03/2015 at 12:22

we had physical relation wth precaution bt he didnt do it from front..still i will lost my verginity ?

Posted by Optional on 19/03/2015 at 04:16

i have no interest in sex.. but whats the reason behind...???

Posted by Optional on 16/03/2015 at 11:35

I just wanna know that is't normal to see yellowish things after seeing your periods after giving birth,?

Posted by Shy Guy on 18/02/2015 at 08:23

Every time I have sex with my girlfriend, I can feel a pain inside like a needle poking on my penis. And when I ejaculate inside, the sharp pain goes on more. She has not had a surgery, nor IUD but is using birth control pills. When the same happened before, she got a small rash and had consulted an ob-gyne. She was given a medication for infection. The rash disappeared but it did not solve the original problem. She does not feel the same pain; I am the only one feeling it. What could be the problem! At the moment, we could not consult doctors as we are in a remote area. Please, help shed some light. Thank you in advance...

Posted by Portia on 15/02/2015 at 08:15

I have a baby gal n she is 9 month.last 9yt i have sex n my vagina was in pain why?

Posted by mohammed on 11/02/2015 at 07:30

I have been experiencing something weird about my body after having sexual intercourses I get like red pimples on the tip of my penis I have been told to use protection but what I'm curious about is what's causing the pimples after sex

Posted by Optional on 26/01/2015 at 08:50

Why can't Ifeel aanything while having sex

Posted by Optional on 25/01/2015 at 03:30

I had unprotected sex last night and my boyfriend came 3 times but he also pulled out . But this morning I went to pee and when I wiped it was a little white stuff. The I put my finger around my vagina area and it was white stuff just basically inside of my vagina. I just wanna know is it possible that I am pregnant.

Posted by maika on 25/01/2015 at 03:32

i have this problem since the last time he fingered me. im no longer virgin anymore. several guys fingered and do me so i know its not because of the hymen, but last night when my guy fingered me.. i bleed alot. its kinda rough.. im scared does it mean i have disease?? please help..

Posted by Sam on 24/01/2015 at 08:44

My bf is my 1st. When we 1st did it, it hurt alot nd I cldnt really enjoy because of the pain. There was a point I felt like I was going to pee. Time passed already sex doesn't hurt like the 1st few times but it does sometimes hurt when he puts it in... I'm guessing cause I'm not so wet. But to be honest I don't feel pleasure when I have sex. He's my 1st so idk what sex shld really feel like but I'm sure it's not what I feel now. I love my bf nd I feel bad cause I know he knows I'm not enjoying it. What can I do? I can't afford a sex therapist is there anything I cld personally do.. Maybe a position or something?

Posted by Optional on 24/01/2015 at 06:27

When I had sex with my husband after marriage , after few days it's too much itching in my vagina , can u help me what is the best precaution I can take or do to heal it , please help me

Posted by Optional on 23/01/2015 at 04:44

I have met a wonderful man and we are having a problem with intercourse. My Vagina opening is very tight. I tried lubricant along with a dildo it is not working. My lover is patient, I feel like I've failed him. Can anything be done to increase the entry to the vagina? Thank you for any help you can provide. It has been over 15 years since my last satisfactory relationship.

Posted by Optional on 22/01/2015 at 12:00

I just split with my ex and picked up an old flame last year. Two sexual partners in the last five years and I notice that both of them break out in bumps on their face and neck after sexual relations with me... Both typically had pretty fair skin...What the cause?

Posted by Shakespeare on 22/01/2015 at 05:32

Hi.. I m 28 yrs now and married.i got married 5 yrs and after long time my husband intercourse sperm in my vagina.. We both make relation but he never put sperm in my vagina due to fear of baby and after my period on 8,10,13 day he put sperm coz now we are planning for period length is 3 to 4 days and Cybele of length is 32 so I wnt to know can I be pregnant...

Posted by Optional on 22/01/2015 at 03:32

Me and my boyfriend had sex right after I ended my period. And my vagina was stinging and hurting really bad, but it wasn't even my first time having sex with him and that's never happened before.

Posted by Optional on 18/01/2015 at 09:30

I thought I was off my period and then me and my friend had sex. Blood showed up and It turned out I wasnt done. 15 minutes after, his penis started itching and had red spots on it. What do you think this is from ? I need help.

Posted by Optional on 18/01/2015 at 05:23

Is it possible to be pregnant if I gave my partner a BJ, kissed him then he eat me out a minute or so after kissing?

Posted by Optional on 14/01/2015 at 03:43

Hi! My boyfriend's semen is very white on color...should I be scared cause we are planing on having a baby

Posted by Optional on 05/01/2015 at 02:05

I have not had sex in 19 years. I finally met someone and after we had sex for the first time I bleed a little bit. Is that normal?

Posted by Optional on 04/01/2015 at 12:52

I have had sex with my partner 3 times now the first time it hurt a lot and I bleeded quite a lot and the second time I didn't bleed at all because my partner took his time and did everything slowly. The third time I bleeded again a little bit sometimes when he puts it all the way in it hurts is that normal for it to bleed or is it something to be worrying about. I haven't had sex with anyone else this is the first person and I'm his first as well just concerned is that bleeding due to anything serious or is it normal

Posted by Nicole on 04/01/2015 at 10:22

When I was 18 I had my left ovary and tube removed. Now I am 26 years old and I have no sex drive. And when we have sex I can't orgasm. Even when masturbating and using a vibrator it is difficult to get in the mood enough or stimulate my clitorous enough to orgasm. I have asked my doctor if the ovary being gone would affect me and she has assured me numerous times that I shouldn't have any issues. Is there some kind of natural way to fix this?

Posted by Optional on 03/01/2015 at 05:26

I got my iud about 2 months ago, I normally have a normal sex drive but in the last month I have been really wanting it. My partner gets really frustrated that I can't get wet most of the time. I have had a small cramps pinching pain. he says he can feel it every time we do it, and he hits it at least once every time. I don't know why I can't get wet or why this small pain gets worse after sex.

Posted by Optional on 03/01/2015 at 10:31

So i had sex for the first tim and then i got tiny red bumps on my penis also i bled tiny bit after peeing

Posted by Trevino on 03/01/2015 at 05:14

i had sex the other day and now im bleeding terrible out my vigina and my vigina is stinging and in pain i know it not my period because i already had it im scaared and dont know what to do

Posted by Optional on 03/01/2015 at 12:21

I can't cum and when I wee I have a lump on my penis what should I do

Posted by Optional on 02/01/2015 at 02:46

My problem is that i have bumps on my vagina and they are making my relationship strain because even myself we want to start engaging in sex and it is making me not because am abit embarrassed

Posted by Optional on 31/12/2014 at 05:03

My boyfriend and I had sex but I've never had an orgasm so he looked up online ways to make me have one, and he ended up just hurting me. The sex hurt after he fingered me. A day later I noticed it hurt after all my pee came out & and now I cant make it to the bathroom when I need to pee. Last night while I was sleeping I wet my bed and I haven't done that since I was little.. I don't know what's wrong & I dont want to go to the doctor or for my parents to know I have sex

Posted by Optional on 29/12/2014 at 06:14

After the sex with my girl friends she feels some pain in her stomach, i also done the sex with another girlfriend and with her was same problem, can you give me the reason behind it.

Posted by Optional on 28/12/2014 at 07:11

So I'm 30 weeks pregnant and after I finished masterbaiting my abdomen became really hard. Is that normal?

Posted by Optional on 28/12/2014 at 01:29

I masterbate often but I dont penatrate my vagina I only rub my clitoris which allows me to orgasim but then days later I continue to release cum when I'm going to the bathroom which seems weird and my vagina is irritated, why is this happening?

Posted by Optional on 27/12/2014 at 10:34

Me and my boyfriend had sex, it was amazing but the next morning we tryed to again and he couldn't put his penis into me, So me didn't have sex... Is that normal...

Posted by Optional on 26/12/2014 at 01:01

I had an erection and blood came out. That's the first time it happens. Why did that happen ?

Posted by Zyne on 25/12/2014 at 01:31

while having sex with my boyfriend he saw discharge coming from me when changing positions and he said i slept with someone else. I don't know how to explain this, but he is the only man I have ever slept with. Please hel. What could have been the cause of this

Posted by Optional on 25/12/2014 at 02:54

If I had sex this morning how long does it take to get pregnant because I don't wanna be pregnant

Posted by Optional on 23/12/2014 at 06:32

I have sex with my fiance except intercorse....we both are still virgin..he simply rub his penis on my vagina ... Do u think I could get pregnant.... Plzz help me I m very scared..

Posted by Optional on 19/12/2014 at 06:32

after sex i bleed. I never had sex outside of marraige and life a clean sexual life wirh my wife.

Posted by Optional on 18/12/2014 at 08:00

I masturbate nearly 2 times a day regularly since 4 years now iam facing several problems like erection problem,lack of semen,premature ejaculation ,please somebody tellme if their is any cure for the above mente problems..

Posted by Optional on 17/12/2014 at 12:05

He was fingering me and when he pulled his fingers out there was brown stuff on it...what does that mean?

Posted by Optional on 08/12/2014 at 08:37

I've met this guy and I like him , I'm 17 and still a virgin , I've thought about having sex a lot I think I'm ready but I'm conscious of my body, I have a few scars on my inner thighs and I hate them I don't know if he will mind or think I'm disgusting , and I'm quite chubby but he said he loves my body and wants me fully naked when we have sex, so yeah my scars are worrying me the most, can anyone related or give me advice please?

Posted by Optional on 06/12/2014 at 02:55

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago but i felt like he was in my stomach i dont kno if thats normal i wasnt a virgin but i dont remember having that feeling with the guy i lost my virginity to so is it or is it not normal

Posted by Optional on 04/12/2014 at 07:44

I am afraid that I won't do it right

Posted by Optional on 04/12/2014 at 09:10

I was raped but my step dad and am worried my vagina doesn't look like it supposed to so i don't wanna have sex ever again

Posted by Siyasanga on 03/12/2014 at 03:53

My boyfriend and I had sex but after having sex i was playing with his penis and i notice that he had sore on his side penis and i asked him about it''baby what is this now'',and he said ''no my love you know i have a large dick and you have small one so it is hard for me to put it inside of you that's why'' but i got nervous cause it was the first time i see something like that on he cheated on me and lie about it?or what really cause the sore on his penis?

Posted by Optional on 01/12/2014 at 04:02

Hi I have an IUD for birth control and it is new to me...I just finished play time with a toy and I'm bleeding and I feel like I'm going to be sick....I finished my period a day or two ago and I'm not sure if its normal to bleed again after using a "toy" just after a period. I'm kinda freaking out should I go to ER? Could the IUD have been pushed too far up?

Posted by Optional on 30/11/2014 at 02:25

After I had sex w. My boyfriend he pulled out bc he was about to cum but instead his penis started bleeding and he stop himself from coming is he okay ?

Posted by Optional on 24/11/2014 at 06:15

When i have sex i cant cum so what is wrong with me.

Posted by Lynn on 23/11/2014 at 01:31

I used to be very horny but maybe for the past 1 month I don't feel horny any longer. I have no urge to have sex any longer. Even if my bf wants sex, I would deny or have sex without any intense feeling. And, when I have sex its too painful. Before this, I don't really feel the pain. What is happening to me?

Posted by morgan on 22/11/2014 at 07:36

me and my boyfriend haven't had sex yet but he does give oral a lot.....every time he tries to finger me he says that im not wet..though im really horny..i wanna know whats wrong with me??? because i don't want him to think that im not turned on by him.......when i really am. how do i solve this problem? medication? advices?

Posted by Optional on 21/11/2014 at 10:16

i had unprotected sex with my gf on 14 november nd gve her i pill within 1 hour. now 1 week pass away she didnt get her period on time her last month period was on 10 octomber nw itz 22 november.

Posted by rebotile on 21/11/2014 at 05:53

im 28 and my man is 47,we have an 8mnths old boy, the prblm s,our sex life s now boring infact i feel like i dont want sex anymre,he is always givin me 1round.then he gets tired.he wasnt lyk this b4.i dnt wanna lose him.m scared or mayb hs getting old?pls help.

Posted by Optional on 18/11/2014 at 08:58

When I have sex with my parnter, his penis hits my urine hole and it hurts when I have sex

Posted by Optional on 17/11/2014 at 09:15

i m nt vrgn bt my hole is very loose bt i want tht it becomes lil bit small in normal size. its presently size lyk 4 thin fingers can be inserted in this. plz guide me about this....

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Posted by Optional on 16/11/2014 at 08:19

A lot of the time I don't have any interest in sex I am 22 shouldn't I love sex and when I have sex it sometimes hurt my partner is very big no exaggerating he's probably 11 inches and sometimes I bleed after sex is that normal?

Posted by Optional on 13/11/2014 at 01:58

I'm 24 years my girl friend is 21 , her vagina is so tight I couldn't insert my finger she's feeling so painful we're unsuccessful in sex , my penis when it erects it is fat and curve towards left , what is solution ?

Posted by vera on 12/11/2014 at 09:57

sparm always comout wenever i finished making love with my husband and i have not been pregnant before. please help what shold i do?

Posted by rosy on 09/11/2014 at 12:19

I masterbating myself after having sex with my husband so in this way is possible to get pregnant

Posted by Optional on 04/11/2014 at 05:08

Iam engaged and getting married in next 2 months.I have really bad stretch marks on my arms, breasts, waist and hips. Iam very much worried about my wedding night. Though my fiancee loves me so much, what would be his reaction seeing me naked.

Posted by Optional on 03/11/2014 at 05:31

i feel embarassed when i have sex with my patner ,because i feel like i am doing nothing to her.and the other thing is i am always the one to challenge her,is like she is not interested .what must i do quit or stay?

Posted by Optional on 30/10/2014 at 09:48

Hi, I am 24 years old. I started dating my current bf a year ago. I am still a virgin. We fool around and he fingers me. He likes going down on me as well. I always remember having a very healthy sex drive, right from when I was only 10 or younger. My clitoris was very sensitive. I masturbated a lot. However, since the very first time my bf touched my vagina, I have lost my sexual drive completely. I feel no arousal. There's no sensation down there, just some mild vaginal and abdominal pain. I'm really scared. Please help!

Posted by Optional on 23/10/2014 at 05:26

After getting on Depo my body started to act different and I've learned to adjust but I want to know if I'm the only female that bleeds when I get horny or think about sex? Also after I have sex. And no I do not have any stds. I get checked regularly.

Posted by Optional on 21/10/2014 at 03:13

when I have sexual intercourse or oral I can't feel myself cum, is there something wrong? I used to be able to when I was younger. please help if you can Thanks

Posted by Optional on 17/10/2014 at 11:31

I just lost my virginity and I don't know if my boyfriend cum inside me or not I'm scared of being pregnant

Posted by Optional on 17/10/2014 at 08:25

After sex I noticed these red spots all over the head of my penis. I am not circumcised and I only have one partner and we have unprotected sex often but this is the first time this has happened. They are very painful.

Posted by Optional on 13/10/2014 at 02:53

I started to gym a week ago second week first day after gym the time i take a bath i notice white cloudy fluid on my penis its not painful and i have'nt having sex morethan two weeks before i started to gym what cause that fluids or i dont have to gym hard

Posted by Optional on 02/10/2014 at 12:11

I Cummed For The First Time On My Man I Didnt Feel It Or Even Know I Did Until He Stopped Nd I Stopped Nd We Was Both Soaked Is That Normal?

Posted by Optional on 01/10/2014 at 02:09

is it the penis or finger dat a boy wil use to disvirgin a girl when having sex with her?

Posted by Optional on 30/09/2014 at 04:40

i have a problem when we are romencng me and my partner its takes time for me to get horny and wet

Posted by lerato on 29/09/2014 at 09:25

when we have sex first round its not painful but the second round am dry and its painful , what wrong is the anythng i can do ?

Posted by Optional on 29/09/2014 at 06:36

My boyfriend went down on me and now I'm having pains in my stomach.also we fry humped and I'm scared I'm pregnant and I know that doesn't make sense but I am

Posted by Optional on 29/09/2014 at 05:03

When I lost my vCard I lasted over an hour before coming and when i did I basically had to "finish it" and that's been reoccurring.. And last time I couldn't get it up at all like I was turned on but wouldn't get up... But I'm only 18

Posted by taylor on 27/09/2014 at 07:02

my husband and I have been married for a month but living together for 5 years we have 6 month old twin girls he has only ejaculated inside of me twice and i got pregnant with the twins he has never done it again or before us conceiving the twins it really turns me off and make me upset when he pulls out is that normal behavior for a married couple during sex?

Posted by Optional on 27/09/2014 at 06:56

i get turned off of sex when my husband pulls out. we have been married for 5 years and he only came inside of me twice last year and we got pregnant with twin girls he has never done it since or befor those 2 times should i be worried?

Posted by OptionaL on 25/09/2014 at 03:36


Posted by Acerbic on 17/09/2014 at 10:55

Cynthia- yes, it's possible to become pregnant before menarche (the first period) due to the way the female reproductive system works. An egg is released at the start of each cycle; the period comes a couple weeks later if that egg remains unfertilized and the interior lining of the uterus sloughs off. So, if a girl had unprotected sex in the few weeks before her first period would come, there's a chance that egg would be fertilized, resulting in pregnancy. Sara- It sounds like you're referring to flat or inverted nipples. This is totally normal and most women with flat/inverted nipples can breastfeed normally. In breastfeeding, the milk doesn't actually come from the nipple itself- instead, it flows from what are called Montgomery Glands, which are positioned on/around the areola. You should be fine. Ana- The vagina is, essentially, an elastic ring of muscles. Masturbation will not make it more "loose." Even normal sex will not change the tightness; however, if you're worried, you can always do Kegel exercises to improve the muscle tone and strength of your vagina.

Posted by gift on 14/09/2014 at 03:59

im i still a virgin? My hymen is not intact and i have never had sex or experience of any kind, my doctor says he is not sure if iam stil a virgin and about some infection that he has seen, iam worried please i need help to know if there any signs to show for virginity

Posted by Optional on 13/09/2014 at 09:17

when I first met my boyfriend three yeArs agl we would hae sex a lt and it would feel amazing. But lately when we do have sex it hurts or I don't feel the intensity like I used too. Even when I masturbate I can only organs through clitoral stimulation like I can't feel anything when I try for the happy stimulation. Is there something wrong down there or is it psychological ?

Posted by Optional on 08/09/2014 at 09:39

my boyfriend is daiting another girl he told me about he claims tht he loves me bt gets angry when I do a small mistake does he love me? should I let him break my virginity

Posted by Optional on 03/09/2014 at 11:53

I have had sex for the very first time with my fiance and everytime I have sex with him it hurts a lot ? I don't know what to do :( Also when he cums in me it's itches a lot what does that mean ? I'm new to all this :/

Posted by on 03/09/2014 at 02:54

Hi Heather on 01/09/2014 at 05:25, have you visited our page on painful sex?

Posted by Heather on 01/09/2014 at 05:25

When I have sex at first it hurts and I cant seem to get turned on and relaxed to enjoy it and after a few minutes the in and out motions start to irritate me, more so mentally than physically. I have never had an oragasm from intercourse. I am married and only with him for the past five years and have gave birth once, and I feel like my problems only began after I had a baby.

Posted by Optional on 01/09/2014 at 01:13

I have recently got Into a new relationship anf we have been together for 6 weeks and we have been sexually active throughout out relationship but in the last week my vagina ha started to swell, I'm scared to talk to someone like my mum and I'm worried it could be serious, is it because it's a change as I am not used to being sexually active?

Posted by Cynthia zitha on 29/08/2014 at 07:48

I dont get the information that i want my question is that it is possible for a girl to have babies if she broke her virginity before she starts her menstruation?

Posted by Optional on 24/08/2014 at 09:28

My partner gets turned on and has an erection, but he said that while having sex, he doesn't feel anything (he sort of just have the idea of it) and often the erection is gone before we both ejaculate. How can we solve this problem?

Posted by wendy on 16/08/2014 at 12:54

ihave this problem of itching discharge and when we are perfoming oral sex wth my partner my vagina having apainful burning.this itching really cause irritation this and idnt knw what to do because itry to go the clinic n they give me medication n they inject still the same.plz help me idnt know what to do

Posted by Questionsss on 16/08/2014 at 09:21

Okay so ive been dateing my girlfriend for a time now and we dicided to have sex and she's good at turning me on but once the close come off and im about to go inside her I go soft she gives me some oral and then im back up again and we contiue why cant I stay hard without the oral??? Please help its imbarrising me.

Posted by Optional on 11/08/2014 at 10:39

Each time I make love with myyboyfriend, the next day he notice some rashes on his dick and after appliying soap on it it goes away, what could be the problem

Posted by Optional on 05/08/2014 at 12:52

I am 26 years old ..Never had sex my nipples doesn't come out at all my sis says its normal coz i dont breastfeed but my aunt says having no nipples can cause problems in breadtfeeding etc.Do u think i should visit a gyneacoligist.I am worried coz i am getting married after 6 months.plz help..

Posted by Sara on 28/07/2014 at 01:10

Hello I have no one to turn so because I'm so embarrassed but I think my lady bit the lips are very large so I had no sexual relationship or even had sex and I think I'm ready as I get horny but I can't bring myself to have sex with somebody as they look horrible also I'm nearly 20 all my friends have boyfriends some even have children I just need help please anyone!

Posted by Optional on 24/07/2014 at 06:04

I am 24 years old, I have missed my period since 10 days, did not have any sex, but my boyfriend masturbated on my vaginal and pelvic area twice, but never did intercourse, still a virgin. Is there any chance of me being pregnant?

Posted by sammy on 23/07/2014 at 10:26

I have never been able to have sex with the lights on or sober. I am a size 12 but after 3 children have looser skin around my belly. I also have a decent size bust 3rd. I cant stop thinking about how my fiance will see me. All bouncing round ever where! !! Also the eye to eye contact during sex. I just don't even want to think about it. Where do I look when I know he's watching me? We have a 4 year old and have been together for 14 years so yes it's been going on a long time. I feel that after a drink I can completely let go and do all these wild things that when sober I would love to do but having had sex sober, I can't do anything remotely wild or entertaining let alone make him go wild. He loves me with all his heart and I know this ( we have such a close relationship) but I just can't shake this feeling of "what if I make a funny noise, pull a face, he sees my fanny/bum, sees my fat wobbling". I've felt this way for far too long now and feel the need to drink every weekend (he works away during the week) just to have sex. I have spoken to him about this and he says he loves me, my body and everything about me and im being silly as it's making love, not a show and I agree but I just can't get past this. I would love nothing more than to make love/have wild sex with him whilst completely sober but as soon as we start sober sex I think all these stupid things and just lay there. At most I go on top but the light is always off!!! Help :/

Posted by Optional on 23/07/2014 at 05:23

I've have sex more than 10 times and I've never cum is that normal

Posted by Frustrated on 15/03/2014 at 10:24

So I am 5 months into marriage and I can never relax during sex. It's as if I have no control over my body it's just so tense and stuff as a board. It's extremely frustrating!! I do not know if it's something psychological or what??!! Please help me! My husband and I both dread sex because of it :(

Posted by Optional on 03/03/2014 at 08:59

Whenever my husband goes down on me, I get anxious because I know how sensitive my vagina is. The next day I am stuck with tears, itching sensations adn vaginal discharge. I do not know why this happens. This happens everytime but does not happen when having intercourse.Any explanations?

Posted by Optional on 12/02/2014 at 03:47

i have problem with my partner everytime we have one round of sex then he want to sleep

Posted by Optional on 10/02/2014 at 01:27

My boyfriend inserted his finger in me. Later in the evening i was bleeding and am worried. I dont know if it was my period or if my hymen was broken. He actually didnt go deep. The next time he did it again i didnt bleed. Please help me out

Posted by Optional on 09/02/2014 at 03:04

I have stretch mark and anytime i want to make love with my boyfriend am always ashamed of my self, what can i do pls?

Posted by Optional on 06/02/2014 at 02:31

Every time my partner perform oral sex on me I tend to itch in the vagina around the outter area. I wonder is it because he is cheating and maybe he's doing the same thing to another person

Posted by Optional on 06/02/2014 at 06:23

I have completely lost my sex drive. I mean sometimes i want to but when it comes down to it i literally cant keep my legs open. Its like a reflex.

Posted by Optional on 06/02/2014 at 02:56

Am 22, I have not start menstruating and am worried but am still a virgin. My boyfriend is asking for sex, am confused.

Posted by Ana on 05/02/2014 at 10:29

I have an embarrassing question. So I've been masturbating with the water method for years. I'm a virgin though. I have my first Lon term boyfriend and we've been dating for six months and on valentines day we were planning on having sex for the first time. He's not a virgin though and I was wondering if the fact that I've masturbated before an often will be obvious. Will my vagina feel less tight then most virgins? And will he notice? I'm very concerned and embarrassed someone please help me.

Posted by Optional on 01/02/2014 at 10:45

I had sex with my boyfriend with out a condom he pulled out before he blew but the point is when he pulled out he was bleed n we didn't no what it was from he is bleed from the be near the hole? What is this and should we be concerned And I have his blood in me should I be worried? Will I get sick ?

Posted by Optional on 22/01/2014 at 09:16

After I orgasm, I lose feeling in my hands and I get really woozy and sometimes I forget where I am, should I be worried??

Posted by Anonymous on 21/01/2014 at 10:37

I'm 17 years old & I've never been horny. I have had sexual intercourse but I don't know what it's like to be horny or wet over someone.

Posted by Optional on 21/01/2014 at 06:04

Every since i got pregnant with my daughter who is now 5 i have lost interest in sex i fake orgasms only thing i enjoy is getting oral sex done on me. I had a c section could that be the problem or is something wrong on the inside because i use to couldnt go without it.

Posted by Anonymous on 18/01/2014 at 10:23

Iam on the pill,the one where you take for 3 weeks then miss a week? I have my period throughout the week I'm off the pill so that's all normal. 2-3 days after my period has finished I have sex with my boyfriend OR I masturbate (only clitorois stimulation) and whenever I climax I bleed like I'm on my period? Anyone help?!

Posted by Optional on 15/01/2014 at 04:42

Hello, I am rather worried about a problem my boyfriend has. He has no problem getting aroused and tearing my close off. But 5 minutes into having sex he starts to breath really heavy and cannot finish. Then he cannot catch his breath for at least 3-4 minutes! And he says it feels like his heart is beating hard. It is scaring me. Iv asked him if he seen a doctor about it or the breathing and he says he is fine. He says it happens because he sucks!! I lovingly tell him that's not true! He is only 33 years old. And has only had 1 orgasem in our 7 month relationship! Any idea what this could be?

Posted by Optional on 14/01/2014 at 07:06

I been with my husband five years now and lately there hasn't been a sex drive between us and when there is I myself have issues having a orgasim lately and I've tried many position

Posted by Optional on 14/01/2014 at 11:55

do sex causes pile

Posted by Optional on 13/01/2014 at 04:18

I've been with the same partner for 2 years and before we always used condoms. a few months back, o was put on birth control because I have a ovarian cyst. so we've been having sex without condoms for a while, but recently he asked if he could come inside of me, so I willingly obliged considering my love for him. he did so and ever since, my vagina is itchy and dry. please help. I'm scared I may have an std

Posted by Optional on 10/01/2014 at 04:42

I've recently tried a new position with my boyfriend where he is behind me. I can feel that he goes all the way in, but the thing is that i get this weird feeling. I'm not sure if it hurts or it just feels good that I can't take it. It makes me want to tell him to stop but I'm confused. Do I get this feeling because he went way too far in or is it something else???

Posted by Optional on 30/12/2013 at 09:31

When l have sex its painful and have to stop the problem is my foreskin and lose erection and dont know wat to do?

Posted by Isabella on 28/12/2013 at 12:57

In really fustrated what is wrong with me when I have sex I doesn't feel good like other women say I get over it in 30 seconds when in inter course , also I can't cum nothing come from my vagina but I orgasm what's wrong there? I am underweight I'm thinking is that the problem? And I never get horny what is wrong with me someone help please

Posted by edgar on 28/12/2013 at 02:18

I want to know if its normal that my penis hurts and the head and then the stomach i had sex like weeks ago i didnt use a condom and how long does it take to find out u have something .?

Posted by Lady k on 26/12/2013 at 04:48

My man is having a problem,when we are trying to have sex his penis doesn't work even though we both of ours we are honey..and it is very sad to see him like this because he feel embarrassed..please help me so that i can help him

Posted by Jay on 19/12/2013 at 08:45

Am interested in older girls,they enjoy my company,sense of humour, most of them cant resist my charm. But my worse nightmare is having a small penis about 14cm. Am dating a 22yrs old lady. What do u suggest i should do?

Posted by Andy on 06/12/2013 at 04:45

I and my boyfriend had sex for first time and i'm so worried, is't normal for a virgin to feel itchiness in my vagina after having sex? I hope you can help me about this problem...

Posted by Casi on 02/12/2013 at 08:52

I got the mirena IUD about 4 months ago. Everything is great except I think that my vagina might taste bad because of it (or so my boyfriend says.) has anyone else had this problem?

Posted by Sikesike on 18/11/2013 at 04:10

Was recently tested for HIV/Aids and all stds and was told I was negative to all , but everytime I have rough inter course with my girl , my penis would be sore . And the next morning the tip would be a little red and have white bumps . And I woke up today it was dry .... What could be wrong

Posted by Optional on 12/11/2013 at 07:41

I'm now 22, and haven't had sex since I was 18, going on 19. I recall in my teen years, sex did not last very long which frustrated me. I know being young and inexperienced can affect that but I'm nervous its actually just a problem and will remain. I'm dating a girl currently and I'm afraid that issue will kill the deal. Is that normal for young guys and any advice?

Posted by Optional on 30/10/2013 at 03:41

Okay so I married young. My husband was my first and only. But a few weeks into our marriage i started getting this really bad rash. On my inside of my thighs and its spread to my mound. I don't know what to do or what it is and the fact that it's spreading is making me even more worried. Anyone have any ideas?

Posted by Optional on 23/10/2013 at 04:41

Recently when I have been having sex with my partner their is white discharge from my vagina on his penis it's very think and sticky. A few months ago I had problems very smelly vagina very itchy the doctor told me it was thrush I took medication but now this is happening

Posted by steve on 17/10/2013 at 01:00

after having intercourse with my girlfriend I was bleeding on top of my penis

Posted by Optional on 15/10/2013 at 12:54

my boyfriend fingers me and I don't get wet for about five or ten minutes why is that?

Posted by ? on 11/10/2013 at 04:46

Me and my girlfriend are having sex but were worried about her getting knocked up so we said why not give anal a try and we did and we liked it so we had done it three times but I saw a rash on my penis and I'm worried it's from not using a condom while having anal sex with her. Ps we have never had sex with anyone els presides each other so we couldn't of got any infections.

Posted by arya on 11/10/2013 at 01:39

i have been married for three yrs and lastly for 2 months i am planning for a baby.while i got married as precaution we used condom around 6 months ..then my partner started discharging outside without using condom we enjoyed and lastly discharge outside by shaking we are planning for baby my partner is trying to discharge in side my vagina but he isnt satisfied and sometimes he dosent even feel it while it is inside... he says he has done it but is it possible to discharge twice ...once itz over he want me to shake and release his own..plz reply soon am waiting eagerly

Posted by Anonymous on 05/10/2013 at 07:53

inutesI have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months and I really love him and enjoy everything we do in the bedroom. The problem I have is sometimes I want him to go down on me but he says that I get too wet and its nastey and other stuff like that. I don't know if there's anything I can do to not get as wet? And should I get upset or my feelings hurt cause it hurts my feelings that I do what he wants whether I enjoy it or not but when its what I want I'm too wet and nastey. I know its not hygiene problems cause I keep myself clean. But it still hurts

Posted by john skills on 21/09/2013 at 05:49

i discovered about a month ago that i am having this rashes mostly in the evening. it comes as if something is creeping insidevmy body and when i scratch it,it turns to a sore. and i have been experience irregular discharge and premature ejaculation. please tell me wht to do.

Posted by coded lady on 31/08/2013 at 03:31

my husband find it dificuit to disvigin me and i am fear pls any advice bcos i am confused. tkx

Posted by Vivian on 17/08/2013 at 02:50

Me and my guy av been dating for six years, and we av make a promise dat we will not have sex until will get married, beause am a virgin, but right now he said he want to have sex with me and i dont no what to do, should i live him and wait for the right person, dat will wait for me until will get married befor he can disvirgen me

Posted by Optional on 16/08/2013 at 12:51

I feel pains everytime I have sex n I love my boyfriend so much I'm afraid if this keep going on I'm gonna lose him friends please help. What must I do with this problem becouse I can't take it anymore.

Posted by Optional on 08/08/2013 at 02:39

I'm really scared, today my boyfriend was fingering me and when he pulled out there was blood on my fingers, and when I went to the toilet to change there was blood on my undies.. This isn't the only time it has happened, I am really scared.. Am I okay ? :/

Posted by Optional on 02/08/2013 at 01:58

When i was disvirgin,i d'nt my boyfriend did not believe that i'm a virgin

Posted by Optional on 01/07/2013 at 10:13

My partner wants to try and have anal sex . Is it safe to try this ?

Posted by Optional on 15/06/2013 at 07:59

I had sex with my husband after that i started lossing lots of white sperm from my vagini so it can cause any problem for me to get pregnent

Posted by Optional on 02/06/2013 at 07:49

i have a problem whenever i have sex with my bf nd i reach climax i have pains in my hands nd feet my viginar keep want to reach climax more nd more nd it fells like i want to walk around nd get air

Posted by michael on 25/04/2013 at 06:42

After having sex with my wife, I start to feel bitterness in my mouth,itching in my body,headache and eye problem.

Posted by Mojoolaoluwa on 13/04/2013 at 10:55

Pls admin, my people my name is mojoolaoluwa,22 yrs of age an am stil a virgin,v'e promise not 2lose it until my wedding is near or d day of my wedding but my guy need it seriously an i said no an i like my guy so much since our relationship is up 2 4yrs nw an there's nft bw us,his parent like me an all his frend also.wat can i do not 2lose dis guy,virginity is a pride my people,an they said is very hard b4 a guy can do 2 pain .advise me pls dont insult.

Posted by Optional on 05/04/2013 at 09:45

I always feel pains during sex, an it has been going on for a long time now, pls frnds wat shud i do?

Posted by Genny on 29/03/2013 at 11:54

I have inverted nipples...the one on the ryt comes out sometimes..maybe when am taking a shower,aroused or about to see my period. Am in a relationship right now and am scared my bf won't like it because I ll look abnormal. What ll I do

Posted by Optional on 15/03/2013 at 07:45

Hello everyone, For the past few months I have been experiencing strange coloured discharge, irritation and discomfort during sex. I went to my GP and had a sexual health screening and it turned out that everything was clear except I was positive for thrush. My doctor gave me 6 canesten pessaries and canesten cream too to treat it. My boyfriend and I had noticed that sex had become less pleasant so I will of course be telling him I have thrush. I won't be having sex while using the pessaries as it states not to on the packet, but my question is, would it be okay to be touched/fingered while using the pessaries? I've never used them before so I don't know what to expect! Thank you in advance!

Posted by Optional on 12/02/2013 at 06:49

This is embarrassing to say the least. I am a mature woman who has never had sexual intercourse. I have just met a new man who wants to have sex with me. I have told him I have never done it before and he was very nice about it. I have always had problems "down there" and have bladder problems, had a hysterectomy 10 years ago. I do get dryness and am on HRT patches. Obviously I know what happens etc, but don't know what to expect. At my age is it going to hurt and am I going to bleed? Is it possible? Don't know you respond to this but would welcome some words of wisdom.

Posted by Optional on 07/02/2013 at 07:34

i sex with my husband am not satisfied more the 1/2hr.what is the problem

Posted by Optional on 07/02/2013 at 02:10

my penis was bleeding while i was having sex with my girlfriend but the condom ripped is there any chance of her getting pregnant

Posted by Humee on 18/01/2013 at 07:01

During sex with my husband ,i usualy experenced pain ratherthan certisfaction.what can be the cause pls

Posted by Paranoid Penguin on 17/01/2013 at 10:13

I had sex with my boyfriend and he had difficulty putting the condom on. We did it and I felt wet inside when he pulled out. I was paranoid so I asked him if it broke he said it didn't but he might of put it on backwards. I also should have gotten my period today and I didn't could I be pregnant or just paranoid?

Posted by Godwin on 18/12/2012 at 06:16

Can u please help me with answer?am too young, but whenever am having sex i quickly release my sperm

Posted by Optional on 04/12/2012 at 06:19

Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected for a while. And we've been completely fine. And I have gotten checked. Also fine. But recently after sex, he notices a rash on the tip of his penis, but it goes away after a day or so. So I decided to check myself out and I found these bumps on my nipple area. Nothing big. Just little red\pink bumps. Im so worried and I am freaking out. Please help. ):

Posted by Optional on 30/11/2012 at 05:32

So i have been masterbating for quite a while ever seince hurrican sandy.. So lately it has been an addiction my mom dosnt no about it though... But while i masterbate after a few minutes my body starts to twich... Is that normal well thanks

Posted by Olivia on 20/11/2012 at 06:53

Tuesday of last week, me and my boyfriend were messing around and I gave him a HJ and a BJ and when he fingered me I yelped cause it hurt so he took his finger out. Then when we we're done the lightning discharge I usually have before my period just disappeared. That same day. Then when I got home I felt tired and fell straight asleep. the next couple of days I was still feeling a little exhausted and then my stomach began to get that nervous like feeling and my urine is fine and I'm beginning to use the bathroom more and more. Usually when I get nervous or my stomach feels like its about to drop or I'm upset it hurts a little. All sorts of things were going through my head like OMG what if I'm pregnant and I know you can't get pregnant by fingering but people's answers online was getting me stressed out. I had to control my breathing. I keep breathing in and out but I feel nothing different. I just want these feeling to go away. I was at the point of Sunday when after church I was crying cause I'm just so scared. Someone please respond to this or let me know what this means. I just want to have my regular period and not having to worry weather or not it will come on time. I'm jut soooo scared cause of everyone's answers and for what's been going on.

Posted by judy on 20/11/2012 at 12:25

my friend ejaculate blood when making love is it normal

Posted by on 07/11/2012 at 04:07

To jb, for more information on lumps and bumps on the penis - what's normal, what's not? - take a look at our section: If you're not sure or worried, talk to your doctor or visit an STI clinic - Tackle it, move on.

Posted by jb on 25/10/2012 at 01:34

i had sex with a girl about a week ago, she said she had no sti's. a few days later i had a wank and when i looked i could see little red dots on my bellend. small painless dots. they dont itch or hurt, i just want to no what it could be because it comes and goes. i hope i dont have a sti, had anyone got a idea what it could be ? help

Posted by Optional on 18/10/2012 at 09:27

Everytime me and my boyfriend have sex when the cum comes out of me its brown and a dnno what that means two scared to go to the doctors tho what is it?? :L

Posted by Optional on 18/10/2012 at 03:22

Hi .... So I have have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and for the past 3 months after he fingered me or we have sex my vagina swells up and becomes really red and sore I also feel like I permanantly have yeast infection my vagina makes like white flakes and a yellowish discharge , how can I stop swelling after sex and stop this feeling of yeast infection

Posted by John on 07/10/2012 at 11:13

Hey I'm 14 years old and have masturbated before but today was the first time i actuall ejaculated white sperm it was a little yellow and murky. Im soar though and dont have the desire to masturbate anymore is this normal?

Posted by Sindi on 30/09/2012 at 12:23

I have a problem,when we doing sex with my man,when he come out on my vagina there is a small blood in the condom

Posted by Cecilia on 21/09/2012 at 12:55

Am 22yrs old girl,d first time i have sex at d age 19yrs,i did nt see blood,but i feel pain wen i was disvirgin,since den i feel pain during sex,why

Posted by Optional on 21/09/2012 at 09:48

Hi, I'm a 24 year old female who doesn't have sex very often. I lost my virginity when I was 19 and the same month I lost it I stop having sex for almost 3 years. When I did start back having sex it wasn't often and now Im right back where I started. I've been celibate now for 14 months and I may have met someone who I believe will b my sexual partner; but I'm kind of embarrassed to have sex with him for some reason. I'm highly attractive, I just don't understand this feeling I'm having. What should I do?

Posted by Janice on 09/09/2012 at 12:07

i really don't have a sexual desire ever since, not only one person that i contacted but why is it i feel nothing? this will be my big question about myself and problem... my live in partner lived me theres a possibility this is the reason why he find another girl....

Posted by Optional on 31/08/2012 at 07:36

i had sex when i was on my period and i decided to give oral sex to my boyfrind can i ger sick from swallowing blood ???

Posted by Optional on 23/08/2012 at 09:21

Hi, my problem is that everytime I have sexual intercourse the skin of my vaginal break and it get very red. I have gone to the doctor to get myself check from any STDs and I am completely clear. I also have some skin lumps on the inside, kind of outer part of my vagina and I scare it could herpes, I had them for a while but and also pointed that out to my doctor but didn't say anything about but tested me for herpes and I was clear. I am completely healthy but I have that bothersome problem. Should I find another doctor, refrain from sex or is it normal? Please give me some answers, thanks!

Posted by Optional on 21/08/2012 at 01:16

I have been with my fiance since I was 13. I lost my virginity to him when I was 15. I am about to be 18 in 2 months. I never knew anything about sex but fell for if you love me you will. But we are still together so im not worried. We had sex on aug 20. We had sex all week. On sat we had sex at like 11am and around 6pm or 7 I started to bleed. I sm still bleeding. My period isnt until around the 5th. But my mom and sisters start in the 20s could they be throwing off my period or id this from having sex? Im not really sure.

Posted by Anonymous on 19/04/2012 at 05:44

I am a lesbian and naturally a very feminine and girly person. I just got out of a 9 year relationship where the in the last 5 year became abusive physically and mentally. During that time I started dressing in baggy jeans and plain baggy t-shirts putting my hair up in a loose bun never really looked at myself in the mirror. I also lost my sex drive, I haven't had sex in 5 years, I did even mastubate. I finally got the courage to leave her a month ago and that's when my body started doing really strange things...... The first 3 days I basically slept Only geting up to have a shower and eat. When I woke up on day 4 to have a shower My back sholders and neck was covered in teenage achne, And my skin smelt like a man really strong and my skin was really oily all over. My breath stunk to high heaven, my friend said it smelt like nail polish and I had the taste of milky penny's. This went on for 2 weeks and stopped. 2/3 weeks ago I started to feel like my old self again before I met her, rediscovering my femininity and totally feeling happy and confident in my sexy girly self. Then my labeido woke up......this is really embarrassing for me to say but 2 weeks Ago i was really uncomfortably aroused over nothing and decided to relieve myself for the first time in 5 years, and Once I started I couldn't stop It made me feel so ashamed.. The next morning I woke up with oily soapy skin, and smelt really nice and felt really smooth and really itchy a specially my scalp this hasn't stopped I find I have to mastubate everyday and shower 3 times a day due to hot flushes that leave me swimming in lady swet (Its not natural for me to swet, I don't even swet after an hour workout at the gym). My body is sexually aroused all day, and it's very debilitating and embarrassing, what the hell is happening to my body? I am soooo afraid that I have broken my body after repressing my sexuality (my femaleness) and became selebet for 5 years. What's happening to me?

Posted by ScaredBabe! on 13/04/2012 at 10:09

Okay......So Im 13 and me and my ex have only started dating again, Before we broke up all we did is kiss and now this time he want me to give him a blowjob and he wants to finger me, but im scared and really freaking out right now!!! Help!! xxxx

Posted by Tobyl on 14/03/2012 at 06:46

My clitoris never erect lately when i hv sex, but i do feel sexual aroused does it come with aging or what? Help im embarrased.

Posted by Optional on 28/01/2012 at 02:49

my problem is hand job sex. how will stop,i was many time stop thinking but i can not stop this stub-pit work .please help me.any other tablets available or any thing make a solution.

Posted by kathy on 16/01/2012 at 07:49

i have itching ...on vulva after inter course ! Heip !

Posted by harry on 30/12/2011 at 03:25

i have problem about the frequent night fall, almost once in 15 days sometimes less then that since almost 8years back, i have small penis and facing early ejaculation with my girl friend many times. so i keep loosing my confidence also...and i m also 12 kg underweight. will i face any problem on having sex with my life partner in future.

Posted by Optional on 24/12/2011 at 10:41

I let my b/f cum in me for the first time and im pretty sure i wasnt ovulating, but after a couple of minutes after, my stomach felt really weird. Is this normal after ejaculation in a woman? Im kinda worried and nervous now. Plz help..?

Posted by arvind on 04/11/2011 at 06:27

while doing sex, the spirm was release instantly, hence could not do sex long time.

Posted by Optional on 06/10/2011 at 02:03

i think i might have some for of STDs, seeing as on my penis, near the scrotum, on the lenis itself i have small bumps.. the are about 1-2 mm wide and are skin color. they feel and look like pimples but im not sure.. i read your article and the one that best describes my situation says that they only occur around the head.. HELP!

Posted by kindaworried on 27/09/2011 at 11:30

About a month ago I had sexual relations with a man, unprotected. I gave oral then I gave from behind(I didn't recieve) a few days after I got a rash on my armpits, and had itchy elbows, I used hydrocortizone and the armpit rash went away pretty quickly, Not long after my waist where the pevis bone kinda protrudes started itching and underneath my stomach, there are last week i had an upset stomach all week and didn't eat very much. also a couple spots on my armpits where little red dots show just a couple, but now my waist line is very itchy. I just wonder if this is related to the sex.

Posted by Optional on 01/09/2011 at 05:28

im scared 4 when i finally do have sex im going to embarress myself because my vagina is hairy all over and plus i dont know any moves PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Posted by Optional on 25/08/2011 at 03:04

I am a 18 year old female and felt constipated about four or five days ago. I had a feeling of cramps right above my pelvic bone, but then then next day I was able to poop. About four days ago I had sexual intercourse for the first time, but a condom was properly used. Two days ago I urinated blood with a sweetish odor and continued to have for have painful urination for the whole school day, and after school that day i went to the doctor and had my urine tested and it turns out I had a uti, which I believe is caused from the fact that I do not go to the bathroom enough. Lastly I have yet to have my monthly period and I am wondering if all of this is due to my urinary tract infection or if I am pregnant? I am very stressed out over this

Posted by Optional on 03/07/2011 at 07:18

i was jaking off the other day wen i woke up to find my penis was swollen near the top later tha day i masterbated and there was inprintss were my finger were is anything wrong with me ?

Posted by Optional on 27/05/2011 at 11:14

recently during sex i have poo'ed myself while having an Orgasm (I do experience female ejaculation) needless to say this is extremely embarressing, luckily my partner tells me not to worry, but this is starting to put me off having sex. I have had two children albeit 20 years ago. Why is this happening

Posted by Optional on 13/05/2011 at 10:46

why it is that when me and my partner are having sex i start feeling sick when climaxing

Posted by Optional on 12/05/2011 at 09:19

when havin sex is brill but when my boyfriend cums am so mad as icant feel him doing so i have never felt what it like

Posted by Optional on 21/04/2011 at 12:59

How do you treat vaginal tearing from intercourse and is it common?

Posted by Optional on 29/03/2011 at 08:43

I love this site, its beneficial.

Posted by Optional on 21/03/2011 at 12:51

i am 21 and i have masturbated several years and my penis size is 5 can i satisfy my wife and can i become father

Posted by Optional on 08/03/2011 at 10:47

when me and my girlfriend have sex it takes like 3 times for her to finally hit her climax? but with me I can finish fast? what em i doin wrong?

Posted by LJ on 27/02/2011 at 06:22

Hello, i masturbate some at leased everyday, i have had sex once, i have crater like indents on the bottom of my penis, they are itch, could this be from masturbating to much or an STD

Posted by brittany on 22/02/2011 at 05:45

well, i had unprotected sex about 4 to 5 months ago, and i didn't notice anything wrong with my vagina. I do have a lot of discharge and i wanted to know if i had a std because, i do hope not because i am young and i don't want to deal with that.

Posted by Hands, Fingers, Genitals? on 21/02/2011 at 03:04

Hi. I have a problem where i continually compare the size of my hands/fingers to everyone and anyone else. I have, what i consider slightly smaller hands than most guys BUT I compare them with my Dad's and many other men and find them to be roughly the same palm size and slightly longer hands overall it is just my fingers are ridicuously skinny/bony. My fist(s) consequentially look smaller. It is to the point where i cannot function as a normal person; where my thoughts are preoccupied with this subject too many hours on any single day. I am studying a very demanding degree also and am finding i struggle with it as thoughts are being wasted on this issue. Please help. I think this may be somethinig to do with a previous/current concern over penis size and the myth/urban legend where hand size puports penis size. I think i am average sized but who would know with so much mis/information out there? (FYI 5.5 - 6.25 inches length, 5inch circ.. I not sure how actually to measure properly)

Posted by Optional on 15/02/2011 at 07:46

When i had sex last night it was a bit painful at first as it is only my third time doing it but then the pain went away but i started feeling a little light headed/dizzy, and a bit sick, my face also went quite white, as if i was going to faint, why did this happen? i didnt really feel too warm, im a bit confused

Posted by Optional on 31/01/2011 at 08:23

Everytime i think about something sexual or do things that are a little bit sexual, after a little while i have excrutiating pain "down there" can anyone help me with this? Or if this happens to anyone please let mek now what I can do to stop it.

Posted by Optional on 27/01/2011 at 03:46

Wife does not want to have sex. its painfull and no lubrication ? wat r d medicines

Posted by Lara on 05/01/2011 at 11:06

my boyfriend as a rash and his penis is red and itching what can be wrong it happens to him often. i had a yeast infection about two months ago.what,s going on?

Posted by Optional on 07/12/2010 at 09:35

i recently had a fallupian tube tumor removed and with having only one fallopian left i was and still am worried about having kids in the future and if that operation wasnt bad enough i found out a couple of months later that i had chlamydia and do not know how long i had it for. i am so scared and it is destroring my life. please help?

Posted by Optional on 04/12/2010 at 05:18

I never had sex. My penis fore is tight. i can pull back the skin when my penis is normal condition but when it is erect, it is hard to pull the skin back. any solutions?

Posted by Optional on 20/10/2010 at 07:33

I am leading a double life man as well as women also. I wear women dreses as well as man. I wear earings and undergarments of ladies also. Is it a disease or habit please clear.

Posted by Optional on 25/09/2010 at 02:59

I get really horny before my period - is this normal?

Posted by Optional on 11/09/2010 at 03:33

smetimes cant stay wet and no orgasm

Posted by Optional on 12/08/2010 at 05:49

why my sperm become red and brown colour?

Posted by Laura on 03/08/2010 at 01:49

I am on the pill, but when im having sex with my boyfriend I bleed straight after, this dosent happen all the time but alot, what does it meean?

Posted by Optional on 01/08/2010 at 08:29

I have an issue where I am bleeding after and probably during sex. I just started having sex with a guy and I was as virgin up until this guy. I have an IUD for birth control and am wondering if this is causing me to bleed almost every time I have sex. This past time I was mortified after having sex he noticed there was some blood on his condom and the sheet was this something that I really need to worry about or is this something because sex is still a new thing to my body?

Posted by Optional on 14/07/2010 at 04:55

i am 20 week and 5 days pregnant found out i have thrush which i was given the pessary whihc i used last nite i not had any itching since. me and my partner had sex this morning and now i am really sore and fid it hard to sit properly. have i had sex too soon from using the pessary or is it that i am have a reaction to the pessary? could u please hell thnx.x

Posted by Optional on 29/06/2010 at 07:21

there are tiny bups around my penis and im scared to go to the doctor n i have had sex but used a condom n oral sex without one and im scared that i might have a disease or something because it will not go away any suggestions??

Posted by Optional on 10/06/2010 at 02:47

ive had itching around the outer lips of the vagina for a very very long time now and im not sure how to treat it ive tried all the usual treatments but nothing works and i hate going to the doctors about this kind of problem please help thankyou

Posted by Optional on 07/06/2010 at 02:22

I had sex about 6 months ago, we used a condom but she got pregnant (not sure how) but she got rid of it. i want to have sex again but im worried it may happen again, what can i do to reduce the chances even more, thanks

Posted by BlahBlahBlah on 06/05/2010 at 05:39

Okay, This Is Embarrassing, I Know I Shouldn't Be Worrying About Sex At My Age, But The Inner Lips Are Outside The Outer Lips Of My Vagina, Am I Still Able To Have Sex?

Posted by molly on 27/04/2010 at 09:12

how do i break myself in? me and boyfriend want to start having but i need to break myself in i tried with my finger and it didnt go far what do i do? please help its really getting me down thanks xx

Posted by Optional on 23/04/2010 at 12:55

Alright so, i have this problem, i look at my penis and i have red spots on the head of it, with small white spots on the shaft of it under the skin, and its makeing me worry i have a disease, im scared to show my mom, and go to the doctors. any answers?

Posted by habib on 24/03/2010 at 01:54

i m 22 yrs old ,i m unmarried ,my penis size 5 inches so i want 2 large & hard my penis by medicine .......plz tell abut name of the medicine soon as possible

Posted by Optional on 24/03/2010 at 09:15

as get excited when i aee a sexy man or woman but then when i turn to my boyfriend and try to cuddle i get total turn off. i know i love him and only want to be with him. is there a chance that i not being honest and i secrectly want wild sex else where. or is this a normal feeling

Posted by Optional on 21/03/2010 at 02:01

i was having sex and my girl vagina was dry and i stuck my penis in but because it was dry i had to kinda force it in and it streched the skin on my penis and now i have strech marks on my penis thats sore

Posted by Optional on 17/03/2010 at 10:08

can you tell me is it natual to go off of sex with my partner.during menapause ,if so what can help me .want sex again .my partner dont deserve this .please help .

Posted by Optional on 16/03/2010 at 04:33

Just a question: I was with this guy that I liked for a long time, and we were messing around.. the problem was that I was not turned ON at all... I did like him, but when we were together... I didn't feel anything, and this happened once before with this other guy I was dating at the time. I just dont get anything out of it! I dont know if this is normal... is something wrong with me.. should I Be doing something else or maybe theyre just not doing something right... can someone help please!

Posted by Anonymous on 02/01/2010 at 05:22

i have to ask, can a female "pop her cherry" while masterbating. and where is this "cherry"

Posted by Demi on 17/12/2009 at 08:43

sex is always painful. am i doing something wrong? my vagina is very tight?

Posted by Anonymous on 21/11/2009 at 02:16

I had unprotected sex over a week ago and the top of my penis where the hole is sore. pain is Like a stinging sensation.

Posted by Sex Stamina on 29/10/2009 at 03:45

I have habit of masturbation, but my masturbation stamina is very less around 1 minute. Will it effect on my marriagelife. How to produce more stamina?

Posted by Kurt Russel on 01/08/2009 at 03:21

When I am having sex I often get nervous about the other party wanting more after I am finished how do I go about avoiding this?

Posted by Anonymous on 15/07/2009 at 05:41

I have a pain in my right side when i have an orgasm , i have had a coil in for 2 years .

Posted by Anonymous on 14/04/2009 at 10:20

i was visiting the site and couldnt find what i was looking for so i am contacting you personnally looking for an answer to a problem i am having. since i have been sexually active ive noticed and have been told by the men i have slept with that i get very wet easily to the point were im gushing and sometimes feels like i have wet myself and i dont know if this is normal or wat i could do to prevent this as i do feel it is a bit embarrassing and off putting. if you could reply back to me that would be muchly appreciated

Posted by dan on 25/02/2009 at 07:41

ive been having these horrible disturbing dreams about my sister lately, they often occur, i cant stop thinking about it and i always cringe when i think about them, they often appear in my head when im masterbating which puts me off, im feeling sicker every day and im getting worried that im attracted to my sister. little help!!! taking into account im 15, could it be my hormones, i did eneter puberty late?


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