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Questions to ask yourself

Is it really an erection problem? Or is the actual problem premature ejaculation or a lack of sexual desire?

Can you achieve an erection by masturbation but not with your partner, and do you still sometimes wake with an erection? If the answers are ‘yes’, a psychological reason, such as stress or depression, is likely.

Did loss of erections come on suddenly, or have erections gradually been failing over a long period of time? Erectile failure which comes on suddenly is usually psychological; physical causes usually have a more gradual onset.

Have you been under extra stress lately? If so, is there any way you can lessen the stress in your life?

Are you taking any drugs (see above) that might be responsible? If so, ask your doctor for alternatives.

Are you drinking too much? Blood alcohol concentrations of up to about 25 mg/100 mL improve erections slightly, but when the level reaches about 40 mg/100 mL erection is inhibited. In some people, only one or two drinks is enough to raise the blood alcohol to this level. Heavy drinking over a long period can cause erectile failure because of nerve damage.

Have you noticed anything else wrong? For example: Peyronie’s disease, where the penis develops a lump and often kinks, can cause impotence; tightness of the foreskin can prevent full erections; and enlargement of the breasts or loss of body hair might mean a hormonal problem.

Who is really bothered by the problem – you or your partner? Talk to your partner about what each of you wants from sex. As sex counsellor Susie Hayman says, “It’s amazing how many people just lie there wishing their partner was a mind reader.”

Are you a smoker? If so, can you stop? Stopping smoking will not reverse the problem, but may stop it getting worse. Also, impotence is often a sign that your arteries are unhealthy, so stopping smoking is important to lessen the risk of a heart attack.

Have you had your blood pressure checked recently and been tested for diabetes? Many men with impotence have unhealthy arteries and high blood pressure, so checking your blood pressure and blood lipids (e.g. cholesterol) is essential. Impotence can also be a symptom of diabetes.

Common beliefs about erection problems

Erection problems are uncommon
This is untrue – most men simply do not talk about it. A survey sponsored by the pharmaceutical company Pharmacia & Upjohn found that more than 1 in 4 of the UK male population over the age of 16 has experienced erectile disorder to some degree. Of these, over half experienced the problem as one-off incidents and a quarter suffered erectile disorder most or all of the time. There are probably 20 million men with erection problems in the USA, and 2–3 million in the UK.

Erection problems are usually psychological
This is an old-fashioned view; impotence is most commonly due to a physical cause.

Testosterone injections/patches are a good cure for erection problems
Testosterone is of use only in the uncommon situation the man has a proven shortage of testosterone.

Viagra-type drugs don't work for everyone
These drugs are successful in only 50–80% of cases.

Erectile failure (also called impotence or erectile dysfunction) means that you cannot achieve or maintain an erection of the penis sufficient for sexual intercourse. Sex drive is often normal. Impotence can occur at any age, but becomes more common with increasing age. Because the average age of the population is getting older, experts predict that by the year 2010 almost half the men in the UK will have erection problems. But impotence is not inevitable with ageing – 40% of 90-year-old men are able to have a normal erection.

Written by: Dr Margaret Stearn
Edited by: Dr Margaret Stearn
Last updated: Thursday, October 15th 2015


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Posted by Optional on 28/09/2018 at 12:11

My boy friend is 41 years old and has a problem I neither know nor can describe, I started noticing this on the first day we had sex. At first i thought it was because it bwas the first time! but as time went on i realized he has a weak erection and even that he had to masturbate to get it as in his manhood doesn't become too hard and making it worse he looses the erection so fast.....sometimes just after penetration so that it all looses meaning, just a lifeless rubber it becomes!.....iv tried talking to him but he seems not to accept he has a problem....he says he's perfect.i have explored with other men before i met him and they usually have strong lasting erections. i think I LOVE HIM and he's a cool guy and i wouldn't like to cheat on him. my question is!Can it be cured? can it affect his fertility? is there anything i can do during intercourse to make things better.

Posted by Optional on 04/12/2017 at 12:21

goodday i have problems in actually reaching my fullest size with a girl ,i masturbate alot and watch porn ,my dick actually seems fuller then than with a girl but now both while masturbating and with a girl i am not completely hard and i dont completely feel the joy from cumming pls any advice

Posted by Optional on 03/10/2017 at 09:23

I have no trouble getting an erection during masturbation or foreplay. I can't get really hard. However during sex I cannot maintain a really hard erection for more than 5 minutes.When I try change position or when penis was accidentally removed, my erection is easily lost and without removing the condom it is hard to get it back. I ejaculate very soon and these issues has affect my marriage.

Posted by Optional on 16/09/2017 at 07:44

i lack interest in sexing after releasing of first semen and i won't have erection again till the following day

Posted by Optional on 11/05/2017 at 12:32

I have no trouble getting an erection during masturbation or foreplay. I can get really hard. However during sex I cannot maintain a really hard erection as I do during foreplay and masturbation. At some point I feel getting softer. Also sex does not feel very stimulating to my penis. I feel that I would never reach an orgasm no matter how long I continue. Partner seems to be enjoying it though. And if I attempt to stop, to change position or because penis was accidentally removed my erection is easily lost and without removing the condom it is hard to get it back.

Posted by Woko on 28/04/2017 at 04:42

Hi, I'm needing help, I'm having problems with keeping an hardon when having sex with my beautiful and amazing wife. I know she thinks I'm having sex with other woman but I'm not and can't explain what is going on. I'm in desperate need of HELP before she leaves me. Cheers

Posted by Not again on 27/03/2017 at 01:27

The desire is there but my penis won't get hard or semihard unless i hand massage i turned down my girlfriend the other night which was the first time ever now she feels its hard i so much want to but it just won't get hard so upset please help me

Posted by William Harris on 23/02/2017 at 12:42

Alcohol is long regarded as a risk factor for erectile dysfunction (ED), but epidemiological evidence has been equivocal. We aimed to investigate the ED risk associated with various levels of alcohol consumption by meta-analysis. Furthermore, considering the scale of the studies done on cardiovascular diseases and that of ED, it was not surprising that perhaps ED studies were simply not large enough to delineate the risk of ED associated with alcohol consumption. William from

Posted by Desperado on 04/02/2017 at 11:08

Hi...I'm a diabetic patient and recently wife is not getting satisfied completely maybe because of the reason we used to do sex twice a it's really hard to reach her desires as she is used to having more time in bed...I'm finding it really hard to get my penis erection for a longer period...sometimes it stands and when we start doing sex it softens up again...SOS!!!

Posted by Optional on 12/01/2017 at 11:34

please help me all the time if I want to have sex with my wife I have to wake my penis my hand first so some times my penis is not going strong so i don't know what is the problem so pls help me wht must I do an my wife she want a baby

Posted by Optional on 04/01/2017 at 11:54

Hi,Iam Just 29 years old and got married 8 months ago. my sex life was very much ok. we intercourse every day with good feelings. Suddenly 4 days ago i realised my Penis is not standing while foreplay. I thought its normal but the next day also same thing happen. its now 4 days my penis is not stand. its not stand even 20 percent. seems no feelings in my Penis. i m worried about it that. Pls suggest me. and let me know is there is any issue. I'm not having any bad habits like smoking , drinking , drugs and no tress and no problem and everything is fine . May I know why it happens now ? Is it dangerous for my sexual life ? Please suggest few medicine related to my issue . Please help me Thanks in advance

Posted by Optional on 31/12/2016 at 12:03

My boy friend has a problem I neither know nor can describe, I started noticing this on the first day we had sex. At first i thought it was coz i disturbed him to break my virginity that he gave up!!, but nooooo!! but as time went on i realised he has a weak erection as in his manhood doesn't become too hard and making it worse he looses the erection so fast.....sometimes just after penetration so that it all looses meaning, just a lifeless rubber it becomes!!.....he was diagonised with myasthenia gravis and at the same time he's a pot head......iv tried talking to him but he seems not to accept he has a problem....he says he's perfect and that iv lost appreciation......iv tried exploring to see if other men' penises are like his, but nooo, other men erect and sustain an erection, iv not played sex with any one else apart from my boyfriend and i think I LOVE HIM and he's a cool guy and i wouldn't like to cheat on him or break up with him over things that are out of his control. my question is, is it MG or weed that is causing the problem??!

Posted by Limp dick on 28/12/2016 at 06:25

I've had 2 Stokes and that has been about 4 years ago.For that point on I been put on alot of medication. Long story short I can't masterbate anymore my dick has shrunk, I can't even have sex with my wife I am also on Oxygen 3litters is there anything I can do my wife doesn't deserve to have to go through this. It's not her fault I feel like she's got the SHIT end of the deal..

Posted by Major on 21/12/2016 at 10:56

I am a smoker, a diabetic and had four stents passed in my different arteries. I get normal erection for masturbation but when it comes to have sex with my wife I hardly gets an erection. I use medicine like Viagra local made which help me get an erection during sex and I can have successful intercourse, but my timings is very less. it is hardly 2 to 3 minutes. If I don't take medicine I don't get any erection during sex with my wife who is 42 and maintains a perfectly sexy body. How to get erection please help.

Posted by Optional on 11/12/2016 at 08:43

This would be great to know, if there were technical tips you could try to help you overcome the issue. I've been cursed with low testosterone, and while I usually can get hard when I want to masterbate, I get nothing when I meet "someone" I want to have sex with. What gives? I've was recently told by my doctor that my testosterone level has dropped.

Posted by Dawn on 01/12/2016 at 04:12

My husband is 32 years old. He was diagnosed with A.L.L leukemia at the age of 10 in 1994 and he has been in remission since 1997. During that time he went through a lot of chemo and other procedures. I started noticing during sex that when he masturbated he really did not show any signs of enjoyment. When I asked him about it he said it just feels like he is urinating with a warm sensation. He told me it has always felt that way his entire life and he does not know any different or how satisfying it should feel. So I guess I'm wondering if the chemotherapy has affected some of the feelings of enjoyment during ejaculation or is there something else going on?

Posted by Optional on 18/11/2016 at 03:37

Hello, my boyfriend and I have been having issues trying to have sex lately. Sometimes it's because our stomachs are bugging us but most of the time, he can't even get a boner going or he can't even keep one. Sometimes it feels like it's me and my curvy body because he's gotten bored of it... We haven't had a proper f*ck for quite a few months now and it's getting really upsetting. It's gotten to the point where I don't even expect anything from him at night or in the morning anymore. He says we're gonna do it but we end up not doing anything at all. I would really appreciate if someone could help out with this... Our sex lives are going down the drain... :(

Posted by Horlarofficial on 10/11/2016 at 01:27

Thanks it was helpful

Posted by Peter on 12/10/2016 at 02:34

My partner 52,he can't get a hard erection just a limp one,its getting us down,he claims its ever since he got a broken rib,Viagra Dont wont,am buying pomegranate juice,wud b grateful if u could help please

Posted by Optional on 12/09/2016 at 07:30

I am having the erection problem with my partner during sex. As when i masturbate its normal, when i woke up its fully erected. Even if somehow its erected during intercourse it aumatically got smaller and i have to stop. Please help me. I am not used to smoke that much

Posted by Optional on 24/04/2016 at 03:46

I can't get an erection.I have had bladder cancer twice and I am now clear.up to 4 years ago I had no problem have tried vagrant etc does nothing.asked about alprostadil but they treat you as if you are an idiot.can you tell me if I can get vitaros cream on prescription on nhs from my gp?please help.

Posted by Optional on 14/04/2016 at 07:34

where the penis develops a lump and often kinks, can cause impotence; tightness of the foreskin can prevent full erections; and enlargement of the breasts or loss of body hair might mean a hormonal problem. how to overcome this problem?

Posted by Optional on 30/03/2016 at 12:36

i have been having pain on my bell end for the past year on and off been to doctor they cant find anything, i have nothing on it like sores or discharge haven't had sex with my wife for past year due to her being ill haven't masturbated or mess about with other women or anything. but now i cant get a erection on. I suffer with hip problems join pain and i have arthritis on both knees, could the pain in my hips and groin are cause pain in my penis

Posted by Optional on 20/03/2016 at 10:45

Hi,I have been extremely frustrated lately. For about a little over a year ,I have been having erection problems only when its time to have sex with my woman. I have no problem being erect during most of my day. I just want my sex life back. I want me&my woman to have great sex again. How can I shake this mind thing? I've drove my self nuts with all the googling & trying to eat right,and taking different supplements. It keeps coming back. On&off problem. But mostly unsucesssful. Please, Please help me!!

Posted by Tisa Smith on 14/03/2016 at 11:44

Oral medicine like Generic Viagra, Kamagra, Generic Levitra, Super P Force and many more is often the first line of cure for erectile dysfunction (Impotence). For a lot of men who have difficulty keeping an erection firm sufficient for making love (ED), these medicines work well & reason few adverse effects. For more about you can visit:

Posted by Optional on 12/03/2016 at 05:22

I can manage to get an erection by masturbation initially and then penetration is good for a short while. However since taking Erectomax I am good for much longer. My neighbor said she has never enjoyed love making so much even though she of a large figure and enjoyes the combination of my tongue and penis.

Posted by Optional on 11/03/2016 at 09:40

Ever since I was a young child my penis erection was different because my penis erection points up to my abdomen and has a significant curve to the left. As it curves up and to my left it looks like it is about to turn over. I mean that it looks like it twists so my penis slit at the end is not vertical, but almost horizontal. The doctors say it is not progressive as in the prirones disorder and I check it often and the nurse at school does once a year. I looks so different that I become very self aware when I get naked in front of others. Even when my penis is not hard it still is curved. I often wonder if there is a herbal lotion that will help. Does anybody else have this?

Posted by Optional on 22/02/2016 at 09:26

hello. i am suffering erectile dysfuntion. i do not get hardness.i am worried about it because i am going to married after 4 month. please help me

Posted by salankie s. k. on 05/02/2016 at 06:15

Sir, when my penis have strength, i enter in vagina, but After enter penis head, i loose the my strength. please suggest how can get out of it this problem, i married just before 7 month.

Posted by Roys on 28/01/2016 at 07:50

When i put my penis inside vagina getting soft and i can't make happy to my partner

Posted by Optional on 23/01/2016 at 10:01

I get an erection and sometimes it comes out of the foreskin but mostly it doesn't and this is making having sex difficult Another issue is I have an erection and will be about to have sex with my partner and when I put protection on after a few minutes I begin to loose my erection

Posted by Optional on 11/01/2016 at 04:12

My penis is not erecting I used to masturbate too much like twice in a day and now no erection. Please help what to do

Posted by Optional on 07/01/2016 at 06:41

I've been having erection problem for a while now. I don't know what's causing the problem, I even stopped smoking and tried using erection pills but that doesn't seem to be helping. Please I need your help

Posted by Optional on 06/01/2016 at 02:55

i had married 4 months before from first day i have no feelings and i have loss sexual desires. before marriage i want to sex and i had normal desires. and normal erection. but now my dick dont erect if erect it goes soft just after touching my wifes vagina. whats the problem. ?i had never sex with any girl

Posted by Optional on 05/01/2016 at 06:39

I m geeting erected in masturbation and while i am participating in sex my penis not erected and not getting strongly and harder ....please give the answer I am getting tenision ....what is the problem tell me

Posted by Optional on 04/01/2016 at 06:25

I don't got a problem getting hard my problem is getting off with my wife . I had this problem before we got married

Posted by Optional on 26/12/2015 at 03:57

my penis is not erecting and frequently i am going for pee. Is it prostate cancer

Posted by Optional on 17/12/2015 at 09:16

Hello, I'm 29 years old and don't have a problem getting an errection, but a quarter way into it I lose my errection. What can I do to fix this problem. Yes, I do smoke but only a few a day until I can fully quit. At times, yes I am stressed a good bit which is why I'm asking what I can do to fix this problem.

Posted by Aaron on 16/12/2015 at 01:10

It came about suddenly but I only see a few articles that target how I feel I was raped March 5 2015 ever since then I wasn't the same I tired having sex with different women but I just recently found a woman I plan on spending the rest of my life with and now I don't even wake up with an erection I want to have children with her I'm so young and I'm scared this is permanent loss of my normal everyday erection use to I couldn't run up against something without having an erection now I can't even have one when I'm trying to this doesn't help my depression or stress in fact it makes it worse I want help a list of primary care doctors in my area would help greatly ( lake Jackson TX ).

Posted by sheeba on 15/12/2015 at 09:57

my man age is 36 nd i m 31..we hv conpleted 1 year of our marriage sex life is gud bt frm 3 month his penis nt got stand we want a baby bt it creates prob his semen test is ok doc said there is no prob...wat to do nw

Posted by Steven on 14/12/2015 at 09:49

I just found out last night, we did all we could even a blow job i couldn't just get hard. So scared. Don't wanna lose my girl.

Posted by SONU on 07/12/2015 at 04:39

swelling problem, while doing intercourse immediate swelling not come and hardness also not be there, please help me what are the steps i have to follow to be normal.

Posted by me on 02/12/2015 at 08:22

hi my girlfriend is really fit and likes sex but my penis is not doing what is should be doing i get semi hard or if it does go hard is quickly goes soft plz help im frustraded

Posted by Optional on 27/11/2015 at 03:28

I cant get a errection with my wife but I can if I masterbate

Posted by george arinaitwe on 24/11/2015 at 01:55

good work

Posted by nash on 19/11/2015 at 10:42

Hy i need help but dnt knw way to start, i am 20 my penis gets stronger in the morning or when i think of somthing romantic but when abt having sex somtimes it will be hard somtimes semi hard and when i insert it in a virgina it takes me just four seconds somtimes three seconds then i will sperm, then after that no more geting hard for like two to three hours my gal frend will suck me, carase my balls no need, i wont even feel a thing, i was told that sucking is pleasurable bt my own case i dnt even feel a thing its as if its nt my body that she is sucking, even when i insert and thrust like three to four times i dnt even feel like my penis is doing anyting so plsssss i need help cant continue like this

Posted by Danny on 14/11/2015 at 06:41

I don't smoke cigarettes but I vape and when I'm in the mood I can get a little bit of an eriection but not more than 50% what should I do

Posted by anonymous on 11/11/2015 at 07:06

Why do I get constant erection while talking with the opposite sex

Posted by Optional on 07/11/2015 at 08:30

my problem is that my erection come quick and after like five minutes I ejaculate and I will not get erection again and it bent to left. what can I do help me

Posted by Optional on 07/11/2015 at 06:01

penis bend and i dnt maintain erection for intercourse

Posted by Optional on 03/11/2015 at 03:41

I am 26yrs i have a problem i can erect anytime i talk to any woman,during intercouse i take more than 1hr to ejeculate and after ejaculating my penis still remains hard.I can have sex the whole night and my penis still remains hard there after it goes soft after stoping but takes 1hr or more,these is affecting me with my female associates in my office.Kindly assist

Posted by Optional on 27/10/2015 at 06:01

I am a virgin I use mastirbate previously but now my Penis is not hardening please get me why so happening, I have sexual feelings well

Posted by Numi on 27/10/2015 at 01:04

I am 17years old my penis is getting soft but not hard plz help me

Posted by vig on 20/10/2015 at 07:15

I'm 22 and I can't get erection without physic stimulation and I need more stimulation to get hard recently...I used to watch porn a lot..I mostly get performance anxiety..but I still get my morning erection and they are good...issue there a problem? ? And what to do now?

Posted by Khaled on 19/10/2015 at 07:31

My penis is erected by hand only, but not at time of love making please advice

Posted by Lax on 16/10/2015 at 11:21

Hi dr. I am 40 and I have diabetic. Latetly I had seen that I am not having erection properly. Till recently I used to perform 2 to 3 times a night.. now I am worried. how ever iam able to masturbate and get my sperms out but not with full erection. Please advise

Posted by els on 12/10/2015 at 08:50

I have a problem of ejaculating without getting hard and happened when I was with different partner. How can I resolve this problem as it is really disturbing? Initially I had no problem getting hard but ejaculate kind of quickly so I started using a pill. Though the pill make me last long in bed, the after effect is persistent headache and takes very long to wear out. Hence, since I stopped using the pill I realise the problem of ejaculating without getting hard enough to engage in sex. Any suggestion on how to resolve this problem will be great. Thanks

Posted by Optional on 09/10/2015 at 05:28

I normally t an erection but loose too early and even if I maintain erection than I ejaculate very early. This problem has now put me in a mental worry that I get afraid to have sex with a fear of not getting erection

Posted by Sunny on 09/10/2015 at 03:05

Sir I am 29 years old & I have lot of sexual problems. First of all my penis is not straight & after doing toilet it started leaking. No strength in my penis & is too weak to do any kind of intercourse. Plz help

Posted by Optional on 07/10/2015 at 10:30

I am 41 years old and I have notice recently noticed a decrease in the strength of my erections. I can have sex with my gf and orgasm once no problem at all. But we usually like to go for round number 2 in 30 minutes or so and sometimes there is a problem maintaining my erection. I also sometimes have a difficult time getting hard for masturbation. Any ideas?

Posted by Shahid on 05/10/2015 at 01:18

my penis is not fully and hardly erecting. And i want the strength of my penis like when i was 18 year old.

Posted by manu jain on 04/10/2015 at 03:30

Hello doctor I'm 27 years old. I'm facing some major problem during intercourse with my life partner. Yet we are not married, but while we are doing intercourse im having lack of erection. If i watched porn i was fully erected, nothing having any kind of problem and doing mastrubate freely without having any problem. But, during with my partner i can't getting erected. This is my first time to enjoying sex and i never did with anyone before. If i try to insert my little erected penis in her vagina. Sperm will release its own. Please help me out in that serious matter.

Posted by Optional on 01/10/2015 at 09:25

ma pennies wakes up wen I mustabate or romance with my patner but wen put it in it sleeps...nd when you shake sperm will come out in few second

Posted by OptionalChipper on 27/09/2015 at 12:44

I'm gay and a total bottom. I don't penetrate my boyfriend, but I still need to get an erection and cum after he cums in me.

Posted by Xxx on 24/09/2015 at 06:10

I m a 23 old man. I m having sex more then 200 times. And sometimes doing sex more then 10 times in one day. But since last 10 days my penis not getting harder. After discharging once my penis not getting harder again still one or two hour

Posted by Stephen on 23/09/2015 at 09:01

ma pennies wakes up wen I mustabate or romance with my patner but wen put it in it sleeps

Posted by Optional on 23/09/2015 at 03:01

hello sir I've got 1 weird problem.. im 18 year old 4 day ago i masturbated at night and since that night my dick is not getting harder at night, and I've heard that it is not good of your dick doesn't get hard at night, and yeah before that night my dick was getting hard regularly... so pls help me waiting for your reply

Posted by Optional on 16/09/2015 at 05:06

My husband can get fully erect and come to a climax during oral sex but cannot maintain an erection to fully penetrate me when we try to have vagina sex. Is that possible?

Posted by Optional on 09/09/2015 at 07:38

Dear sir, I have erection problem i think, Normally while masturbation it erect well. while doing sex, in starting it erect well, strong enough to do sex, But while starting to do sex it loosing strongness. Then i have to masterbating with hand for making it strong. I am doing sex since last 2 months and masterbation since 6-7 years, Need your proper guidance.. That why normally my penis is strong enough to do, Only when i start to do why only that time it goes down ?

Posted by Peter on 09/09/2015 at 01:18

I have problem of erection after i had a shave hair on my penis is that normal?

Posted by Optional on 07/09/2015 at 02:06

Please help me when am ready to insert my my pennies goes down

Posted by Optional on 31/08/2015 at 01:44

i hav bn mastarbating 4 over 10yrs nw i can hav a hard erectin and i when i try to put my penins it just go down and when it get inside it cant last longer without coming out and i get it hard to ejaculate plz help me my girl friend is nw becoming angry with me

Posted by Mike on 30/08/2015 at 09:59

My pennis get erect but immedietely i release sperm it becomes weak, is it normal?

Posted by Optional on 23/08/2015 at 09:38

I havet sex problem befor sex my penis is strong but when i try to put on vigina it gets lower what can I do i didnt do any sex in my life pls help me i try viagra it didnt work

Posted by Optional on 22/08/2015 at 11:38

I hav erection on night and also have rection while wathcing porn video but when i go for a sex 1st tym iy was not erected at any stage i tried a lot but it was not done that time can you plz suggest

Posted by raj on 18/08/2015 at 06:45

I masturbate from 15 year only.. I got hard erection.. I ve 5.5 inch penis.. from 4 days I got erection but with in a second it get loose .. in loose condition it get ejaculate.. I m getting erection every time but it get loose.. m virgin.. tell me d solution

Posted by Optional on 16/08/2015 at 04:50

If my pennis erect and try to put in vagina my pennis goes down it has happen to me two times with the same lady

Posted by Optional on 16/08/2015 at 02:09

what can i do? my penis rises when am with my gf,or even thinking of her.

Posted by Precious on 07/08/2015 at 05:59

For some days I have experience Penis erectile failure, I need help and advice to regain my erections

Posted by John on 06/08/2015 at 05:48

Since i was born i never had sex due to erection problem. When am ready to insert the penis i wl suddenly lose the erection. What is the problem and tell me the solution pls. Help me.

Posted by George on 06/08/2015 at 11:45

I am very much addicted to masturbation and watching porn movies for five years now,and I have been experiencing pre-mature ejaculation. My penis cant stand long enough for penetration. I need help

Posted by Optional on 05/08/2015 at 06:08

my penis is not erecting and not growing also i am totally thinking that i am sexless. My penis looks like a ladies finger. what will i do pls hepl on this ?

Posted by Optional on 03/08/2015 at 01:09

Sir i am 19 year. I am addicted to mastribution since whn i am 15 years.i mastributed continuesly till 19 i am now control the mastribution and from 4 days my penis not getting hard naturally till i rub with the hand.can u tell me what is the reason

Posted by Satthi on 26/07/2015 at 03:46

Sir i am 24 year. I am addicted to mastribution since whn i am 13 years.i mastributed continuesly till 24 i am now control the mastribution and from 4 days my penis not getting hard naturally till i rub with the hand.can u tell me what is the reason

Posted by ethan on 23/07/2015 at 01:14

i got a direct kick in the balls recently, and i havent been able to get a full erection since, i can get partial erection only if i try, but im not sure if im just stressed, or if something is wrong, im to shy to ask my parents if its a problem, and i dont know how to ask anyone else if that has happened to them

Posted by Optional on 16/07/2015 at 10:50

sir, i am male 24. i am addicted in masterbation, as a result of it, i dont get any natural erection until i rub my penis with my hand. i lose erection during intercourse and even during blowjob i don get full erection. my penis sensitivity and morning wood gone. how to get back natural erection and sentivity? and i dont feel any sexual feelings on my shoulder, throat and thighs. please help me.

Posted by raju on 14/07/2015 at 03:06

Hi i have a problem i tried have sex with my girlfriend for the 1st we both never had sex before ,i was horney erected then i grabed a condom put it in my penis when i was about to make love to her my penis started to be weak and i dont know why cause we we're both ready i wanted to do this. And now she feel like im nolonger attracted to her the 2nd time sex was also same please help me.

Posted by Optional on 12/07/2015 at 03:39

I am having promlems with having keeping my penis hard when masterbating can you help

Posted by John on 29/06/2015 at 07:51

My penis is 6 inches and wide and i get strong erection while foreplay i can maintain it for a long time while foreplay and oral but whenever i try penetrating it in her my penis just gets soft and bends its embarrassing and i am very worried as i love my gf a lot. Please help me.

Posted by Optional on 29/06/2015 at 10:28

I am 61 years old always a active sex partner. 6 years ago I got divorce and sex drive seem to disappear.Now I have a partner and a strong erection while foreplay i can maintain it for a long time while foreplay and oral but whenever i try penetrating it in her my penis just gets soft and bends its embarrassing and I am very worried Please help me.

Posted by Morelight on 21/06/2015 at 09:38

my prick never stand more than 6seconds before, I've never been activated to sex, now i want to have sex but I can't, what the problem?

Posted by noni on 21/06/2015 at 06:58

My penis is 6 inches and wide and i get strong erection while foreplay i can maintain it for a long time while foreplay and oral but whenever i try penetrating it in her my penis just gets soft and bends its embarrassing and i am very worried as i love my gf a lot. Please help me.

Posted by Optional on 17/06/2015 at 07:43

I have a friend said he busted a vein in his penis about a year ago, since than he gets hard than all of a sudden he gets soft, with oral and intercourse , could drinking play apart of that he drinks 7 days a week

Posted by naksh on 11/06/2015 at 06:06

Hi Im 21 year old and im from india. I have a problem with my penis. From last two months I realized that my penis is not getting harder. And yes I drink beer 4-5 times in a week. Please reply me as possible

Posted by Optional on 09/06/2015 at 04:01

i am taking asthma medicines and also for urination problem taking urologist's prescribed medicine simultaneously .Now i faced the problem of not getting erected my penis from yesterday only it erected for little time when i shake my penis.What can be reason behind it

Posted by Optional on 03/06/2015 at 08:17

I do get erections but whenever i'm ready for action it suddenly comes down. Please, what can i do?

Posted by Optional on 21/05/2015 at 12:24

Hey me and my partner have tried so many things and been together for three years I'm 22 and she is 30 I'm needing help badly I want ànd need help regarding erectile disfunction and it's getting worse I don't know if it's stress or what but her sec drive is that of a 18 year old school girl and she wants it all the time it's effecting bothave her and I, personally need help before relationship hits rock bottom...

Posted by Optional on 15/05/2015 at 11:26

Hi, I have had a couple of nights out and drank pretty heavily and as a result have struggled to get an erection. I know find myself not getting an erection at any point in the day... Is it anxiety? Is there an underlying problem? Am I de-sensitived from porn? I have no idea any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.

Posted by Push on 06/05/2015 at 10:28

Hi i have a problem i tried have sex with my girlfriend for the 1st we both never had sex before ,i was horney erected then i grabed a condom put it in my penis when i was about to make love to her my penis started to be weak and i dont know why cause we we're both ready i wanted to do this. And now she feel like im nolonger attrected to her..yet she sometime tell me maybe it cause it our 1st time for both of us.....please help im worried i love her

Posted by AM on 02/05/2015 at 09:43

Hai.. My husband has erection problem.. he used to masturbate lying on the bed and just rub his penis. Now he is having erection problem and when try to insert he cannot. Please we need a help on this

Posted by Optional on 01/05/2015 at 12:56

I can achieve an erection by masturbation but not with partner .. My penis only get staight only for 5 min while wearing clothes but when i removed her clothes my penis wont straight again. I always have this problem while having sex with her what should i do? I m really very frustrated?

Posted by deeps on 21/04/2015 at 09:41

Hii.. from last two months... I was planning for sex with my gf... I masturbuted many times by thinking about that. but today when I was over that and was on bed with that girl I found that my penis was not so erected as usually is used to be.. and my stamina & time limit of sex was also decreased.. I had sex after a long period.. as such I was single from last two years... is that was due to masturbution or any other reason..

Posted by chrisbarryk on 21/04/2015 at 01:57

please am strongly dying insight of me,because my penis rises all d time and am so embarrass even in the church ,it we stand and I need solution

Posted by siyabonga on 18/04/2015 at 07:06

is there any medication for erectile problem?

Posted by Rahul on 06/04/2015 at 08:00

I have a 6'inch penis and its erect most of time so for this i have to mastrubute it normal.

Posted by Optional on 06/04/2015 at 07:01

Hello, I am having a erection problem. Use to Masterbate a lot. Use to have a sex 3-4 times a night. But now once I get erection my penis go weak with in 5 mind. Not able to have a sex twice in night. Use to do drugs and heavy alcoholic. It's very embarrassing for me. Please help me out. I m very worried about it

Posted by sami on 06/04/2015 at 01:23

I'm 23 year old and I got married 6month go my sex is very weak and my sex me 1 minut an my pe is very weak is well I need help please please

Posted by Optional on 03/04/2015 at 11:58

Thank you. Solutions to my problem was not given.I don't have erections at All even after waking up from sleep. This has been for many months, say years. I haven't had sex before. I'm 21 .Please help.

Posted by Optional on 29/03/2015 at 05:08

Ok basically , I have been with my gf 2 years now , n jus recently the last 3 or 4 times , my penis goes soft jus before entering the vagina .. Due this every time I come to have sex , it plays on my mind that it's gonna happen again , n it does ! I'm so annoyed cus I love my girlfriend so much , n jus want to satisfy her , she says she not fussed ,, but that's not the case , I need to overcome this !!

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Posted by mr.x on 23/03/2015 at 05:35

I don't get an erection........what might be the cause and how to make it fine?

Posted by Optional on 22/03/2015 at 07:37

Am impotent please help my wife need me

Posted by Optional on 22/03/2015 at 05:15

Hey I'm a 17 year old body builder and I'm having morning erection and being able to masturbate but 2 day before when i was having sex my erection failed and this the second time this has happened please i need help and opinions on what i can do

Posted by A A M on 20/03/2015 at 03:29

i married before 6 months. I am not able to insert my penis in my wifes vigina. I tried various positions but failed. i think my penis is short and fat its size is long 3.5-4.00 inch fat 3 inch . What can i do and tell me some lubricants which can be easily avaliable in indian market

Posted by Optional on 18/03/2015 at 02:13

I love having sex with my Lady however, it has been a problem keeping an erection. Sometimes! I don't get an erection at all. I used to drink heavy in bars but not anymore. I've stopped smoking for 12 years. I still drink; but moderately. I exercise, drink healthy drinks, meditate, and really try taking care of myself better especially! now that I am older. I have taken Ginseng, drink herbal teas and drink plenty of water. I do suffer with high blood pressure and hypertension. I love my lady and I can't see myself not being able to satisfy her. Whenever I do get a good erection, we have great sex!I am very glad that she is understanding but I'm worried about it because, this shouldn't be happening to me. What can I do to end this erection problem?

Posted by Optional on 26/02/2015 at 07:07

I am a smoker. I am 31 years old. I want to have sex with my wife but sometimes I can't get an erection. What's wrong with me?

Posted by Optional on 16/02/2015 at 01:48

Im messing around with my gf ive been with for 5 years and right before we have sex as im putting it in I get soft idk what the problem is im so attracted to her and she thinks its her and its really not. We have had sex hundreds of times and this is maybe the 3rd or 4th time this has happened and also this is back to back what could be wrong stress? Too much pressure thinking about the last time please help

Posted by Optional on 03/02/2015 at 04:37

i have problem that not get errect during sex with my wife,its happening last two yers,now a days iam very much disappointed and even i thing about to do suisides, i like to do gay sex, wen i do sex with my gay partne i dont have any errection problems, need ur adwise and help.

Posted by Optional on 02/02/2015 at 04:45

HI, have election problems, gets hard but lose it quickly,I used to masterbate by rubbing my penis on the bed, but after stopping for about a month I am now able to masterbate with my hands and it feels a lot better, lasts longer aswell, but haven't to improve my performance with partner, it's early days though so still hoping

Posted by Optional on 28/01/2015 at 02:48

I have a problem. When I get off I cannot get my penis to get back up to go again

Posted by Optional on 22/01/2015 at 02:53

U I cant hve sex my penis don't react I cant see my wife n leave her without love she is young n need sex my penis stand only for a min m go down m not going hard can I plz let me know Wht to do Ani tablet

Posted by Optional on 21/01/2015 at 06:58

I have an orgasm without having an erection. Is this normal?

Posted by desperate on 17/01/2015 at 03:26

57 never had an orgasm had an erection could have intercourse never came had primosis had circumizion hoping it would change things so far swellin not down fiancé not happy when I masterbate to porno comp I don't know what orgasm feels like feels like stress relief hot bath any answeres

Posted by Manish on 16/01/2015 at 04:19

I got married before one month I m satisfied sex with my wife but before some days my penis is not erect and my penis goes small size and soft please give me answer what problem

Posted by blub on 16/01/2015 at 12:43

I've been having problems with my penis. For almost 2 months now I haven't had a full on erection. It'll get like 50% hard and it lasts about 20 seconds. The tip is also a numb feeling. I've read online and apparently too much masturbation is a thing, but I'm not sure.

Posted by Optional on 15/01/2015 at 07:39


Posted by Optional on 14/01/2015 at 12:48

I have very quick fall. I am so depressed can't satisfy my partner. Please help

Posted by Optional on 14/01/2015 at 10:37

I am a 23 years old guy with a weird way of masturbating. I lie on the bed with my underwear on, watch porn and just rub my penis and thighs on the bed sheet and wallah i cum even when my penis is not hard. I started doing this when i was 14 & now i want to change it but i cant, the normal technique of masturbating jus doesnt work,penis gets hard but after sometimes i feel pain on the tip of my penis & get bored & the erection becomes weaker. Also now i am having problems with erection during sexual intercourse. Whenever i try to have sex with my gf, i get erection at first then it gets weaker n soft and i cannot continue which is bringing problems in the relationship. Is it because of the unusual/weird way of masturbation?? PLEASE HELP!!!

Posted by Optional on 12/01/2015 at 10:18

i am concerned about mu boyfriends penis he said that his hips are became painful and he feels that his penis became hot.. :) please answer

Posted by Matt1998 on 10/01/2015 at 01:00

Hi. Im matt and im 16. Starting about a month ago, my erections have been gettng weaker and weaker. I used to have robust erections, and suddenly they started getting weaker. This doesnt make a lot of sense because i am an extremely healthy 16 year old male who lifts weights and runs. My weight is very good. However, blood pressure is somewhat high. This may be physcolgical, but i dont know. Its difficult to get strong erections while masturbation or with girlfriend. I recently have stopped watching porn and masturbating in hopes of getting my erections back. I was never a big masturbation guy. However, i would get sexual with girls and get erect and not ejaculate or masturbate afterwards. I would really appreciate help. Thank you

Posted by Optional on 04/01/2015 at 03:01

India i have erection lower two balls growing larger

Posted by Optional on 03/01/2015 at 02:08

Since I had a heart attack what ever med the Dr has me on will the erections has gone south.

Posted by Amees on 30/12/2014 at 12:48

Best article

Posted by Optional on 29/12/2014 at 06:16

Cant last for a minute during sex with my patner,i have early ejaculations ,and after ajaculating i loose my erction for about 30 minutes,my g,f is blaming herself thinking that is her problem ,i need help

Posted by Lotsofdrugs on 28/12/2014 at 08:02

There are a lot of drugs that will flatten Mr Happy. Antidepressants are almost guaranteed,so are opiates,cocaine and other street drugs. The list can be huge for some men. Best of luck to everyone.

Posted by Optional on 28/12/2014 at 02:46

I have been masturbating since I was 15. I've been doing it almost every day. To the point that my testes feel a little tight. I get an erection every morning and I can get one on my own, but when I'm with my feels like all blood flow stops. I can get one for a little bit but I can't stay hard long enough to get inside her. Should cut back on masturbating for a while? I'm so scared that I won't be able to have sex. I've tried some pills and they rarely work.

Posted by lucky on 25/12/2014 at 05:49

i am a 28 year old guy.. i have a problem of erection.. 2 years before i take viagra pills for long sex periods after dat i relise my penis is not erected well like before.. before in 1 days its erected 10,15 time a day and now its erect ones a month.. please help me sir i am still single and nxt year going to marriage plss help me

Posted by My Penis is Broken From Between on 25/12/2014 at 11:10

My Penis is Broken Or I Can Say It is Very Soft from Between And Now When Try to Mastrubate It doesn't Allow to Erect the Penis Properly Can You Help in This

Posted by STA on 24/12/2014 at 05:11

My Penis Just does not get erect whenever I want. I had masturbated a lot in the past. What shall I do? Stop masturbating for few months. I have premature ejaculation. PL..reply

Posted by Optional on 21/12/2014 at 03:49

My penis erects sometimes without any sexual desires in my mind. it stays for a little long which gives pain in penis. and I feel so embrassing when I am in public having erection at that time.

Posted by Optional on 19/12/2014 at 09:06

It started like fever all of a sudden I loose sextuall urge for women and can't get erection again. Actually I maturbate vvery well before this problem. About getting maried. What do I do.

Posted by Welcome on 13/12/2014 at 06:23

Yerstaday i had sex bt ididnt last long when i had second round my penis didnt get erected now am stress

Posted by Optional on 13/12/2014 at 03:30

My penis is about 8 inches and pretty wide in girth and i have no problem getting an erection when me and my girlfriend are fooling around but when it comes to me actually penetrating her my penis just gets soft really fast its really embarrassing idk whats wrong

Posted by thabo on 12/12/2014 at 05:35

My penis will just eract all of a sudden even if I'm NT thinking about sex...its so embarrassing and when I tell my gf she thinks I lust other girls...

Posted by Optional on 04/12/2014 at 06:22

This is weird but like I was chilling with friends had a bit of alcohol smoked alot of cigarettes when I got home I was showering my Penis got smaller but the next day it got back to average size I wanted to see if it still worked so I forced masterbate couldn't feel a thing but I still cumed I don't know what to do cos now it's not working

Posted by prince on 03/12/2014 at 03:05

Having an erection that lasted for 2weeks and having burning sensation pains in the penile area and the penis is slow going to the flaccid state. Need your advice on wat to do?

Posted by Optional on 01/12/2014 at 08:14

I have great erections when I'm alone but with a women i struggle to get an erection and it can take quite awhile to achieve one. Usually it happens eventually but is very embarrassing.

Posted by Optional on 29/11/2014 at 05:24

I am only 43 years old and a dibeties patient. My penies is not getting hard since 3 months. what should I do to getting hard my penies.

Posted by Optional on 28/11/2014 at 01:52

Can get hard doing sex or totally hard during oral sex, i dont know whats going on, this just started recently.

Posted by dextor on 27/11/2014 at 02:25

hi there, i am 27 now but i didn't make an intercourse. now i am feeling that i have erection problem. only on watching porn video i got erection but when i am with a girl i don't get any erection. is it a serious problem??? i never smoke. i am occasionally drink. please guide me.

Posted by Optional on 24/11/2014 at 05:11

i am 18, male, biesexual and had so many sex with both men and women. I enjoj with both gender. At first-first experience my penis used to stand before me and my partner gonna get ready for sex. But now, it isn't standing like it used to do. May be this is because I always have been thinking about to get STD from my partner or else I always masturbate. I can't survive a single day without mastubating. May be this is the reason or else my desire for sex or being afraid of getting STDs. And also my balls aren't seems to be young as it used to be. They are so soft as comparing to other men I had sex with. Dunno what's the problem. Thank you.

Posted by firas on 24/11/2014 at 11:15

i couldnot keep my penis erect for short time, when i dont use my hand it couldnt keep erect, in addition to very sensitive of it head for ejaculaion and these causes prevent me from making intercourse with my wife. is this dessiese or not?

Posted by Optional on 24/11/2014 at 09:01

For the last year or so i am facing erection problem which is effecting my working and my love life (marriage) please help

Posted by Optional on 22/11/2014 at 02:55

I am 56 use to have high sex drive now wife has high sex drive but I don t get excited anymore I get erection but when I go to have sex my mind is like somewhere else need help asap thanks

Posted by Optional on 20/11/2014 at 11:37

I'm going to be honest I used to have bigger penis then I do now (bigger then 10inches now I have a slightly smaller penis). I think this is because I used to masterbate quite frequently a and now sadly I struggle to get a full erection, my penis head has shrunk quite a bit and this is very a annoying, any suggestions/solutions.

Posted by Optional on 19/11/2014 at 07:32

Hi, my husband don't desire sex any more and sometime when we want to have sex, his penis will not stand like last night I tried every thing and it didn't stand. Pls I need help. He's 38yrs old. Thanks

Posted by Optional on 15/11/2014 at 04:03

my problem isn't that I can't stay hard, it's just that it takes me so long to cum after I do. and sometimes I can't even cum at all. I think the problem may be psychological, but I'm not for sure how they would treat it. and I'm 16, my sex life is starting to pick up and I don't know what to do.

Posted by Optional on 21/10/2014 at 05:34

My penis does not erect during sex. I take viagra sometimes. But slowly it is also not working. I have premature ejaculation How can I get testosteron injection

Posted by Optional on 20/10/2014 at 06:51

My Penis Just does not get erect whenever I want. I had masturbated a lot in the past. What shall I do? Stop masturbating for few months?

Posted by aka47 on 19/10/2014 at 05:42

hello guys ..... m 21 and i just started masturbation 2 years ago and yes i masturbated alot ..... but recently i find out that my penis is not getting hard enough like once before .... after quiting porn and masturbation for couple of days like eg 4 days ...maybee its improvement or not i dont know but my penis errection are almost full but it is soft and i can't hold it in 90 degree lol..... will it recover ?????

Posted by Ignat on 18/10/2014 at 04:43

How do I go about telling my new girl friend I need injections to get an erection

Posted by sameer on 15/10/2014 at 10:00

hi i have problem with erection..its almost 20 second never had wet dream..when i talk to girlfriend my penis errect and drops start from it.i check from doctor they say its normal but im still confuse plzzzzzzzzz help me

Posted by damien on 01/10/2014 at 01:29

Hi I'm 21 years old Narely 22 nd iv had problems maintaning an erectio with Narely 2 years now nd its worrying me don't get morning erections when I wake up nd it takes me over a min to get an erection nd when I do.its not as solid as it use too be I masterbate alot too porn iv tryed Getting an erection with girls but it dosent seem to even budge what should I do I don't do any activitys nd I'm still young this isint wright ....any ideas of what this could be I'm 90 perecent sure its a ED I went to my doctor nd he said I need to drink plenty of water ?

Posted by Joie on 30/09/2014 at 07:25

Only recently my husband is not able to orgasm, we are sexual daily and have always had a great sexual relationship. He keeps telling me it is not me but I feel like I am failing him.I have tryed teasing him, sending sexy pics and messages, wearing sexy bedroom attire... orally stimulating him. He says he is still attracted to me and finds me sexy, but I am loosing confidence in myself, I am VERY open and I have offered ideas on how to excit him again but he just keeps saying he loves me and desires me and he dose know why this has suddenly happend, but that it is nothing I am doing or not doing. If this had always been an issue maybe it wouldn't be such an issue for me, it has always been VERY IMPORTANT TO ME to ultimately satisfy my psrtner, not being able to is a turn off to me and it hurts my heart. I feel like he is not happy and satisfied. I love him and want him to have all his needs met, rather that be with me or not. Help please... maybe he needs to be free... if he can't just with me I should let him go? He says that is not what he wants? What do I do?

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Posted by Optio on 22/09/2014 at 01:59

Hi I am 14 almost 15 and I am having problems with my penis... I dont really know how to describe some of them and ive look a lot of this up and im really confused about whats going on. A lot are probaly sociological but it seems to me I have at least 4 different conditions and some undiscovered ones! Lol. Ill start with the one that made me write this and then go in age order. A couple of days ago my penis has started to become hard but not erect and will stand a little up and away from my scrotum but it will sorta be on and off. It becomes like thick and hard. Now it is like that and rarely normal and I recently got an erection but only the base seemed to be erect. I also dont know if this is a thing but there is like a gap from the base of my penis to the pubic area... so when I was youger I twisted my penis to the left for some idiotic reason and it cause my penis to have a curve to it. I tried to straiten it out and I dont think that helped. Then before I even knew what masturbating wasI would rub my penis on my bed. I would hold in my cum so it wouldnt get everywhere lol. That was how I normally masturbated. So I firsted got concerned when my penis wassnt as hard as it was before. It wouldnt get as full of an erection as I used to. Then I think I would ejaculate a little when I pooped and it was freeking me out. Next my girlfriend gave me a blowjob and I went soft but I think that was bevause I was nervouse and stuff(now thats fine). And nkw all this. I need imput.

Posted by kitkat on 20/09/2014 at 04:07

me and my lad was getting sexual and i went down on him and touched him but he struggled to get an erection? he's still a virgin and he'd never been touched down there by anyone but himself; where as i've had sex before. i admitted to him that i was nervous about it and he admitted he was nervous around me. Could him been nervous about having sex with me be something to do with him struggling to get an erection?

Posted by Gary on 19/09/2014 at 09:26

I just can't have a proper erection! I've been trying and trying, even starting up a porno, and rubbing my penis won't help! HELP!

Posted by Optional on 19/09/2014 at 02:20

I am 64 years old. I have enough sex. But my penis become soft before insertion. It does not erect immediately.

Posted by murphy on 17/09/2014 at 04:09

I think I have erection problems because the average time I stays on sex is just 2minutes so am not sure if that's a premature ejaculation or normal though I do last more than 2minutes at times depending on my mood and the sex partner but mostly 2minutes. Is this abnormal or not?

Posted by baz on 16/09/2014 at 06:24

I feel horny most of the time i live my girlfriend and find her very attractive everytime we go to have sex i cant keep it up this happens everytime we try she thinks shes the problem but shes not my mind and body is telling me im horny but my penis is saying different this is a big problem for a while now, is ther something wrong with me??help.

Posted by Optional on 13/09/2014 at 04:12

I seem to get turned on but I cannot get a full erection. Since this started I seem to finish much more quickly. I'm stool very attracted to my wife obviously. Any ideas? It's almost like my circulation is very poor.

Posted by Tropheus on 11/09/2014 at 12:42

I have had erection problems since I was about 25. My first wife left me as a result. Recently I was prescribed alprostadil. This has completely cured the problem. The results are full, very hard erections lasting for hours.

Posted by Justin on 08/09/2014 at 06:36

I've read here about "amitamin m forte". Any ideas how to get it in the United States? The site seems to only ship within Europe. I saw TOM above mentioned it and looks interesting. Appreciate the help guys.

Posted by Black on 27/07/2014 at 02:41

Hi, I need some help as I'm going through some difficulties in my sexual life rigth now. I'm a 29 years old good looking young black man who happened to discover sex "quit late" compare to most of my fellows. I had sexual for the first time of my life between 19 and 20 years and my sexual life has always been joyful. Being a curious person, I've always wanted to know how much benefits could / would pills or any "naturally made" supplements bring or add to my sexual life so I went on inquiring about different products (making sure not to use any chemical pulls subjected to bring side effects at a later stage. After a long process of research and inquiring, I finally decided to try some green pills called COOL MAN, which are chinese make and herbal if I'm correct. The result of trying those was impecable and I decided to try them again and again and again quit a number of times I must admit. I didn't become addict or dependent of them but at some poin, I thought "Hey...wait a moment, I'm slowly but gradually starting to relay on these artificial means, it's time to stop !" Then I decided to stop but the result of my sexual performance wasn't as good as when I was using them. They'd add stifness and somehow delay my ejaculation. I've always struggled with some sort of addiction to porn and sometimes masturbation, sometimes I'd just sit whole day long watching some porn and strocking my cock (most of the time, without coming and just enjoying the feeling or rubbing myself) and the last time I had sex (which is few days ago), I was embarassed at the fact that I couldn't last long and my erection was very weak ! My partner was quit surprised and I thought that this could be related to the fact that I had over ate that night and was feeling some preasure down my belly just before the genitals from not having digested the food. That experience made me very worried about my sexual life. I'm not quit sure what could be the reason behind such an experience but I really need some practical help and advice for me to be at peace coz it worries me even more today. I just hope that there is a possibility to solve this naturally and bring everything back to normal. Please help. Thanks for your contribution T.bear

Posted by Optional on 27/07/2014 at 12:04

I have great erections when I'm alone but with a women i struggle to get an erection and it can take quite awhile to achieve one. Usually it happens eventually but is very embarrassing. Occasionally I have had to give up and just apologize. Is it just age creeping up on me? I dont understand why its fine when I am on my own. It gets worse because it plays on the mind and the more it happens the more I struggle

Posted by Shodd on 25/07/2014 at 09:40

I've struggled with ED for about 7 years now , which is basically when i started having sex. I've been embarrassed a number of times by my problem. It's cause me to have serious trust issues with my past and present girlfriends. I've been to the doctors and they say it's nothing serious wrong and give me pills. That work when I take them , but when the prescription is up, I'm back at square one with the same problems. This problems has lowered my self esteem to be low. I seem to have anxiety issues during sex, and my girlfriend understands but it's frustrating to her as well when I can't perform. If you have any advice or can help out in any kind of way. Please contact me !

Posted by Optional on 25/07/2014 at 12:56

Posted by Anonymous on 22/05/2014 at 01:11 I have no problem getting an erection but I flopped once and now I can't get it out my head and now during sex if I think about it I lose my erection again it's getting really stressful and it's making my partner feel unattractive witch just feels like more stress on my shoulders now during sex instead of enjoying it and not thinking of anything else all I can think of is don't flop you'll make your girl feel bad about her self and then I just seem to lose it

Posted by Bull007 on 24/07/2014 at 04:22

I am a bit confused I have never had any errectile dysfunction. I don't smoke or drink but I do sometimes have an erection but most time that I want to have sex I ejaculate too easily and lose my erection although it gets hard after I have relaxed and sometimes it won't it will take a long while before it gets hard again. I live alone and I don't always have sex and I never mastubate. Please does not having sex regularly cause my premature ejauculation and why am I losing my erection too easily because it's so embarrassing when you are with a lady naked in your bed and you can't have sex because you have lost your erection. Please I need your advise

Posted by Optional on 20/07/2014 at 04:18

Hi i am a 58 year old man and i have not had sex for about 1 year and last night i went to have sex with my wife i could not get hard is there something wrong with me i need your help

Posted by Stephen on 04/07/2014 at 01:04

Well I have been having an active sex life coupled with masturbation. I tried having sex with my girlfriend on one fateful day and I lost my erection while trying to penetrate. It took about one hour for me to get an erection again. I tried to insert again but I could this time but on trying to change d sex position I lost d erection. Please, I need ur help/advice

Posted by Tom on 03/07/2014 at 01:57

I used to have issues, but two things have sorted me out. amitamin m forte, which includes arginine and pine bark extract for a really strong anytime-erection, and weight training (compound moves like benchpress, pullups, squats and deadlifts - I dont have time for anything else, check out the free stonglifts programme) so I can throw my girl around in bed properly. A clean diet, sleep and no cigarettes is a given. Guys, do this and resist the internet porn and you will get harder

Posted by Optional on 22/06/2014 at 02:37

My penis is not getting hard and this never happen before I'm getting scared

Posted by Optional on 21/06/2014 at 03:17

What he is saying at 1:23 is what I think I am occurring, I have no trouble getting it erect but it wont get 100%, and I do have trouble lifting it by flexing as you will call it. anyone else relate?

Posted by Optional on 19/06/2014 at 04:24

My boyfriend and I was about to have sex for the first time of our relationship but his penis couldn't erect he's just 18 I wonder that the problem was

Posted by Rich007 on 16/06/2014 at 11:02

I can get easily hard around my girlfriend, but as soon as she gives me oral or we have sex, I can't cum. In fact, no girl has ever made me cum, which is really depressing

Posted by very concerned on 16/06/2014 at 03:05

Why do I get hard then soft again .I enter my wife vagina and then I go

Posted by Ackaah on 16/06/2014 at 08:21

my erection arouse immediately am about to have sex it goes down please why that?

Posted by Optional on 13/06/2014 at 08:42

My penis be having off and on erection when having sex and plus im not having my normal hard on

Posted by Optional on 13/06/2014 at 08:08

I Am a father of three kids i just recently separate like a year ago. i havent had any sex since then. I have my girlfriend and we been goin out for like 6 months. I try to have sex with her. There was one time that i was fully ercted while i was doin it then like after 5 minutes it drop and my gf ask my that was wrong do u think is cuz i keep thinkin on my ex. I was a virgin since i was wit my ex. I last 7 years with her. Can you help me with this ? my girlfriend understand my situatiom cuz we talk about it and she made me an appointment to the doctor to have a check up?

Posted by Milton on 08/06/2014 at 06:07

Recent. My penis can't get. Hard. I diagnos . With high blood pressure. But my sex life was still. Good. I'm wondering if i should change. My doctor. I don't know what to do. I also drinks beer. What should i do to get back my sex drive

Posted by no name on 04/06/2014 at 11:16

Hey guys im 16 years old and I've had sex quite a bit. You can say about 190-204 times. And I really only had a problem the first time because it didn't get hard I was so embarrassed. And now that we broke up I had the chance to have sex with two other girls not at the same time I wish but my penis wouldn't get hard when it came down to it. I was so embarrassed the girl wanted me so bad and I let her down. I let myself down I don't know what to do

Posted by Rehan on 02/06/2014 at 10:45

i have just start problem with sex the problem is in normal time my penis stand properly but when i want to start to do intercourse with my wife , my penis cannot stand ...because of this i cant do sex so please can u tell me a solution and treatment please. as i am 34 year i have 2 kids i dont have any issue in past it was just start 2 days back i dont understand what happened to me please help me

Posted by Optional on 31/05/2014 at 08:51

Hi 24 years old and want to have sex for the first time but i discovered that i have Polyorchidism and weak erection. I tried having sex with my Girlfriend but it didn't work. Is it because of Polyorchidism or what? Help please

Posted by jack on 31/05/2014 at 04:58

i have had sex before twice and now when today i was in the bed with my girlfriend i had erection problems i was not able to maintain erection for more than two minutes,i tried to do it again but wasnt able to . it was embarresing,I dont know what has happened to me :(

Posted by Optional on 31/05/2014 at 10:12

I have a problem. I excessively masterbate and watch porn. I started looking at vanilla (mainstream) porn but that doesn't do it anymore and now tend to go for more darker and sleazier porn. I masterbate 4/5 times a day and now cannot get an erection during sex. I am not impotent but just can't only ejaculate while masterbating myself. I have been struggling with this for a number of years and need some help as it's affecting my life.

Posted by Optional on 31/05/2014 at 03:42

I maintain an erection without orgasm fir hours if I've been drinking slot. Why is that? If I haven't been drinking I struggle and usually orgasm in the first minute or two of sex which seems the opposite problem of most men.

Posted by Optional on 26/05/2014 at 06:52

It will get erect but then it will go soft when I try to put it in what's wrong ? It's ruining my life

Posted by Optional on 26/05/2014 at 02:52

I watch porn and masterbate, accessively. My girlfriend and i tried to have sex this past weekend, and i just couldnt keep a stiff erection, it would be hard during foreplay but once im about to put it in, it would deflate. Do you think its the porn?

Posted by Optional on 26/05/2014 at 03:39

Im married and have been masturbating for long. I have realised that my penis is not getting erect and i cum after few seconds. My penis skin is almost covering the head, im very depressed coz i dont satisfy my partner. How can you help me please to get out of this stressful life

Posted by Optional on 25/05/2014 at 10:25

i have been with my bf for eight years now. over the last few years when we have sex he sometimes has problems keeping his erection, but not all the time. wen ee have sex with no problem and try again an hour later he cant get an erection at all. is there something wrong with me. i feel very unatractive. thanks

Posted by Anonymous on 22/05/2014 at 01:11

I have no problem getting an erection but I flopped once and now I can't get it out my head and now during sex if I think about it I lose my erection again it's getting really stressful and it's making my partner feel unattractive witch just feels like more stress on my shoulders now during sex instead of enjoying it and not thinking of anything else all I can think of is don't flop you'll make your girl feel bad about her self and then I just seem to lose it

Posted by Optional on 21/05/2014 at 12:54

Hi iam 16 years old im having problems having an errection i have masturbated excesively for about 2 years 2-3 times a day the longest ive gone without masturbating is about two weeks however now i cant maintain or get an errection im upset with myself cause i know i should have self-control what can i do? If i start eating better and working out could it helpme?

Posted by IDK805 on 20/05/2014 at 06:07

Hello im having a problem getting hard for my girlfriend and it's never happened before , it makes me think something's wrong with me. My girlfriend says it's okay don't worry about it but it makes me feel less manly. She thinks it's that I'm not attracted to her as much but that's not the case because I am VERY attracted to her. I don't know what to do ... My penis and genitals seem fine but then when it comes to it I can't get it up.

Posted by Christian on 13/05/2014 at 01:35

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Posted by Optional on 05/05/2014 at 01:36

I am a guy of just 17 years old.My penis isnt getting erected even after watching porn. I am really tensed as i dont want to be impotent at such a small age.please help.:(

Posted by kelly on 29/04/2014 at 02:25

my husband has been struggling with his performance in the bedroom.Can't keep an erection,trouble ejackulating etc.We never have sex anymore.His doctor gave him a sample pack of cialis 15 days ago and there's only 1 missing and he doesn't know that I know he has them.My question is way in the world isn't he taking them??I'ts a 5mg daily dose.Im dying here.He knows that I miss are sex so much.It confuses me why he would'nt take something that is suppose to give him a hard erection at the drop of a dime,and make him feel like getting it on with his wife again.I don't know if he is into pornography or what?? I don"t get it.Please help

Posted by Rob on 20/04/2014 at 12:21

Hi I'm Rob and I been having problems getting a erection and keeping it but strange thing is I have a crazy appetite for sex all the time. I got my testosterone checked and it was half way can I get a injection or can my arteries be clogged I appreciate anyone's help.Thank you.

Posted by Optional on 01/04/2014 at 08:30

i m addicted of mastrubution ..... i mastrubuate 3-4 times in a day ..... now my penis is not having erection.... n after mastrubution no sperm is coming ... pls suggest some medication

Posted by Optional on 16/03/2014 at 12:22

Ive always been able to "perform" a few weeks ago my fiance noticed i was a little weak idk what to do ive never had a problem up until then.. help?

Posted by Optional on 12/03/2014 at 02:21

I am a married man.I have a problem with my penis.As we start my penis very hard but as I put my penis in , with in 10 seconds I just over.These symptoms two months ago.please help me to save my marriage . Thanks

Posted by Optional on 07/03/2014 at 06:16

my problem is sir that when I am going for intercourse my erection power slowly become less and I also feel urinary tract pain

Posted by Optional on 04/03/2014 at 06:07

i am 57 year old and having an erection priblem, you see i do get an erection but after about 5 mins my desire for sex starts fading and penis goes down, what help can you assist me with. Thanks in-advance.

Posted by Optional on 18/02/2014 at 06:06

My age is 22 years. My problem is that sex - and my penis itself becomes slack. Is this a symptom of disease? Please guide me

Posted by Optional on 16/02/2014 at 08:59

I cant seem to get fully aroused and take along time to ejaculate just happened in last couple of days never had this problem before ,please help

Posted by Optional on 26/01/2014 at 09:14

Hi, I started a daniel fast by not eating meat, fish, sugar, no coffee etc... Before that my erection was fine, now after around 2 weeks I find it very difficult to get hard before sex and nothing happens! What can I do about it? Please help

Posted by Optional on 24/01/2014 at 03:40

I am 26 male and I am still a virgin. I started masturbating at the age of 16 (fantasizing girls always). I had a brief relationship with a girl in last 1 month. However, we tried to have sex on 3 to 4 occasions, I was not able to get a full erection. And so I COULD NOT have sex with her. That led me to think of the 3 things: 1) Either its a physical problem like ED, but no, I do have erections. 2) Is it a psychological problem.? Could be because I was embarrassed, anxious and I suffer from depression and I was and still am in a mental mess, and the whole thing with her was stressed and a big nightmare. But she was beautiful and I was in love with her. 3) Could I be gay and so I could not get erection on this girl? I never had any crush or anything on any guy before, but right now I am confused and doubtful. Last week, I saw some naked guys in locker room and it made me a bit excited. Is that normal for straight people.? May be I am just too sexual.? And if gay, how can I realise it this late.? That means my life was a lie before? Please help me. This thing is making my life difficult to handle and I am always in self conflict. I am exhausted and mentally disturbed due to this.

Posted by Optional on 15/01/2014 at 07:43

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and latelnormalas been having alot of problems with his penis.. The outside of his penis is Sore before and after sex Even when his penis hard.. isn't really that hard, still slightly flimsy, or he cant get it up.. he says he is still very interested in having sex with me.. but all these things will occur He told me that his testicles are less full then normal, he is also having stomach pains and lung problems before and after sex.. He will sometimes on occasion get headaches during intercourse, or beginning of an erection.. VERY uncommon and lastly His ejaculation is different, it looks sticky and kinda off.. not normal

Posted by Optional on 11/01/2014 at 09:53

that I have a erection but when I go close to my gf my erection getting lose, My erection. I can't hold them for long time. The most is about 2 minute. How can I hold my erection n enjoy my sex life

Posted by Optional on 11/01/2014 at 01:36

Just about 2 months ago, i noticed a weak erection but before then i have a problem of quick ejaculation in the course of trying to enter my wife's vargina, pls i'm not experiencing erection again, kindly advise.

Posted by Sulley on 10/01/2014 at 10:45

I always have an erection when i'm talking to a girl or look at it a sick or normal

Posted by Optional on 28/12/2013 at 12:26

I can tell you what not to do.Nothing! If you do nothing & you have a spouse you will make her/him feel insignificant & like something is wrong with them. Don't go many years like my husband did & does. He is very selfish about it like it is his problem & does not affect me. No matter how hard I have tried or how gental I have been about it he continues to ignore it so after 20 years of marriage & 10 years without sex I'm ready to move on.

Posted by k on 28/12/2013 at 10:05

I used a penis pump yesterday. My penis was good and stand regularly. Suddenly its not standing and I am frighten. Please give me solution.

Posted by Optional on 28/12/2013 at 05:57

i am married man with 3 kids, i have pre ejection problem, i can long only less then one minute. Now i am using cream to avoid these problem, i have used delay and normal condom but these one not good in my case. please can you advice me any medication. Thank you

Posted by Optional on 19/12/2013 at 01:08

Im 17 and when I really want to get it up, it just doesn't happen...I really dont know what to do, someone help? :/

Posted by aarav on 17/12/2013 at 04:09

the problem is when me and my gf are getting ready for sex,I feel that I have a erection but when I go close to my gf my erection getting lose, My erection. I can't hold them for long time. The most is about 2 minute. How can I hold my erection n enjoy my sex life

Posted by Optional on 14/12/2013 at 08:55

helo im 23 years old and i had a problem with my girl...we were prepared to have sex and while we were kissing my penis was in good condition...after i take off her clothes i put on the condom my penis began to be smaller not strong to penetrate and the condom was moving...i tried again without condom my girl helped me to put my penis in reaction and when i start to pentrate it cant penetrate it began to be smaller again...might this problem has been caused from psicology of my brain or what...

Posted by Optional on 21/11/2013 at 10:01

i am 37 years old male and i suddenly lost my sex drive and libido with loose erections 2 months ago i am so worried what should i do? i had mumps when i was 17 and lost my one testical but i never felt these symptoms before my erections r merely 60-70% and cant maintain either please help me out

Posted by Optional on 15/11/2013 at 01:38

sex power is onky 4 5 to 1 0 sec and n o proper erection please help

Posted by unable to erect on 10/11/2013 at 02:48

hello doc..i am 18 years old ...i am edict masturbating since 10 year of age but now i is not abel to erect properl because i am not able to sex with my girl friend pls doc pls give me a cure..

Posted by Joseph on 10/10/2013 at 03:18

I can not make love after i finished having antibiotic injection

Posted by Anonymous on 02/10/2013 at 07:28

Hello Doctor, I am an unmarried 23 years old girl. Nowadays am getting the feelings of sex too much which is uncontrollable. I am masturbating almost every alternate day. I never had sex before. Never allowed any one to touch me wrongly. But now am longing with such feelings. i have tried many times but i cant help myself. I started chatting and imagining to have sex. Is tat wrong? am i in a wrong track? will this leads to any health problems? Please help me....

Posted by Michael on 27/09/2013 at 02:19

Dear Sir/ Madam i am writing this as i have a big problem with my penis i can not get erection this as been going on since i was a youg lad i tryed to tell me gp but was told it,s my age can you advice me what to do thank you michael

Posted by Optional on 20/08/2013 at 03:25

hello,its been 8 months i am gymming and jus last week i felt my stomach and back was tight slowly slowly my lower back was paining like hell now i am fine with it,but i am feeling my penis has changed it is not like before and also its loose hanging if i watch a porn its taking time to get errect and also not same erections as first im really worried i dont want to go near doctor, is it cos i use to masturbate alot earlier or wat im really tensed regarding dis it doesnt get errect

Posted by Optiona on 02/08/2013 at 10:33

Im 15 and only ever get a semi, should i go to a clinic

Posted by Optional on 28/07/2013 at 05:57

why is it that I can't get an erection for days after having sex with my wife I love her so much and we used to have sex 2 to 3 times a day and now it is once or twice a week and I will have a problem getting a erection and then she thinks I don't love her or not turned on by her anymore. I can feel really horny and we will be messing around and I can't get a erection.

Posted by Optional on 27/06/2013 at 11:54

I am very concerned about my problems dealing with my erection. I very seldomly drink alcohol. I do; however smoke weed on a more regular basis. And I'm afraid I watch too much porn for my own good. Mainly because I'm so worried about being with a girl and having these problems. It goes through my head thatbit could be a number of different things such as performance anxiety or similar things. I have absolutley no confidence in myself therefor I am unabke to go talk to a girl. I don't know what to do.

Posted by Optional on 14/06/2013 at 06:30

Hi, While doing intercourse, for me ejection happens too early as a reason not able to wait till my partner's orgasym. any advise

Posted by Optional on 13/06/2013 at 10:31

the problem is when me and my wife are getting ready for sex,I feel that I have a erection but when I go close to my wife my erection getting lose,it has been happening from the last one week

Posted by Anonymous on 10/06/2013 at 02:13

I am 62 years old suffering eruction problem, i am thinking of taking amino acid euramine but worried about my stomach as i have had ulcer befor. Any advice? Thanks

Posted by Wilsy on 12/05/2013 at 12:03

i am here to share things about myself please give some proper solutions please i am really worried, i am an addict of masturbation and i am masturbating since the day i was able to ejaculate in proper means, and now i can ejaculate in just 10 seconds if watching porn of if controlled masturbation for more than 15 days, also i can ejaculate 2 or more times a day . And now when i am controlling my masturbation addiction even to weeks and sometimes more i am not able to retain the strength i personally feel that i am loosing my errection and last month i had a panic attack of studies and job and now i am feeling that excessive masturbation has effected my errectness and i am suffering, i more thing i am having a great urge of sex, never had properly with any girl but before getting full errect it ejaculates the sperm and with the fear of loosing errection i am not able to make a proper sex drive suggest me some help as i am only 22

Posted by Optional on 29/03/2013 at 10:34

hi,whenever i started masturbating ,sudden i feel to go urine,after urinating,my penis will get erected all of sudden....

Posted by frank on 24/03/2013 at 02:20

hi I am 57 in the last couple months i cannot stay hard when having intercourse with my wife. we have never had a problem in the bedroom before this. I notice the head of my penis is going up in my skin. I am circumcised I have to pull the head back down can you comment please

Posted by karim on 23/03/2013 at 06:53

Hi am 30 year having a problem with pinis erection .i am not geting any erection since 1 week is my pinis damaged.please

Posted by Michael on 22/03/2013 at 12:07

I'm writing to find out, if anyone knows I'm having trouble staying hard and my cock goes soft and I can't cum during sex!! Does anyone know what this could be

Posted by Optional on 09/03/2013 at 12:28

Im 44 years old for about 10 years have ED problems seen urolgist when it started gave perscription for andro gel cause had low T it did help but two weeks ago cannot get erection and if i do its about half and won't stay erect for long please have any advise what could be wrong. Gona try cialis

Posted by Kiran on 03/03/2013 at 09:04

Hi my name kiran . And i am 17 year having a problem with pinis erection .i am not geting any erection since 1 week is my pinis damaged due to over masturbation or is it beacouse testerone level please

Posted by bambi629 on 02/03/2013 at 05:12

My 48year od husband can't get it up except right when we wake up 6am. sometime at lunch but Nothing after 5pm. I am personal trainer -very fit -34DD-dont understand the problem. has cialis prescriotion he wont take. says he doesn't have a problem. other ideas?

Posted by rikky on 22/02/2013 at 06:22

i am here to share things about myself please give some proper solutions please i am really worried, i am an addict of masturbation and i am masturbating since the day i was able to ejaculate in proper means, and now i can ejaculate in just 10 seconds if watching porn of if controlled masturbation for more than 15 days, also i can ejaculate 2 or more times a day . And now when i am controlling my masturbation addiction even to weeks and sometimes more i am not able to retain the strength i personally feel that i am loosing my errection and last month i had a panic attack of studies and job and now i am feeling that excessive masturbation has effected my errectness and i am suffering, i more thing i am having a great urge of sex, never had properly with any girl but before getting full errect it ejaculates the sperm and with the fear of loosing errection i am not able to make a proper sex drive suggest me some help as i am only 20

Posted by Tito on 21/02/2013 at 03:43

Hi everytime I'm about to have sex my penis just won't go up. My and my girlfriend before were having sex like everyday and one day nothing. I've checked for a uti but nothing. Plus my stomach starts to hurt like right before we get into it.

Posted by francisco on 06/02/2013 at 03:16

hi i cant keep my erection for 1 minute, as soon as im about to have intercourse, my penis go down, my breath becomes heavy, and i have to wait for 5 or more minutes for the erection to come back, and its the same thing all over again, and if it finally comes, i only have sex for 2minutes i ejaculate early/,,,,,

Posted by eyok on 01/02/2013 at 10:12

most often, when i try performing sex with a person i'm not used to be with (newly met person), my penis is not erecting no matter what i do. would there be any medicines with no side-effects for erection?

Posted by Optional on 30/01/2013 at 08:57

am a 26 yr old stud ladies always want to hangout around me cos i work out alot and have this great 6 pack abs,but my problems is am always scared to work up to a lady and even if i do get in bed with them i find it hard to please her the way she must have been expecting after seeing all my abs,please what do i need to eat or do to always get the stiff dick and not being scared to approach the ladies

Posted by Optional on 27/01/2013 at 11:37

My penis is not rising up since I had sex with untrue girl I use condom and it break

Posted by jovvi on 20/01/2013 at 07:29

im a 43 marid man havng a problm with erection wen i perform sex consecutivly(some time i have great sex but some time my got sleep or ejaculate early with in 4 mins.).i erect hard wen i musterbat n abt to insert bt this erection fails to remin the sam.infct my penis becoms weak wen i startd to ride.this make my partner n me to withdraw our passion unsucessfuly n it the problm that i perfrm sex regularly or due to some health problm?pliz suggest

Posted by Optional on 14/01/2013 at 07:55

I have been enjoying sex with my wife with no problem but realise something recently. In a span of 1 week I planned twice to having sex with my girlfriend but fail each time. My penis cannot erect but found it ejaculating the moment I try to land on her's. I cannot speculate on this, what should I do?

Posted by Vincent on 14/01/2013 at 01:56

i experienced erection problems last week,and it seem strange, because i'm fine( had just gone to see my doctor a week before), my wife was seductive and everything, but i just couldn't get it up...My doctor has gone away and i wont reach him this month..any idea if its permanent or not?

Posted by Optional on 13/01/2013 at 12:10

hi i m 24 years old man and i have problem with sex the problem is in normal time my penis stand properly but when i want to do sex with girls it does not stand and some water comes in my penis and it is difficult to stand ...because of this my sex activity is become can u tell me a solution and treatment please.

Posted by Op on 09/01/2013 at 11:32

My erection. I can't hold them for long time. The most is about 2 minute. How can I hold my erection n enjoy my sex life

Posted by Optional on 08/01/2013 at 12:06

i found out that while in sex when ever i release sperm for the fist time my penis will not rise again what is the cause and cure.

Posted by Optional s on 07/01/2013 at 09:39

I was masturbating and then after i ejaculated i lost my erection very quick and now i am unable to get a erection.... What's wrong?

Posted by Mike on 06/01/2013 at 01:10

My penis is just 2inches and my erection is downward. What can i do to save my situation?

Posted by rocus on 27/12/2012 at 01:08

im a marid man havng a problm wit erection wen i perform sex consecutivly.i erect hard wen i musterbat n abt to insert bt this erection fails to remin the sam.infct my penis becoms weak wen i startd to ride.this make my partner n me to withdraw our passion unsucessfuly n it the problm that i perfrm sex regularly or due to some health problm?pliz suggest

Posted by Optional on 21/12/2012 at 04:58

My problem is that i ejaculate to early(with in 1 minute) and i feel so embarrassing in front of my girl friend. Please give me some solution to solve this problem.

Posted by Optional on 14/12/2012 at 03:49

for the past 18 months i have been taking tablets for high blood pressure which have been increased to 10mg along with water tablets at 2.5mg. during the last 6 months i have struggled to get a full erection and have not been able to have intercourse with my partner. i can't even manage to have an erection on my own and masterbate. i also have noticed that my semen has now stopped spurting out of my penis and has stopped. i have seen my doctor and had blood tests but feel reluctant to go back for the results or any treatment as i am so embarrassed

Posted by John on 02/12/2012 at 01:47

Some times its gets too hard but it dont last for long

Posted by Optional on 28/11/2012 at 02:58

i have having difficulty in ejaculating and now I can not get an erection to masturbate. but I am able to ejaculate some liquid without any feeling of cumming

Posted by Optional on 27/11/2012 at 03:18

im over weight an cant get erection an my penis is too small is there any help for this

Posted by Optional on 15/11/2012 at 06:36

My penies gets hard put the head part don't seem dry and I feel like I don't have much pressure to hold my penies up and my sensitive has faded quit a bit

Posted by khan on 07/11/2012 at 04:53

i am here to share things about myself please give some proper solutions please i am really worried, i am an addict of masturbation and i am masturbating since the day i was able to ejaculate in proper means, and now i can ejaculate in just 10 seconds if watching porn of if controlled masturbation for more than 15 days, also i can ejaculate 20 or more times a day even if nothing comes out still i will get the urge.. And now when i am controlling my masturbation addiction even to weeks and sometimes more i am not able to retain the strength i personally feel that i am loosing my errection and last month i had a panic attack of studies and job and now i am feeling that excessive masturbation has effected my errectness and i am suffering, i more thing i am having a great urge of sex, never had properly with any girl but before getting full errect it ejaculates the sperm and with the fear of loosing errection i am not able to make a proper sex drive suggest me some help as i am only 22...

Posted by Joe on 06/11/2012 at 04:37

HI i'm joe and i have a question...i started Musterbating when i was 17 and now i'm 23 and the problem is that i'm the gettin the erection in my penis and i use to musterbate 5 to 6times a day is that all because of too much of jerking off...will i get the erecton back if i totally stop musterbating or is it something else? My e

Posted by Optional on 05/11/2012 at 05:55

Hello doctor i need help please advise me on what to do. I am 20 years and still a virgin never slept with anyone. I used to get boners in the mornings which would cause me to masturbate, i did it often that my dick curved to the left because of using the right hand. I also used to put on tight pants that when ever i would get an erection during the day my dick would keep bending downwards. What worries me is that now my erections are not strong, my penus keeps mild strong when erect and the base is weak with the downward bend in between. I nolonger get any boner even when i want to, and my erections donot last, blood can run in and out anyhow. Its like there is no valve to keep it in, i've now spent a couple of weeks without masturbating. But the situation isn't changing. I need yo help coz its depressing me. And it hurts.

Posted by Optional on 02/11/2012 at 08:50

I faced erection problem for 5 year and i used long time medicen but could not found posative result

Posted by Carl on 01/11/2012 at 09:26

Recently I've been having problems gaining or maintaining a erection, I've tried kamagra with success but it takes awhile to ejeculate (the partner doesn't complain on that aspect though). I've been having the occasional sharp stabbing pain in my left testicle which has left me concerned and I am going to the doctors for a exam asap. any idea's? I'm a bit worried it my be a issue with my testicle and I'm concerned that its cancer but I have no lump and have examined my testicles and tubes but cannot find a lump or obstruction anywhere.

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Posted by GameT on 20/10/2012 at 04:38

Im in my mid fourties and was always healthy, until I started having erection problems. I did some online research and spoke with my trainer at the gym. He recommend the HGH Spray by Dr Max Powers. I ordered it online after reading some reviews (and my trainer takes it for 3 months every year), so I decided to try it. It did help me at the gym (which was great), but it also helped with they erection problems I was having. It breathed new life into my body sort of. But you should only take it 3 months every year. I did my last spray 4 months ago (I did a 3 month supply), and I can still feel the effects, so I am happy.

Posted by Optional on 16/10/2012 at 05:01

what would a woman say if i had to inject my penis for sex

Posted by Optional on 08/10/2012 at 09:56

I am having intercourse.but losing my hard on and can't cum

Posted by Marty Walker on 17/09/2012 at 12:24

I've had problems for over 9 years now with even achieving a 30% erection of any type. We know Paxil @ 40 mg daily dose is most of the problem. I'm on Celexa now which is a lot better. Tell me what is known about these drugs and erection problems.

Posted by Optional on 10/09/2012 at 07:44

I never had much problem of having sex till now but for the last one year i wasn't doing any sex but im masturbating for past 13 years. Now i can get erections do masturbate but while i tried to have sex recently with a new girl at the time of penetration my penis got soft though it erected before a little. Plz tell me what to do to make it erected and rock hard.

Posted by Optional on 31/08/2012 at 11:31

my penis is huge and girls are frightened of it, is there an operation i could have to reduce its size help

Posted by Optional on 12/08/2012 at 02:06

My penis not iam getting medicines for heart desease since last 4 years.

Posted by Optional on 07/08/2012 at 07:50

43 year old male and haven;t had proper intercourse for 5 years now. I have ED, difficulty reaching climax, very little semen comes out and oozes more than it shoots, sometimes it is cold. i have avoided sex and relationships for 5 years because if all this. I had a hydrocoele on one testicle that I only noticed a few years ago but had for a long time i thought the added weight was what made it diificult for me to get an erection. Now that I had surgery I still have all the problems.

Posted by Jhon on 06/08/2012 at 05:16

I have a problem in my penis...i think it is not grown...and when i am doing toilet, my penis pains so highly...n' getting out some blood(sometimes)...and it having a small size and curved in shape..means the top of my penis is turn to right side of what should i do??tell me plz...

Posted by Anthony on 04/08/2012 at 06:27

Im haveing a hard time cumming

Posted by Optional on 28/07/2012 at 02:28

why does it seem like my penius cant get really hard when i get older im 19 years old and its not really getn to its full potential like wen i was 17 right now i take testostrone booster creatine and i take muscle milk could that b a problem?

Posted by Aman on 25/07/2012 at 01:20

Hello, i m 17 y. And i hv a panis problem . My penis not gets hard like 3 month before . I mastrubation two times in a week. Pls if anybody know soluation abt this problem . .give me the answer pls help me. .

Posted by Optional on 09/07/2012 at 11:46

Hi,i 17 years old and recently tryied to have sex 3 times it feels like the impossible jump and i suppuse i get myself down nerves kick in to much and the girl i really like we went to bad really late ..and i thought this was the time we had a good bit to drink ..and i can get a semi.. and wet but then sometimes i lose it most times iv tryied i have been really drunk please help it would be great if i could get help it gets me really depressed sometimes

Posted by Jush on 22/06/2012 at 06:37

I have a problem with my penis not erect I have to stay up like an hour before being erection .I would like to know what is the cause for that.I am also deitbectic .my penis wold not get hard .I am stress out .plese help me

Posted by Optional on 16/06/2012 at 04:31

i have a good errection but not for long and i ejauct fast, which can lead to problems in future like satisfying my wife and many problem. I get arrouse sexcually very fast and it leads sometimes to embarrising situation in front of others especially girls. What are cause of theses problems. is there any remedy for the same

Posted by Rahul on 14/06/2012 at 10:56

I canno maintain the erection of penis for sexual intercourse....what shud i do....?

Posted by Optional on 12/06/2012 at 08:16

I avoid relationship due to fear of erection failure. Although i ejaculate from masturbation my penis is not erect. What can i do?

Posted by Charlie on 08/06/2012 at 12:46

I'm 16 years old and my penis won't get hard . I have no clue what the problem is and it's a very embarrassing issue. Someone my age should not have this problem . I don't get morning wood and i don't get any erections daily . My penis tries to get hard but it gets soft and doesn't grow hardly anything in size . Now i can't even make 6 inches when before it did that every day .

Posted by Aryan on 26/05/2012 at 09:19

Just since 2 years, I'm not getting proper erection, I feel very angry when I'm masturbating and suddenly the penis loses the erection within 5 seconds. Now my penis never undergoes any erection at any time, watching Porn also doesn't help me get erection, I am not happy with my Gender, what shall i do?

Posted by jmtuw on 21/05/2012 at 01:17

hi Im 29 ... and recently only. (I'm an avid footballer, surfer, MMA guy.. and I always protect the family jewels... it started on a surf trip, my girl and I decided to "hit the sack" and everything was going great till i got semi soft towards the end.. Pls Help! i cannot go on like this!.. I now i dont get morning wood when I wake up, i dont get erections, when Im showering with my girl... Pls help! I dont want her to go away again.. We wanna start a family soon.... thanks !! JMtuw

Posted by Destiny on 17/05/2012 at 09:58

If am working or doing any other thing apart from sexual intercourse my penis will stand erect,wat will i do?

Posted by Joe on 04/05/2012 at 07:53

When masturbating i get problems erecting but when relaxed it comes easily,what could be the problem?

Posted by Optional on 01/05/2012 at 07:38

When I think about sex my penis gets erect, but during sex it doesn't erect.

Posted by syed on 30/04/2012 at 01:15


Posted by ramesh on 28/04/2012 at 07:26

having a problem to get an erection and having a diabetes type B also can you help as with my wife we still want to enjoy our sexual activities

Posted by Optional on 23/04/2012 at 02:20

Was on the process of sexual intercourse with my GF. I was drunk a bit.... i used "4play" cream... it proved reverse.. irection's reverse... I had to wait 2 hours to get a normal erection without the 4play cream.....How to explain this type of dream???

Posted by Optional on 17/04/2012 at 11:23

I have a problem to get an erection, I also have diabetes type b,can you help as with my wife we still want to enjoy our sexual activities

Posted by Optional on 31/03/2012 at 03:45

hi iam a guy aged 21,iam suffering from low girlfriend has realised that there is something wrong with me because iam always avoiding sex and also seems like she will look somwhere else so she would be satisfied please help what must i do,help,help,help.

Posted by Optional on 23/03/2012 at 10:40

I am 18 years old man but gradually I have lost my sexual appeal?

Posted by Optional on 19/03/2012 at 10:56

as my penis is small i could not good errection durig sexual intercourse.with the result i am not able to enjoy with my partner

Posted by Optional on 14/03/2012 at 10:00

I have erection and premature ejaculation problems and i really do not know how to solve them.. 1st of all when i go to the bathroom to piss, my urine does not come out completely. When i'm having sex i ejaculate way too early and i know i have these problems because i masturbate alot. What can i do to make my life and my sexual encounters better?

Posted by Optional on 05/03/2012 at 09:21

sex last only two minutes since age of 24,wife is angry,went to docters,urologist and m ens health clinic,nothing is working

Posted by Optional on 02/03/2012 at 12:29

long story short i squeezed the base of my peins a lil bit to hard a month ago and outcome of this is i cant get a full erection as i used to. iam pretty sure its a never damage? the day after i did this squeez i didnt feel no numbness and i didnt see any bruising. i just had trouble getting it up. i still do now, i just cant get a full 100% as i used to it has been a month now help please

Posted by Optional on 01/03/2012 at 09:16

I was masturbating and then after i ejaculated i lost my erection very quick and now i am unable to get a erection.... What's wrong?

Posted by Optional on 18/02/2012 at 11:37

my husband is 22 yearz old n we were heaving healthy sexual life since last 16 months. but now suddenly he have problm of eriction.his penis is unable 2 errict. we dont understand what had happnd? plz help us...........

Posted by Optional on 17/02/2012 at 01:25

Not sure my post went up I'm 17 and I have a serious issue with erections its not that I don't get them, but that I always get them..but its not that simple, I'm straight I know I'm straight I like girls I've liked girls my whole life so why in gods name is it that suddenly this year I'm getting erections from dudes...but only when I know they're approaching me expecting me to get an erection(people think I'm gay and make fun of me) I've been being made fun of since the end of grade 9. I've had gf's and I get erections from girls so whats the deal, whats wrong with me? Am I a bisexual or something?

Posted by Optional on 16/02/2012 at 10:11

I just turned 26 not to long ago and im just not getting an erection like i use to .... before i would get hard if the wind blew hard enough... now i wont get an erection even if my girlfriend dresses up, walk around the house butt naked, i cant even get hard looking at porn...this has never happen to me before and im concerned. Do you have any suggestions on this issue?

Posted by Optional on 09/02/2012 at 03:47

I am 36 years old and experiencing erection problems.I run a mile and a half, 3 to 4 times a week, eat pretty well, have no sugar problems, and had my blood pressure tested ( 126 over 82). I don't smoke or drink excessively, or do drugs. I am under a great deal of stress of late, however. I have noticed a gradual decline, in penis function, over the years. I have run into occasional problems most of my adult life, and even back into my teens, where I would unable to achieve an erection. Oral sex would help but is no longer as effective. For many years, and commonly still, it has prevented me from using condoms, when I would have otherwise wanted to. When I was in my teens,and early 20's, alcohol almost always prevented erection. When I masturbate now I find it difficult to obtain, and sustain an erection. Often, during orgasm, the penis will only be semi-erect. Please help me understand this issue. It is starting to effect my confidence in my relationships.

Posted by Optional on 02/02/2012 at 11:51

I am on medication. I am on Innozide 20mg. 1 aday. Istolde 10mg 1 a day. As a result i experience ed can i do anything about this

Posted by michael on 31/01/2012 at 01:51

i hav a weak erection due 2 std

Posted by Optional on 31/01/2012 at 01:26

Hello am 17, I am having a very disturbing problem. I can not stay hard during sex and my girlfriend is about to break up with me. I am wondering if someone could help me with any suggestions.

Posted by Optional on 30/01/2012 at 06:04

am 35 active sex life with wife 2 times unable to keep eriction

Posted by Optional on 24/01/2012 at 04:55

I lost my sex power.i smoke heavy .i cant maintain erection what can i do know

Posted by Optional on 23/01/2012 at 09:32


Posted by Optional on 21/01/2012 at 08:04

My boyfriend only lasts two minutes before goin soft, what is the problem why cant he stay hard

Posted by Optional on 18/01/2012 at 10:19

till afew yrs back there was no problem ...errection sustaned for long ...nowadays it doesnt stay errected fore even 2mts ...what do i do

Posted by Optional sanjiv on 17/01/2012 at 10:17

having erection problem,it does not erect properly. Pl advise as how to keep erected for longer time to enjoy sex.

Posted by Ed on 10/01/2012 at 09:05

I rarely maintain an erection for more than 10 minutes.. But for the most part my penis is semi erect. If I drink a few coffees, I tend to frequent the toilet 3 times, while others go only once. I had my testosterone levels checked, and I'm ok.. I'm getting frustrated .

Posted by OptionalDave on 07/01/2012 at 05:06

i can not get an erection. so we masterbate each there anything to make it more intence.iheard tghere is a pill

Posted by babu dutta on 04/01/2012 at 02:03

hi i am 26 year old and just newly married person . whenever i take sex relation with my wife . i always attempt to sex with her but falls soon plz help me

Posted by Ali on 03/01/2012 at 01:43

Hy Actually my dick is not erecting during sex with someone..but it is erecting without someone is not present.etc hand job personaly alone. Have this problems from last 7 years.. Ca Plz help me in such a situation..i m going to merry but I am too much scared because of this.. Thanks

Posted by J on 14/12/2011 at 07:04

Wow thanks! I knew there was something wrong with my shaft

Posted by Optional on 14/12/2011 at 10:15

Hi I am 20 years old and I am worried about my boyfriend, we have attempted to have sex and it always fails. He's penis has low erections and when he tries to put it in it fail and loosens. Idk of this is a health problem or if it's me! Help anyone

Posted by Optional on 11/12/2011 at 08:17

Last night I was with a girl and we were doing a lot of foreplay. The foreplay lasted about an hour. I had an erection the whole time but then we went to go have sex. I went to put the condol on and i noticed the erection was starting to fade. I figured it would come back once I got back to her but it didnt. This has never happened to me. What should I do? Or what should I have had done differently? And is this normal?

Posted by neo k on 02/12/2011 at 09:23

I didn't find the answer to what I was looking for. My problem is my partner are having problems when it comes to having sex and he has a low erection and the penis dosent react when its time to get into it. Must I get worried or what or is he cheating on me or WHAT?

Posted by Optional on 30/11/2011 at 02:30

I have also found that having a high protein diet really helps, on the days i have alot of soya my erection is great.

Posted by Optional on 30/11/2011 at 02:28

Just wanted to say i tried Euramin M direct for 3 months and this has worked for me, its natural so has no side effects. Just Currently researching how long you need to take it for and if you need to continue it after the 3 months.

Posted by Dave Smith on 27/11/2011 at 12:10

I have to take Cialis and find it helps with erections but i cant maintain one if there is no physical touching or stimulation. As soon as this stops it goes soft in 60 seconds. But with out the pill im lucky to even get a slight erection. Certainly not enough to have sex. I feel that i suffer from low testosterone . Ive been tested and was on the low side of normal. One doctor said that it was totaly fine and no prblem, and another said it was low and needs a helping hand. I was put on testosterone patches , but they didnt work as they would fall off, so was put on pills. These didnt seem to have much affect and teh docotr stopped the medication after a month. I feel that this was too soon and may have benifitted from longer duration of medication and even trying another method such as injections. Ive also read that the body will shut down its own production and you need to take a pill to stop the testicles shrinking, and also teh body can change unwanted testorone in to teh female hormoan. Again a pill is needed to stop this conversion process. My doctor did not give me any of the other treatments with the testosterone therapy. Tried talking to the doctor but hes not interested in trying with injections. so i have to live with being physicly weak. unable to put on muscel, feeling tired all the time little or no sex drive and so on.

Posted by Optional on 26/11/2011 at 06:50

Hey, I'm 18. It takes me a while to get an erection, and when I do, if it isn't constantly being aroused, it goes limp. It even happens during sex sometimes. :( what do I do..?

Posted by gupta on 15/11/2011 at 01:52

I have a problem I use to masterbate a lot but now ii can not stay hard during sex and m feel embrarsed in front of my wife.i m wondering if someone could help me with any suggestions.

Posted by Optional on 14/11/2011 at 11:39

i have not been able to get my boyfriend to cum. he is 69 years old and can only cum when he jerks off

Posted by SB on 13/11/2011 at 08:30

Hello I sometimes have an erection, but mostly when I masturbate. During sex it comes up rarely and then goes flat very quickly, even before I attempted to penetrate. My sex life has always been below average , for the last 12 years of our marriage, but it was still OK. I have been diabetic for almost 5 or 6 years now, and I am having medicines regulraly for the last year or so, and over the last year the problem has aggaravated quite a lot. Please advice.

Posted by hardly up on 13/11/2011 at 10:14

i have had a problem getting or maintaing an errictionfor close to a year now. my wife thinks its her but its not. I find her sexy as hell and she tries hard to find ways to spark my intrest... sexy nightgowns =, amizing forplay. I am 29 years old and should NOT be having this problem. is anything I can do to fis this problem, any kind of home remidey or just anything??? Hell I haven't even woke up with morning wood but MAYBE twice a year since I was 27. I have got to fix this or she is going to leave me. Hard to blame her when our relationship got kicked off so well because we continuously had the best sex of each others lives for so lone. I HAVE GOT TO FIX ME!!! THATS THE PROBLEM!!!

Posted by antor on 10/11/2011 at 01:11

i think,testosterone injection is not very available in please tell me what kind of medicine or name i should take in bangladesh.

Posted by Nico on 08/11/2011 at 06:21

Penis seems different after facet joint rhizotomy in neck under general anasthetics. It seems to have shrunked and shriveled up and erections seems more difficult to obtain.

Posted by Optional on 12/10/2011 at 04:15

I have a problem I use to masterbate a lot but now ii can not stay hard during sex and m feel embrarsed in front of my wife.i m wondering if someone could help me with any suggestions

Posted by Ben on 06/10/2011 at 05:32

I have a problem I use to masterbate a lot and one day I did it and when I got ready to release my sperm my leg tighten I pulled my leg out straight and I felt something pull apart I don't know if it a muscle or nerve Im 30 years old and I have had this problem for 4 year been to the doc and he can't tell me anything I need some help please someone tell me were to turn to

Posted by tarun on 26/09/2011 at 09:52

hi i m very worried.i can not stay hard during sex and m feel embrarsed in front of my wife.i m wondering if someone could help me with any suggestions

Posted by Optional on 09/09/2011 at 01:54

Hello, I am having a very disturbing problem. I can not stay hard during sex and my girlfriend is about to break up with me. I am wondering if someone could help me with any suggestions.

Posted by Optional on 04/09/2011 at 02:30

have not been able to cum. I have no problem having an erection, but can not cum. please help

Posted by Optional on 02/09/2011 at 07:16

i'm havin ed since i was penis and tests had an scabic attack and after that i lost penis is deshaped,im altogather impotent.i've been bouncing 4rm doctor to doctor, had all my check ups and they shows that testrogen level and etc are all at their normal.None could tell me the mother of that evil sofar..I'm disapointed and shattered,when hope seizes life ends.Wish i could die in next hour,the only way to escape my misry and get rid of my destiny.

Posted by Optional on 16/07/2011 at 03:12

hello... iam26 yrs old ,i hav a major and disturbing problem is my penis quickly fall down during sex and penis entering is very hard but with in secs its getting loose during sex ...due to this iam not concentrting in any thing what to do ? pls advise for better sex

Posted by librafresh on 13/07/2011 at 08:54

am 19 and i have been having erection problem suddenly..inever had this problem before,so all this is strage to me now i cant get no erection at al even when masturbate,no morning erection either

Posted by Optional on 07/07/2011 at 04:51


Posted by Optional on 07/07/2011 at 02:36

I have no sex power. When I am doing intercourse then suddenly my strong penis is very loose. For this reason,my wife has no pleased. I am hopeless.

Posted by Optional on 30/06/2011 at 09:17

when i think of sex, erection is ok. But when doing sex the erection persists for a while and it fails.

Posted by ZEE on 26/05/2011 at 11:18


Posted by j123 on 19/05/2011 at 01:15

i have an erection problem but when i use a condom it is firm and i do get her to cum which makes me happy .but i want to be a man and do it with my erecion the normal way which i cant cos when i am erect and put it in the womans vagina in two seconds it turns down my erection which makes me feel i am useless.can anyone help me or doctor do have a solution or advice for me.please help i cant form a relationship and thats fear is killing me.

Posted by jacob on 18/04/2011 at 10:23

ive had surgery on my leg about 4 weeks ago but im having porblems getting an erection

Posted by Optional on 16/04/2011 at 04:18

My penis doesn't go erect when I look or think about the normal subjects (sexual intercourse, hot females, etc.) Ever since I was younger, it would go erect when I saw or thought of like bellies, or stomaches, and eating, and stuff like that.

Posted by Optional on 29/03/2011 at 02:27

im 18, for about 4 months now i have had trouble getting it fully hard and i even went to the doctor after awhile, he taught it was just an infection and gave me antibiotics but i have just finished the course and i am still having problems, i also think i found a small lump on my testicle but i thinkk im just been paro, i am fairly scared and cant get it off my mind

Posted by Optional on 17/03/2011 at 07:33

I have an erection problem , i use my wives rubber band around my penis , this give me hard erection cause the blood remains in the penis .. i want to know does this cause harm to the semen quality ... i am desperately looking for a baby ...thanks

Posted by Optional on 17/03/2011 at 06:05

I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for almost a year and the sex has been great. About 2 months ago he was having problems getting hard and we were also having other problems in the relationship so we broke up. We got back together soon after and the erection problem returned. He gets hard but loses his erection during sex. I don't want this to cause problems in our relationship. It obviously bothers both of us, I feel rejected and unwanted but he insists its not me. What can it be? How do I deal with this without making him feel unimportant? Helpppppp please!

Posted by RJ on 01/03/2011 at 01:38

Does anyone actually answer any of these questions? I have read all the comments and found about 10 or so with young guys like me with the same problem. But no answers!!! I can get hard, but when it comes down to penatration, I loose my erection. I have no idea what's goin on, I think its in my head. Maybe I think too much. This has never been a problem for me ever! Until I met this girl I'm actually crazy about. The one girl I wanna make happy. I'm afraid of losing her because of this if I haven't already. What can I do? Please help me...

Posted by Optional on 19/02/2011 at 03:28

when i first met my wife we would have passionate love every night now that im older and shes still young i cant get it aroused i went to a doctor a year ago they told me i have klien felter syndrom its a dicease that many men have when they are young well i took the medic,after that now when i want to have sex with my wife it doesnt want to to hard i like to know why now i havent cum in to months my wife enjoys me going down on her she gets off to it 3 times a day she is happy but she wants me to injoy too

Posted by Optional on 12/01/2011 at 05:49

I am losing my mind and seem to be getting into a depression mode about my erection, or lack of should I say. When masturbating or in the midst of foreplay, there is never a problem. But just before intercourse, my erection loses its strength and it goes flaccid. I don't know if it has become a psychological problem, or is there a health issue involved. Please advice fellow people, I am at my wits end.

Posted by Steven on 12/01/2011 at 10:53

Anybody tried amino acid supplements? Euramin M Direct has sorted my erection problems and I didn't get side-effects as they are natural. I thought this'd be worth writing as I don't think much information exists on amino acids and erection difficulties. I only found out my chance. You do have to invest, but it was worth it in my case. I thought I was going to lose my wife, even though she used to try to reassure me that she'd stay nomatter what. I can totally relate to what some of you have written. Maybe this will help someone.

Posted by will on 28/12/2010 at 07:42

I have never had issues with detection before. I recently changed my blood pressure meds and begginibg to wonder if it may cause the problem. I am also taking a more strong pain medication oxycodone as well. I am not use to this problem. Is there any advice? My wife has a lower sex drive due to early hysterectomy. Any advice?

Posted by Optional on 20/12/2010 at 12:07

i have been married for 5 years my husband is impotent and we have hardly had any physical relationship in these 5years.he is not admitting that he has any problem,infact he is putting all blame on me for us not having any relationship and at the same time he doesnt want me to leave him.what should i do now?

Posted by Optional on 16/12/2010 at 03:55

Why does every comment sound like it's written by a Russian or Eastern European? Now I can't help but read them all with a slightly Bond-movie-esque Russian accent in my head.

Posted by CURIOUS on 01/12/2010 at 07:21


Posted by T on 28/11/2010 at 09:35

When i masterbate my erection is very strong but when im about 2 have sex,I cant erect & if I do,i cant maintain it. I am not experienced in sex coz i became active at age of 21. My problem is dat i panic & become very nervous b4 sex & even though i knw my problem,i cant seem 2 get over this problem. Advice plssss

Posted by Flyingbigbertha on 07/11/2010 at 03:29

Hi all, I had a very sexual and lovely life before and after my marriage. No I did not do anything before my marriage but yes self pleasuring was there a lot.... but after I got married and had my forth child, I had vasectomy but my sexual drive did not change. My wife was happy... but in recent time I have felt that I am not getting a proper erection even while making love.... I do read sexual book to entice myself but I am having a problem ..... I am a smoker and need your help

Posted by Optional on 26/10/2010 at 05:37

My boyfriend and I enjoyed sex all the time, he has no problem on getting hard, but lately, he got problems and drinks almost very night for 7 months now. Could this be a reason that's why he is not as hard as it used to be? He can erect but it gets soft when it's inside that he is not hitting the right spot inside of me.

Posted by Optional on 26/10/2010 at 05:24

I have tried everything I am diabetic an I cannot keep a full erection please help me I have a beautiful young wife

Posted by Optional on 24/09/2010 at 05:41

im just 21,and i lose my erection in just less than 2minutes can someone pls help me ????

Posted by james on 19/09/2010 at 05:33

what if in my case you stuck with an erection for more than 18 hours????

Posted by Optional on 02/09/2010 at 08:19

I am just 23 and i lose my erection withing 3 minutes.i am worried about my sex life, is this the sign of infertility?

Posted by Optional on 23/08/2010 at 01:29

My husband was diagnosed with diabetes about a year ago and this has caused the blood vessels in his penis to narrow and now finds it difficult to maintain an erection for very long, how frustrating for both of us.

Posted by Optional on 15/08/2010 at 12:44

I erect fast not even for a minute for the first time having sex After first time , second time it last little longer and 3rd time little bit more. Any solution.

Posted by Optional on 13/08/2010 at 02:29

hi, doctor, i have erection problem last 6 months, when i start intercourse my penis go down for erection plzz help me, i m married person

Posted by zaib on 06/08/2010 at 10:55

hi doctor i have erection problem i m 24 year old i lose lose erection rapidly i am very worry about it i m erection is very strong before i m suffrin from erection problem from 2 year i use alot of medicine but no effect my penis muscle is seem to be weak plz suggest me answer i m wating

Posted by Bill on 04/08/2010 at 06:54

I have ed and for last couple of years, no nocturnal or spontaneous erections, some success with masturbation, however I can gently rum my nipples and get an errection and continue with masturbation and ejaculate?

Posted by Paul on 03/08/2010 at 09:10

it's the doctors here that make the problem worse. most GPs do not ask their male patients if they are having any problems with sexual function....EVER.

Posted by Optional on 30/07/2010 at 10:39

I am 28 year old male and think i have ED? I get arroused but am unable to sustain it. When the time comes for intercource I get flacid and am embarassed. I exercise 3x per week, dont smoke and drink occasionally. If i keep working at it sometimes I get hard enough for intercourse. I've had problems in past but just thought it was due to binge drinking. commenly reffered to "whiskey dick". They were one night stands so didn't care much. But now how girlfriend and am constantly thinking about it when the time comes. Need help! recently ordered generic cialis on line hoping that will help. . .

Posted by Optional on 25/07/2010 at 01:43

my frnd kicked me on my penis n from then there is no erection. and my penis has been dribbling since then. what should i there no solution.

Posted by Optional on 19/07/2010 at 05:16

why men of indian origin do not have a sexual drive at 50

Posted by nicholas on 18/07/2010 at 07:38

my problem in the part underthe penis idonot know this part in english got a pain and water in the glands but now iam week if i do sex

Posted by Vicky on 21/06/2010 at 10:04

I am 43 years of Male, and Diabetic for almost 10 years. I was having normal married life for almost 18 years. Recently I started the Medicanes to control the Diabetes, since then I am having Problem of Eraction During the Sexual Relations. What may be the cause behind this Problem ? Kindly Advice.

Posted by karen on 15/06/2010 at 04:54

to masterbat 31 5 2010.hello.your promblem has nothing to do with sex or how you have sex.your promblem is this you have became addited to excessive masturbation....masturbation has become a drug to you.your excessive masturbating has produced the side effect that you can no longer perform should see a sexlogyist....karen

Posted by Optional on 03/05/2010 at 05:58

I am a 23 yr old male who suffers problems with my erection. I do get erections but when i need to have sexual intercourse with a female on most occassions i fail to get erect. This happens me on most occassions. I would be erect but when i go about inserting my penis inside her im not hard enough. This has happened me on several occassions. I do not have a regular sexual partner. most of these situations have been one night stands. Im very embarassed about this situation and dont feel i can work up the courage to speak to my GP about my situation.

Posted by pravin on 22/04/2010 at 11:40

sir i have erection problem,my penis not erecting properly and when i am doing mastrubate suddently occur.please give guidance for this.. thanx

Posted by Gary on 20/04/2010 at 11:46

I was a late comer to the world of sex but during my first few times I had trouble getting hard. I'm not sure if it was nerves or just that I had been drinking but I am worried it may happen again. Not taking any alcohol would be an unrealsitic option

Posted by Jake on 08/04/2010 at 05:25

hi, me and my girlfriend have tryed to have sex but couldn`t because I couldn't get completely hard. I can get an erection when I masturbate but I just cant before trying to have sex. please help me

Posted by Optional on 23/03/2010 at 04:23

hi i`m 17 years old, me and my girlfriend have tryed to have sex but couldn`t because i could get fully hard. i can get completly erect when masterbating but i seem not to before trying to have sex. please help

Posted by Khan on 04/03/2010 at 06:39

My name is Khan, i am 22 years old, bechlor student my problem is i am suffering from penis erection. my penis doesn't erect very hard. please can u help me out?

Posted by L on 18/02/2010 at 12:26

I've known my boyfriend for about 2 years and for a while he had a problem with "getting up" (erection). Were ok now i used to think it was because of me,the problem now is when we use condoms it's much harder for him to get an erection. Does anyone know what the problem is?

Posted by Bob on 09/02/2010 at 02:28

ED is there any help at my age i have high blood pressure and type 2 diabetes

Posted by Vikzz on 31/01/2010 at 02:26

I feel I have ED since it erection is not always possible . I have heard of medicine called VigRx Plus . I wish to know how safe is it to consumer and if it has any side effects ?

Posted by girmaaa jabeessaa on 16/01/2010 at 08:22

wow i am sorry i have same problem that i did not want to speak. here is it when want to play agame with my girl freand my pines denayed to errect what shall i do?

Posted by Q on 05/01/2010 at 10:57

ok I Know I'm young but my boyfriend and I have a really healthy relationship and his problem is not getting an erection...its keeping it once we start having sex..i've talked to him about it but i'm not sure what else to do...

Posted by zozo on 01/01/2010 at 07:21

i have erection problem but my main concern is my manhood is getting small and small i lost my normal size please help

Posted by Anonymous on 29/10/2009 at 09:37

i tore something in my penis,its shorter and somewhat bent and i can feel some scaring at the base which i think is causing the problem,i need a specialist int the houston area.

Posted by Anonymous on 22/10/2009 at 10:21

Mer & my boyfriend have been going out for a while now, about 8 months. We started off slow due to his shyness but we're now ok. We had sex at 3 months, whilst under the influence of alcohol, and didnt have it since. But recently we've had 4 attempts at having sex and each one resulted in us not having it because my boyfriend couldnt get an erection. He says its nerves. but i feel its my fault.. what do i do??

Posted by gary on 07/10/2009 at 12:30

hi iam worried about my erection .jist before i and my girlfreind are about to have sex i start to worry i wont be able to get an erection or if i do hold on to it .thats wen i start to panic abot not being able to satasfi her. weeve been going out for 2 months now ive had alot ov sexual partners b4 and not had this problem so why now? this causes me to either not get an erection or not hold on to it .i find it alot easier if ive had a drink because i feel more relaxed why can i no be like that wen ive not had alcohol ?

Posted by lewis on 13/09/2009 at 04:10

hi, i am very worried about a small roblem i have regarding recent routine explorotory surgery on my right testicle as there was speculation that it was twisted. the surgery showed that my testicle was not twisted but i had a bruising of the epididimus and there was a blood clot inside my scrotum. i had surgery friday night (11th sept 2009) and am still recovering, however i cannot get a full erection and sustain it. is this just because of my recent surgery and is temporary or will this become an underlying problem? thanks alot for your time lewis

Posted by lynn on 11/09/2009 at 10:50

my partner has a problem keeping a erectoin when makeing love and i,am beging to think that i,am the problen and that i do not turn him no,we do not make love from one month to the next,and this is making me think that he not interested in me.

Posted by n/a on 06/09/2009 at 04:10

my parner is having problems keeping it up during sex and we dont no what to he says its not me but i dont no what else could be causing it??

Posted by shameless on 20/08/2009 at 04:44

am 35 been having errection problems for a bout 5mth now it get hardish but if i put in partner it soon goes soft .its very stressfull. the only way is 2 masterbate and then its not all ways as hard as it was befor

Posted by Joe.S on 12/08/2009 at 06:09

I have an erection problem where i do get errect but it isnt as hard as it could be and then if i try put him in my partners Vagina, it isn't hard enought to go in or if i do get it in, it comes out easily :/

Posted by Anonymous on 02/08/2009 at 02:45

after 25 sessions of radio therapy on my bowel and a number of cancer operations not only can i not sustain an erection it is only half the size of befor is there anything i can do

Posted by simon on 28/07/2009 at 02:27

I have Erection problems most of time I make sex 2 or 3 min. what can I do? pleas help me Thanks a lot Simon

Posted by Anonymous on 22/07/2009 at 04:44

My current boyfriend is having errection problems and i dont know wot to do to help his only young and i feel its my fault.


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