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Sexual worries

Sexual worries include no interest in sex, painful sex, sex during periods, sex and ageing, and tight vaginas.

Written by: Dr Margaret Stearn
Edited by: Dr Margaret Stearn
Last updated: Saturday, February 13th 2010


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Posted by Optional on 14/07/2010 at 04:55:43 am

i am 20 week and 5 days pregnant found out i have thrush which i was given the pessary whihc i used last nite i not had any itching since. me and my partner had sex this morning and now i am really sore and fid it hard to sit properly. have i had sex too soon from using the pessary or is it that i am have a reaction to the pessary? could u please hell thnx.x

Posted by Optional on 29/06/2010 at 07:21:31 pm

there are tiny bups around my penis and im scared to go to the doctor n i have had sex but used a condom n oral sex without one and im scared that i might have a disease or something because it will not go away any suggestions??

Posted by Optional on 10/06/2010 at 02:47:28 pm

ive had itching around the outer lips of the vagina for a very very long time now and im not sure how to treat it ive tried all the usual treatments but nothing works and i hate going to the doctors about this kind of problem please help thankyou

Posted by Optional on 07/06/2010 at 02:22:14 pm

I had sex about 6 months ago, we used a condom but she got pregnant (not sure how) but she got rid of it. i want to have sex again but im worried it may happen again, what can i do to reduce the chances even more, thanks

Posted by BlahBlahBlah on 06/05/2010 at 05:39:13 pm

Okay, This Is Embarrassing, I Know I Shouldn't Be Worrying About Sex At My Age, But The Inner Lips Are Outside The Outer Lips Of My Vagina, Am I Still Able To Have Sex?

Posted by molly on 27/04/2010 at 09:12:24 am

how do i break myself in? me and boyfriend want to start having but i need to break myself in i tried with my finger and it didnt go far what do i do? please help its really getting me down thanks xx

Posted by Optional on 23/04/2010 at 12:55:19 pm

Alright so, i have this problem, i look at my penis and i have red spots on the head of it, with small white spots on the shaft of it under the skin, and its makeing me worry i have a disease, im scared to show my mom, and go to the doctors. any answers?

Posted by habib on 24/03/2010 at 01:54:20 pm

i m 22 yrs old ,i m unmarried ,my penis size 5 inches so i want 2 large & hard my penis by medicine .......plz tell abut name of the medicine ...........as soon as possible

Posted by Optional on 24/03/2010 at 09:15:18 am

as get excited when i aee a sexy man or woman but then when i turn to my boyfriend and try to cuddle i get total turn off. i know i love him and only want to be with him. is there a chance that i not being honest and i secrectly want wild sex else where. or is this a normal feeling

Posted by Optional on 21/03/2010 at 02:01:20 pm

i was having sex and my girl vagina was dry and i stuck my penis in but because it was dry i had to kinda force it in and it streched the skin on my penis and now i have strech marks on my penis thats sore

Posted by Optional on 17/03/2010 at 10:08:58 am

can you tell me is it natual to go off of sex with my partner.during menapause ,if so what can help me .want sex again .my partner dont deserve this .please help .

Posted by Optional on 16/03/2010 at 04:33:35 pm

Just a question: I was with this guy that I liked for a long time, and we were messing around.. the problem was that I was not turned ON at all... I did like him, but when we were together... I didn't feel anything, and this happened once before with this other guy I was dating at the time. I just dont get anything out of it! I dont know if this is normal... is something wrong with me.. should I Be doing something else or maybe theyre just not doing something right... can someone help please!

Posted by Anonymous on 02/01/2010 at 05:22:00 am

i have to ask, can a female "pop her cherry" while masterbating. and where is this "cherry"

Posted by Demi on 17/12/2009 at 08:43:00 pm

sex is always painful. am i doing something wrong? my vagina is very tight?

Posted by Anonymous on 21/11/2009 at 02:16:00 pm

I had unprotected sex over a week ago and the top of my penis where the hole is sore. pain is Like a stinging sensation.

Posted by Sex Stamina on 29/10/2009 at 03:45:00 pm

I have habit of masturbation, but my masturbation stamina is very less around 1 minute. Will it effect on my marriagelife. How to produce more stamina?

Posted by Kurt Russel on 01/08/2009 at 03:21:00 pm

When I am having sex I often get nervous about the other party wanting more after I am finished how do I go about avoiding this?

Posted by Anonymous on 15/07/2009 at 05:41:00 pm

I have a pain in my right side when i have an orgasm , i have had a coil in for 2 years .

Posted by Anonymous on 14/04/2009 at 10:20:00 am

i was visiting the site and couldnt find what i was looking for so i am contacting you personnally looking for an answer to a problem i am having. since i have been sexually active ive noticed and have been told by the men i have slept with that i get very wet easily to the point were im gushing and sometimes feels like i have wet myself and i dont know if this is normal or wat i could do to prevent this as i do feel it is a bit embarrassing and off putting. if you could reply back to me that would be muchly appreciated

Posted by dan on 25/02/2009 at 07:41:00 pm

ive been having these horrible disturbing dreams about my sister lately, they often occur, i cant stop thinking about it and i always cringe when i think about them, they often appear in my head when im masterbating which puts me off, im feeling sicker every day and im getting worried that im attracted to my sister. little help!!! taking into account im 15, could it be my hormones, i did eneter puberty late?

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