Sexual worries
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Posted by Optional on 28/01/2012 at 02:49
my problem is hand job sex. how will stop,i was many time stop thinking but i can not stop this stub-pit work .please help me.any other tablets available or any thing make a solution.
Posted by kathy on 16/01/2012 at 07:49
i have itching ...on vulva after inter course ! Heip !
Posted by harry on 30/12/2011 at 03:25
i have problem about the frequent night fall, almost once in 15 days sometimes less then that since almost 8years back, i have small penis and facing early ejaculation with my girl friend many times. so i keep loosing my confidence also...and i m also 12 kg underweight. will i face any problem on having sex with my life partner in future.
Posted by Optional on 24/12/2011 at 10:41
I let my b/f cum in me for the first time and im pretty sure i wasnt ovulating, but after a couple of minutes after, my stomach felt really weird. Is this normal after ejaculation in a woman? Im kinda worried and nervous now. Plz help..?
Posted by arvind on 04/11/2011 at 06:27
while doing sex, the spirm was release instantly, hence could not do sex long time.
Posted by Optional on 06/10/2011 at 02:03
i think i might have some for of STDs, seeing as on my penis, near the scrotum, on the lenis itself i have small bumps.. the are about 1-2 mm wide and are skin color. they feel and look like pimples but im not sure.. i read your article and the one that best describes my situation says that they only occur around the head.. HELP!
Posted by kindaworried on 27/09/2011 at 11:30
About a month ago I had sexual relations with a man, unprotected. I gave oral then I gave from behind(I didn't recieve) a few days after I got a rash on my armpits, and had itchy elbows, I used hydrocortizone and the armpit rash went away pretty quickly, Not long after my waist where the pevis bone kinda protrudes started itching and underneath my stomach, there are last week i had an upset stomach all week and didn't eat very much. also a couple spots on my armpits where little red dots show just a couple, but now my waist line is very itchy. I just wonder if this is related to the sex.
Posted by Optional on 01/09/2011 at 05:28
im scared 4 when i finally do have sex im going to embarress myself because my vagina is hairy all over and plus i dont know any moves PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Posted by Optional on 25/08/2011 at 03:04
I am a 18 year old female and felt constipated about four or five days ago. I had a feeling of cramps right above my pelvic bone, but then then next day I was able to poop. About four days ago I had sexual intercourse for the first time, but a condom was properly used. Two days ago I urinated blood with a sweetish odor and continued to have for have painful urination for the whole school day, and after school that day i went to the doctor and had my urine tested and it turns out I had a uti, which I believe is caused from the fact that I do not go to the bathroom enough. Lastly I have yet to have my monthly period and I am wondering if all of this is due to my urinary tract infection or if I am pregnant? I am very stressed out over this
Posted by Optional on 03/07/2011 at 07:18
i was jaking off the other day wen i woke up to find my penis was swollen near the top later tha day i masterbated and there was inprintss were my finger were is anything wrong with me ?
Posted by Optional on 27/05/2011 at 11:14
recently during sex i have poo'ed myself while having an Orgasm (I do experience female ejaculation) needless to say this is extremely embarressing, luckily my partner tells me not to worry, but this is starting to put me off having sex. I have had two children albeit 20 years ago. Why is this happening
Posted by Optional on 13/05/2011 at 10:46
why it is that when me and my partner are having sex i start feeling sick when climaxing
Posted by Optional on 12/05/2011 at 09:19
when havin sex is brill but when my boyfriend cums am so mad as icant feel him doing so i have never felt what it like
Posted by Optional on 21/04/2011 at 12:59
How do you treat vaginal tearing from intercourse and is it common?
Posted by Optional on 29/03/2011 at 08:43
I love this site, its beneficial.
Posted by Optional on 21/03/2011 at 12:51
i am 21 and i have masturbated several years and my penis size is 5 can i satisfy my wife and can i become father
Posted by Optional on 08/03/2011 at 10:47
when me and my girlfriend have sex it takes like 3 times for her to finally hit her climax? but with me I can finish fast? what em i doin wrong?
Posted by LJ on 27/02/2011 at 06:22
Hello, i masturbate some at leased everyday, i have had sex once, i have crater like indents on the bottom of my penis, they are itch, could this be from masturbating to much or an STD
Posted by brittany on 22/02/2011 at 05:45
well, i had unprotected sex about 4 to 5 months ago, and i didn't notice anything wrong with my vagina. I do have a lot of discharge and i wanted to know if i had a std because, i do hope not because i am young and i don't want to deal with that.
Posted by Hands, Fingers, Genitals? on 21/02/2011 at 03:04
Hi. I have a problem where i continually compare the size of my hands/fingers to everyone and anyone else. I have, what i consider slightly smaller hands than most guys BUT I compare them with my Dad's and many other men and find them to be roughly the same palm size and slightly longer hands overall it is just my fingers are ridicuously skinny/bony. My fist(s) consequentially look smaller. It is to the point where i cannot function as a normal person; where my thoughts are preoccupied with this subject too many hours on any single day. I am studying a very demanding degree also and am finding i struggle with it as thoughts are being wasted on this issue. Please help. I think this may be somethinig to do with a previous/current concern over penis size and the myth/urban legend where hand size puports penis size. I think i am average sized but who would know with so much mis/information out there? (FYI 5.5 - 6.25 inches length, 5inch circ.. I not sure how actually to measure properly)
Posted by Optional on 15/02/2011 at 07:46
When i had sex last night it was a bit painful at first as it is only my third time doing it but then the pain went away but i started feeling a little light headed/dizzy, and a bit sick, my face also went quite white, as if i was going to faint, why did this happen? i didnt really feel too warm, im a bit confused
Posted by Optional on 31/01/2011 at 08:23
Everytime i think about something sexual or do things that are a little bit sexual, after a little while i have excrutiating pain "down there" can anyone help me with this? Or if this happens to anyone please let mek now what I can do to stop it.
Posted by Optional on 27/01/2011 at 03:46
Wife does not want to have sex. its painfull and no lubrication ? wat r d medicines
Posted by Lara on 05/01/2011 at 11:06
my boyfriend as a rash and his penis is red and itching what can be wrong it happens to him often. i had a yeast infection about two months ago.what,s going on?
Posted by Optional on 07/12/2010 at 09:35
i recently had a fallupian tube tumor removed and with having only one fallopian left i was and still am worried about having kids in the future and if that operation wasnt bad enough i found out a couple of months later that i had chlamydia and do not know how long i had it for. i am so scared and it is destroring my life. please help?
Posted by Optional on 04/12/2010 at 05:18
I never had sex. My penis fore is tight. i can pull back the skin when my penis is normal condition but when it is erect, it is hard to pull the skin back. any solutions?
Posted by Optional on 20/10/2010 at 07:33
I am leading a double life man as well as women also. I wear women dreses as well as man. I wear earings and undergarments of ladies also. Is it a disease or habit please clear.
Posted by Optional on 25/09/2010 at 02:59
I get really horny before my period - is this normal?
Posted by Optional on 11/09/2010 at 03:33
smetimes cant stay wet and no orgasm
Posted by Optional on 12/08/2010 at 05:49
why my sperm become red and brown colour?
Posted by Laura on 03/08/2010 at 01:49
I am on the pill, but when im having sex with my boyfriend I bleed straight after, this dosent happen all the time but alot, what does it meean?
Posted by Optional on 01/08/2010 at 08:29
I have an issue where I am bleeding after and probably during sex. I just started having sex with a guy and I was as virgin up until this guy. I have an IUD for birth control and am wondering if this is causing me to bleed almost every time I have sex. This past time I was mortified after having sex he noticed there was some blood on his condom and the sheet was soaked...is this something that I really need to worry about or is this something because sex is still a new thing to my body?
Posted by Optional on 14/07/2010 at 04:55
i am 20 week and 5 days pregnant found out i have thrush which i was given the pessary whihc i used last nite i not had any itching since. me and my partner had sex this morning and now i am really sore and fid it hard to sit properly. have i had sex too soon from using the pessary or is it that i am have a reaction to the pessary? could u please hell thnx.x
Posted by Optional on 29/06/2010 at 07:21
there are tiny bups around my penis and im scared to go to the doctor n i have had sex but used a condom n oral sex without one and im scared that i might have a disease or something because it will not go away any suggestions??
Posted by Optional on 10/06/2010 at 02:47
ive had itching around the outer lips of the vagina for a very very long time now and im not sure how to treat it ive tried all the usual treatments but nothing works and i hate going to the doctors about this kind of problem please help thankyou
Posted by Optional on 07/06/2010 at 02:22
I had sex about 6 months ago, we used a condom but she got pregnant (not sure how) but she got rid of it. i want to have sex again but im worried it may happen again, what can i do to reduce the chances even more, thanks
Posted by BlahBlahBlah on 06/05/2010 at 05:39
Okay, This Is Embarrassing, I Know I Shouldn't Be Worrying About Sex At My Age, But The Inner Lips Are Outside The Outer Lips Of My Vagina, Am I Still Able To Have Sex?
Posted by molly on 27/04/2010 at 09:12
how do i break myself in? me and boyfriend want to start having but i need to break myself in i tried with my finger and it didnt go far what do i do? please help its really getting me down thanks xx
Posted by Optional on 23/04/2010 at 12:55
Alright so, i have this problem, i look at my penis and i have red spots on the head of it, with small white spots on the shaft of it under the skin, and its makeing me worry i have a disease, im scared to show my mom, and go to the doctors. any answers?
Posted by habib on 24/03/2010 at 01:54
i m 22 yrs old ,i m unmarried ,my penis size 5 inches so i want 2 large & hard my penis by medicine .......plz tell abut name of the medicine ...........as soon as possible
Posted by Optional on 24/03/2010 at 09:15
as get excited when i aee a sexy man or woman but then when i turn to my boyfriend and try to cuddle i get total turn off. i know i love him and only want to be with him. is there a chance that i not being honest and i secrectly want wild sex else where. or is this a normal feeling
Posted by Optional on 21/03/2010 at 02:01
i was having sex and my girl vagina was dry and i stuck my penis in but because it was dry i had to kinda force it in and it streched the skin on my penis and now i have strech marks on my penis thats sore
Posted by Optional on 17/03/2010 at 10:08
can you tell me is it natual to go off of sex with my partner.during menapause ,if so what can help me .want sex again .my partner dont deserve this .please help .
Posted by Optional on 16/03/2010 at 04:33
Just a question: I was with this guy that I liked for a long time, and we were messing around.. the problem was that I was not turned ON at all... I did like him, but when we were together... I didn't feel anything, and this happened once before with this other guy I was dating at the time. I just dont get anything out of it! I dont know if this is normal... is something wrong with me.. should I Be doing something else or maybe theyre just not doing something right... can someone help please!
Posted by Anonymous on 02/01/2010 at 05:22
i have to ask, can a female "pop her cherry" while masterbating. and where is this "cherry"
Posted by Demi on 17/12/2009 at 08:43
sex is always painful. am i doing something wrong? my vagina is very tight?
Posted by Anonymous on 21/11/2009 at 02:16
I had unprotected sex over a week ago and the top of my penis where the hole is sore. pain is Like a stinging sensation.
Posted by Sex Stamina on 29/10/2009 at 03:45
I have habit of masturbation, but my masturbation stamina is very less around 1 minute. Will it effect on my marriagelife. How to produce more stamina?
Posted by Kurt Russel on 01/08/2009 at 03:21
When I am having sex I often get nervous about the other party wanting more after I am finished how do I go about avoiding this?
Posted by Anonymous on 15/07/2009 at 05:41
I have a pain in my right side when i have an orgasm , i have had a coil in for 2 years .
Posted by Anonymous on 14/04/2009 at 10:20
i was visiting the site and couldnt find what i was looking for so i am contacting you personnally looking for an answer to a problem i am having. since i have been sexually active ive noticed and have been told by the men i have slept with that i get very wet easily to the point were im gushing and sometimes feels like i have wet myself and i dont know if this is normal or wat i could do to prevent this as i do feel it is a bit embarrassing and off putting. if you could reply back to me that would be muchly appreciated
Posted by dan on 25/02/2009 at 07:41
ive been having these horrible disturbing dreams about my sister lately, they often occur, i cant stop thinking about it and i always cringe when i think about them, they often appear in my head when im masterbating which puts me off, im feeling sicker every day and im getting worried that im attracted to my sister. little help!!! taking into account im 15, could it be my hormones, i did eneter puberty late?
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