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    Genital herpes
    • In the UK in 2003, more than 18 000 people visited a clinic for a first attack of genital herpes
    • In the UK, genital herpes has increased by 19% in men and 9% in women since 1996

    Genital herpes is an infection with the herpesvirus, called herpes simplex. Herpes simplex virus is also responsible for ‘cold sores’ that occur on the face.

    How you catch genital herpes
    You catch genital herpes during sex, by contact with someone who has the infection on their skin. You are most likely to catch it if your partner has herpes blisters or moist herpes sores.

    You can also catch herpes from someone who has no visible herpes sores. About 3% of people carry the virus on their skin without knowing that they have it (because it has never given them any symptoms), but they can pass it on to other people. This is one of the reasons it is important to use a condom with a new partner. Condoms give significant protection against genital herpes (Journal of the American Medical Association 2001;285:3100–6).

    Because cold sores are also caused by herpes simplex virus, you can catch herpes if your partner gives you oral sex when they have a cold sore.

    The herpesvirus cannot survive for long outside the body, so it is unlikely (but not impossible) that you will catch it from towels.

    How do I know if I have herpes?
    With herpes, you do not usually have symptoms all the time. The symptoms usually come and go in ‘attacks’ (also called ‘episodes’).

    • The first attack is the worst, and starts between 2 and 12 days after you caught the infection (usually about 4 days).
    • Later attacks (‘recurrences’) are less severe.
    • Some people never get recurrences, some people get them occasionally and a few people get them regularly.
    • The severity of the attacks varies a lot between individuals. At one end of the spectrum, some people have really troublesome attacks. At the other end of the spectrum, the attack may be so mild that the person does not notice any symptoms, which is how people end up carrying the herpesvirus unknowingly.

    First herpes attack
    Women. The first time you get herpes can be very unpleasant. First of all, you may feel as if you have flu – muscle aches, feverishness, tiredness and headache. Then small blisters appear on the labia (the ‘lips’ that surround the opening of the vagina). After 3 or 4 days, they burst to leave small, painful sores. Passing urine may be very painful indeed, and you will probably feel completely miserable and tearful. You may notice that the glands in your groins are swollen and tender.

    After 6 or 7 days, the sores start to scab over and slowly heal. So it can be 3 weeks from when you first started to feel unwell to complete healing.

    Men. In men, a first attack of herpes is usually less severe than in women. The blisters and sores may be on the glans (head) of the penis, the foreskin, the scrotum, the thighs, the buttocks or near the anus. Passing urine may be uncomfortable, and there may be discomfort or pain around the anus (back passage). You may feel feverish and generally unwell. The ulcers on the glans or the foreskin heal softly, but those on the shaft or scrotum form scabs as they heal.

    Later attacks (recurrences)
    Do not assume that you will get more attacks of herpes – some people do not. The number and severity of recurrent attacks varies enormously between individuals, but the average number is about five a year in men and four a year in women. Although this sounds bad, recurrent attacks are often very mild. Many people find that recurrences become less frequent and even milder with time.

    You will probably not have the flu-like feeling, nor the swollen glands in the groin, that you may have had with the first attack. An uncomfortable tingling feeling in the genital area and buttocks often warns that an attack is about to occur. Some people experience shooting pains in the buttocks, legs or hips. The stage with painful sores will usually last about 4 days, and it will all be over in about 10 days.

    Why recurrences occur
    After the first attack, herpesvirus often remains because the body has difficulty in getting rid of it completely. The virus travels away from the genitals using the nerves in the pelvic area as a pathway. When it reaches the clusters of cells at the end of the nerves (called ganglia), it stops travelling. The herpesvirus DNA then remains quietly in the ganglia. Fortunately, it does not damage the nerves or interfere with their function.

    In some people, from time to time, the herpesvirus travels back the way it came, along the nerve towards the genitals. This is called activation. When it arrives in the skin, it causes blisters and sores.

    After theses sores heal, the virus goes back up the nerve to the ganglion again, where it lies low again. But it can become activated again at any time, and travel down the nerves to the skin to cause another sore. The virus always travels up and down the same or nearby nerve pathways, which explains why herpes sores always recur in roughly the same place.

    How recurrences of herpesvirus happen

    First genital infection with herpes simplex virus causes sores

    Herpesvirus travels up nerves to the nerve ganglion where it lies low

    At a later date, herpesvirus may travel down nerves to the genital skin, causing a ‘recurrent attack’ of herpes

    Recurrent attack heals, and herpesvirus retreats to the ganglion again

    At a later date, herpesvirus may travel down to the genital skin again, causing another recurrent attack. This may happen several times

    No one really understands why the virus in the ganglion suddenly wakes up from time to time, and decides to go to the skin and cause recurrent attack. But in some people, there are some definite triggers that make this happen, such as:

    • emotional stress
    • physical stress – for example, having another illness
    • damage to the genital skin
    • menstruation.

    There are two types of herpes simplex virus; recurrences are more likely if you have type 2 than type 1. Recurrences are slightly more likely in men than in women.

    What to do if you have an attack of herpes

    • If you are female, look at the section on painful vulva.
    • If this is your first attack, go at once to your nearest genitourinary medicine clinic to check that you really do have herpes. There are many other causes of rash or discomfort in the genital area. For example, people sometimes mistake herpes for jock itch or conditions causing anal pain.You do not need a doctor’s letter to go to the clinic. If you are anxious about going to the clinic, look at the section on Visiting the clinic. The advantage of the clinic is that they will test you for other genital infections, they may also be able to give you some treatment to take away with you and they have counsellors (‘health advisors’) who can talk to you about the whole subject. However, if you prefer, you could see your family doctor instead.
    • There is no cure for herpes, but if this is your first attack your doctor will probably prescribe medication to reduce symptoms and speed healing (such as aciclovir, famciclovir or valaciclovir).
    • If this is your first attack, recognize that you will be feeling excessively miserable (which is part of the viral illness). Do not force yourself to go to work - stay home until the worst has passed and pamper yourself as much as possible.
    • Do not share your towel or flannel with anyone – there is no strong evidence that herpes is transmitted this way, but better to be on the safe side.
    • Put two handfuls of ordinary salt into a bath of warm water and sit in it for a while.
    • If passing urine is painful, do it into the warm bath. Take plenty of drinks.
    • Drying the genital area with a hairdryer on the cool setting may help to ease discomfort.
    • According to the UK Herpes Virus Association, applying a cold, wet teabag helps. They say that Earl Grey is best!
    • Paracetamol (acetaminophen) will help to relieve pain.
    • If appropriate (for example, you are home alone), leave the sores exposed to the air to prevent irritation from knickers or underpants.
    • You could try a herbal cream, such as aloe vera, melissa (a type of mint) or propolis (made by bees from the resin of Canadian poplar trees). These remedies are available from health food stores. But remember that there is very little scientific evidence to back the use of these remedies, their quality is not always controlled and some people may react badly to herbal creams.
    • Do not have sex until the sores have completely healed – if this is your first attack, this could be about 3 weeks. One reason is that you are most likely to pass the infection on when you have the sores. Another reason is to protect yourself – open sores give other infections (such as HIV) easy access to your bloodstream.
    • After the sores have healed and you start having sex again, use plenty of lubrication to protect your skin from too much friction. Look at the section on Vaginal dryness for advice on lubricants.

    What to do if you keep getting recurrences
    It is common to get four or five recurrences a year, but these are usually not very troublesome. You just wait for them to go and avoid sex until the sores have healed. But a few unlucky people have lots of recurrences, which can make their life a misery. Here is some advice for this situation.

    • Talk to your doctor about some anti-herpes drug therapy. This medication is most effective if you take it as soon as the attack starts, so your doctor may give you some to keep at home in readiness. For a really severe problem, your doctor might suggest that you take the anti-herpes medication continuously, and will discuss the pros and cons with you.
    • Look after your genital skin between recurrences. For sex, use plenty of lubrication to protect your skin from too much friction; look at the section on Vaginal dryness for advice on lubricants. Try to avoid over-vigorous sex or over-vigorous masturbation. There is general advice for women in the section on Vaginal and vulval problems – commonsense dos and don’ts’.
    • Keep your immune system in good shape by eating plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables, taking plenty of rest and not smoking.
    • Try to keep the problem in proportion. The UK Herpes Association has a very helpful booklet called Herpes simplex: a guide, which will help you feel better about yourself.

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